Need your advice Sup Forums Yesterday I had a discussion with my gf about our sex life. We both want to have more sex and more variety. She told me about past sexual experiences and told me about an ex FWB story. That guy picked her up, they went to his place and immediately started fucking. She used that example to explain what kind of spontanity and passion she wants us to have again.
I can't get the image of him fucking her doggy on the couch out of my head though. What shall I do?
Never ever ask your current gf about past sexual experiences. Better off not knowing shit.
Anyway, whatever she did is in the past. You can't do shit to change it. She is with you and not with him. She choose to be with you and there's a reason for that. There is a reason she's not with him. So get over it or fuck someone else to ease the pain but it won't help that much tbh
Parker Hernandez
I agree with you for sure. But she started with telling me this story without me asking.
Thanks, this actually changed my view a bit.
Colton Davis
This relationship is dead in the water.
Mason Torres
Why?
Charles Hernandez
Wrong Bro you may be upset but all you need to do is take that emption out on her. Fuck her doggystle hard, and squeeze her tits and pull on her hair and choke her and spank her ass. Give her a fucking and an orgasm she'll never forget. Remind her that you're in control and she's going to please you until you're satisfied and only then will you be done. Trust me bro. Just be smart and observe her reactions and bla bla.
Aaron Gonzalez
Same thing with me. She kinda just told me. I'm a transparent person. I told her I'd prefer not to hear these stories and she understood.
Funny enough I told her a while back I used to cum on my ex face all the time. Now she won't let me do it to her. Always better to keep those stories in the past. Dont kiss and tell
Wyatt Ortiz
Tell her let's have a thresome with your friend If she says no dump her If she says yes when you get to it make sure to act like it's the best thing when you playing with her friend not her when you done tell her this is much better now i know I deserve better than leave her You will be the happiest man that day
James Cruz
Have her make a list of things she has never done sexually. Then cross every item off the list.
And start spanking her regularly.
Brandon Lewis
>spontanity How about try educating yourself and do research on the matter, and maybe up your vocabulary a bit there, Bud.
There are plenty of material on the subject on the regular normie internet about how to spice up sexual relations with your partner. Just gotta do some reading and some experimentation to find stuff that is right for both of you.
Yeah sure, if he fucks it up. And you guys could be right. This could be her way of saying she's fucking other guys already, but I think it's 50-50 that this is her sincere effort to approach him with feedback on what she wants out of the relationship and if he acts on it he can reverse the problem by giving her more of the sex she wants before it's too late. Could go either way at this point.
Liam Morris
>emption
For real, I would say not to take advice from people tbat pick words out of hats to sound smart, but thats on your level right, OP?
What the list is either short or non existent.....fuck that
Nathan Price
P.S. user is right
Isaac Brooks
Thanks genius. I'll be sure to spell check every goddamn comment from now on. If you're gonna troll at least try to be clevar or funny. Btw I misspelled clever just to fuck with you retard.
Alexander Thompson
Heh, got 'em
Nicholas Price
Stop being a giant pussy and fuck that bitch how she wants. She wants spontinuity, pick her up from work , carry her into your house, and fuck her stupid. You asked her, just dont be a pussy when she tells you and give her what She wants
Gavin Green
Exactly. This isn't rocket science. Get her a shibari (that's the brand I got) mini wand handheld vibrator or one of the rabbit ears vibrators.ci got my girlfriend several toys and buttplugs, but those two are great. Fuck her while she's playing with the toys. Shell cum like nothing else. You use your imagination man. Spontaneity..
Josiah Ross
If your sex game is making her compare you to another dude she used to fuck, and she actually told you about how this other dude used to fuck her, you’ve already lost bro. Unless you can change it up and fuck her so well that you make her forget that other men exist, this relationship is on the edge of collapse.
Sex isn’t always the most important thing in a relationship- until it is. When her issue is this blatant and she’s this upfront about it- I’d just move the fuck on. She’s literally comparing your sex to past sex. 1. You fucked up this round, move on to the next skank and don’t fuck up, improve your sex game.
2. Any women who is openly comparing your fuck game to someone from her past is not a woman you want to invest in, as her maturity level is pretty fuckin low. There are ways to approaching this subject in relationships without damaging your partner.
Christian Brooks
like many of us mostly antisocial btards you have insecurities and probably shouldn't have asked about that. it's gonna eat at you until you acknowledge it happened and its done with and its not affecting any part of your relationship, that is unless you let it. move on bro, or this is the start of the downward slope in your relationship until you become single. >my ex gave someone a blowjob and later on got finger raped in high school and I couldn't get over either, even if the latter wasn't her doing
Robert Lopez
Sorry guys, I was afk for a while.
That sounds like a way to do it. I wasn't planning on not fucking her anymore anyway. Same brother, I'm not telling her that I discovered my passion for choking girls with a one night stand, otherwise she'll not enjoy it the she does now anymore.
wtf
That sounds kinda complicated and it would make me much more aware of the stuff she's done with past partners. "Fucking in the woods? Oh no I've done that with Mike". I'd much rather fuck her in the woods when the opportunity arises without asking if she's done it before.
Of course and that's why we talked about it. It came from her side and she started talking about ex partners.
I don't think she's the type of girl to cheat on me. But yeah, you never know.
That's what I'm planning on doing. These things didn't seem to work a while ago though, hence why we talked. I guess our sex life fell asleep a little after 5 years.
I think she was just trying to make a point and she told me she'd feel guilty if she didn't tell me where she had the example of spontaneous fucking from (aka ex fwb). Kinda strange, I know. If she isn't worth it anymore I'll move on for sure. But for now it doesn't seem to be too far yet.
I'm not too insecure but you're right, I'm thinking more about it than I should. And she started with the ex topic, I didn't ask for it.
Kevin Green
Jeez all girls got a past, you just got to fuck it out of them hard so when they think of hot moments they are moments with you.
Kevin King
The important thing is the sex. Do it more often and get kinky and these thoughts will leave you. I use to stress bout that kind of stuff too , but now if I had a thought of her fucking someone else I'll just fuck her harder and call her a dirty slut, that way the aggression leaves and eventually I realise how stupid I am for thinking about that stuff cause who gives a shit really , aslong as your getting some now that's all that matters.
Camden Carter
>There is a reason she's not with him. Yeah. He dumped her.
Kayden Diaz
>Have her make a list of things she has never done sexually. This is so beta.
Zachary Williams
>That guy picked her up, they went to his place and immediately started fucking. Try role playing this exact scenario. Show up when she doesn't expect it. Don't wait for her to warm up but be prepared with lube. Literally tear her shirt/top off. Throw her on the couch and pull her shoes and pants off. Do this literally.
Brandon Murphy
I used to do that with my ex gf all the time. Girls like that are a battle you will never win. Just enjoy fucking her while it lasts. No matter what you do she's eventually going to get bored and move onto someone else. The best thing you can do in the meantime is try all different types of kinky ways to fuck. It will only postpone the inevitable. After fucking 3+ times a day in all different ways you eventually run out of tricks. Don't take it personal it's just the way girls like that are. Enjoy it before it's gone.