could need some advice from a fellow bro. am to lazy for reddit so here goes nothing
>be me >22 >had been in a relationship for 3 years >first and only >fucked a bunch, she was my first, i was hers >broke up a year ago >get to know new chick at a party >qt3.4, short redhead with big tits, 7-8/10 maybe >im a more or less betafag with glasses, 4/10 at most >nice.jpeg >we hit it of >tldr; we been together for 2 months now >she is seemingly pretty serious about it, makes plans for next year, takes birth control so we can fuck raw, has introduced me to her friends and family, etc. >i should be happy, right? >one thing bothers me tho >she used to party and drink a lot >asked her if she had fucked a lot of dudes before me >she got all weird and defensive, didn't wanna tell >shes obviously been whoring around >"it wasnt that many user, i promise!" >pic related >this was all before we met, should not bother me >still does >really dont want to fuck it up with her >any advice on how to get over this? >am i retarded?
if her name is morgan, i fucked that whore. you should dump her if so.
Ryder Perry
You're retarded. She's with you now. Do you want to be held accountable for things you did before the relationship? You will push people away with that mentality.
Parker Roberts
There's a reason women got pissed off about the article that showed that men preferred debt free virgins without tattoos. Go to YouTube and check out Stefan Molyneux's video called The Truth About Sex. Put simply: you should never marry her, because she will divorce you.
Until your relationship inevitably ends (easy to do if you keep acting like a bitch), enjoy the ride. Either that or dump her and find a girl who hasn't been filled with miles of dick.
William Morris
I almost forgot. She's likely lying about birth control. Having a kid is a great way to get free money (unless you're a guy, in which case you're fucked).
Nathan Jones
this forum is riddled with incels and womanhaters. dont be or become like that user. you'll get over the insecurity with girls having many partners eventually. just fuck her and have fun. enjoy the sex and love. when time is right, you move on and get another girl, and keep doing that until you feel fullfilled. just remember to be carefull about deseases. wear a condom with one nighters. go bareback with girls you trust as fwb. live life and have fun. have experiences and learn. best wishes to you from a bro
Mason Gomez
You're a little bit retarded.
if you really like this girl, how many guys she slept with before isn't a good enough reason to fuck this up. If you really want to, ask her if she'd be willing for both you to go in to get check for STD's. that way you can just say you're trying to be responsible so that neither of you contracts anything from the other. besides that, there's nothing to worry about with her however many men she slept with, just like it doesn't matter how ever many girls you slept with. Just try to enjoy your relationship and stop overthinking it.
Ryan Ramirez
when she started taking birth control she was like: "k user, i just got myself tested, i dont have anything". alone the fact that she had to get tested kinda fucks with me.
rationally i know i should just stop thinking this way, but somehow i still do
Michael Reyes
my gf is a cute 37yo qt Asian and she's been with 5 guys. I'm the 5th. Not gonna risk getting stds from sluts.
let the relationship play out but under no circumstances should you marry her
Andrew Watson
Perfectly normal, perfectly healthy.
user, the rage and obsession I endured over such things at, well, 16-24 is indescribable. It’s a built in part of being a male of that age.
I’m not saying you’ll get to a point where this sort of thing won’t bother you at all... but you’ll chill out. For me it happened around 25-26. At a certain point, you get past peek testosterone, and your rage/obsession synapses are too burned out to bother you anymore.
Hang in there. Try not to take things so seriously. Exercise more and meditate or something.
>really dont want to fuck it up with her Well, you're well on the way >any advice on how to get over this? Stop being such a beta. The mere fact she had experience before you is none of your business >am i retarded? Yes. You're about to fuck up your relationship. And if you do is down to you. What are you worried about? That she's done things she won't do with you? That you're not as good in bed? That your little willie is smaller than theirs? That they made her laugh more than you can? That that actually accepted her as a person and didn't worry about her past, but enjoyed the relationship they had with her? That they didn't act like weedy little betas and worry about her sexual past?
Connor Sanchez
this/thread
great post
Wyatt Bennett
user either you let it go or insist on her telling you without prejudice. if you get an answer you don't like don't be an asshole. don't fuck this up dude
Thomas King
overthinking incels ITT
Robert Hall
you cant changer.
but take advantage and shag as many oter woman on the side. or at least look for a new one better on the side.
>current status will end your relation anyway
James Rivera
thanks for the advice i guess.
Jaxon Diaz
Ask to see the results
Adam Stewart
might just as well tell the rest of my thoughts for context
she has quite the tight circle of friends, 50/50 with guys and girl. recently found out that she had also fucked one of the guys. now its awkward as fuck whenever i am socially obligated to hang around with her friends. recently we had to, and the conversation centers around how the aforementioned dude she also has fucked is whoring around anew, then she says something like "well, everything thats not fast enough he fucks" with me sitting right beside. holy fuck that bothered me immensely.
the way she told me was that she had felt empty and lonely and thought that she could fill that emptiness with fucking around. she had never had a lasting relationship, i am her first "bf". this is more or less the exact opposite of how it was with me. had my first time with my ex-gf with 17, and subsequently were together for 3,5 years. now shes the second person ive fucked. dunno, for me sex has always been something deeply intimate. apparently not for her
again, i know it shouldnt bother me. i know that she is with me now, and that she wants to be. i know that i currently am the one who makes her happy. i know that this is my problem, and there is nothing she can do about it.
anyway, thanks for the help Sup Forumsros, maybe il get a grip on it
This is called retroactive jealousy. Google it. Might help
Chase Butler
Op, I know your pain. I recently started seeing a girl who lost her virginity at 14, was in two long term relationships before her fiancee broke it off, then how'd around on tinder for a while until she met me. I don't know how many partners she's had, and she may have even fucked a nig. But, she has a great personality, is very cute and mature, and thoughtful and sweet. I also know that out of anyone vee, I am her favorite when it comes to sex. I'm good with my hands, mouth, and the only person to make her cum purely from penetration, and she loves how I feel inside her. To me, knowing that I'm better than anyone she's ever had, enough to make her quit hoeing and becoming a monogamous partner even though we aren't actually together, is enough for me.
Julian Green
user you fucking bitch. she got tested. even if she is a slut, it means she cares about where she is now shes trying to change, hopefully. stick this one out, dont be a pussy. but also dont hold onto to a dwindling, fuck shit relationship do not waste your time or hers be upfront. but from what i can tell, she seems like a keeper maybe
Carter Johnson
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Juan Gomez
Dump the daddy issues whore REDFLAG . She is just gonna fuck you up nig. Or Stay and fuck her up more and leave her sorry ass to get a conservative white wifery
Jordan Nelson
might be this i wish you luck user don't overthink be happy - she cares imo
if you had a chance to fuck girls before you me her you probably would
Henry Davis
bet she also told you you're the biggest she ever had. I've got some news for you user..
Look up the statistics on divorce, as they relate to the number of sexual partners the bride had prior to marriage. Whoring around literally desensitizes human beings to love.
Not saying she'll cheat on you, but it's statistically more likely.
