why is it so fucking hard to meet people?
im one of the most outgoing people i know in literally every medium of meeting people yet nobody talks to me.
its not like im some retard sperg who doesn't realize he's annoying, i make connections with people that literally go nowhere.
am i just doomed to be a background character.
quit being a faggot
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Might explain a few things
what he meant to say is, "why should you wish to meet people? People suck!"
By “people” do you mean “women”?
have you done the sperg test?, whats your iq
maybe dont talk about your pony collection and people will be interested
i've got a gf but all i want rn is friends. i use her as a crutch for human interaction and i she says she doesn't mind but i feel like she's just pitying me.
people either assume you're not interested or they are genuinely not interested in you.
>im one of the most outgoing people i know
is this a party of 1?
pfff fuck it man, i go to work and i don't hang out with people... its fucking tiring to shit. i want to do my shit, i recommend the same... was married and i was the same, do you reall yneed people or you just want it for the status of having them?
taken thanksgiving. i atleast don't look enough like a troll to make people avoid me just because of looks.
Nice piercing faggot
party of 3 more or less, obviously looking to expand. still i can gauge i'm generally outgoing.
i need it for myself really, i don't give a shit about telling people i have friends i just want to be able to be with said people.
Maybe you're outgoing in a creepy way and it scares people off
Most people that "have friends" simply know a handful of idiots and are willing to hang out with them. People that you may not be willing to deal with. The whole friends thing is really a meme. You go through life and some people you connect with but typically even they end up taking off at some point. Especially male/female friends. Anyone else basically has to be into the same hobby as you. And even then its unlikely you will meet a friend you can deal with all the time.
Welcome to adulthood. Where friends are few and far between and really just acquaintances.
i thought that for a long time before my gf assured me otherwise, she told me honestly she wouldn't have talked to me if i hadn't made the first impression i did. i break the ice with people pretty well and try and hold conversations through texts but then they just fade away.
I suggest removing all piercings and do more manly shit.
Rule number 1: People are usually shit.
I would not hang out with you. Shave and take the shit out of your face. Get a mens haircut for christs sake
i plan on getting my nose too and i've never been a 'mans man' and i'm fine with that, i don't really want to give off that image anyways
Atifa fag
doesn't sound like i'd want to hang either
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This is true. Im 40 and was always popular in school and college. I always had my choice of lots of people to hang out with. Now I only have 1 friend and that is just fine with me.
what are your interests? find some groups to go to
it's sadly seeming closer to that day by day. i just hope to find literally anyone who i can connect with again.
No thanks. Im a midwest white guy if you are curious
You're 100% likely beat as fuck. Don't be jealous of a decent looking guy just because you're a total shit-show, user. Take your ceaseless faggotry elsewhere.
i'm really into music, used to play in a band before my bandmates just left town simultaneously.
other than that my gf and i go to D&D on wednesdays and sometimes go to live music downtown to find people to meet and enjoy some good tunes but nobody from either place usually messages back for long.
Not beat at all. Sick burn though
Shut up you fat beta male. Stop attention whoring.
Get a dog. Animals are almost always better than people
we've got a siamese cat named Bon Jovi, never been dog people that much.
That sounds like an interesting problem. Can you elaborate? Activities, places, country of residence. I have some ideas on this one, but I need my coffee first.
>but nobody from either place usually messages back for long
Sounds like you're just pinging semi-random people and they are just not comfortable enough around you to be more than acquaintances.
i think if you live in a rural area/midwest there might just not be a lot of people around
American, Texan to be precise. we try comic shops, dive bars, downtown hangout landmarks, facebook events, wherever we can converse really.
we spend most of our free time together unless she's out doing something then i just hang at home practicing music or playing vidya.
Let's be friends man
you're not entirely wrong, but i treat every time i meet someone like an actual connection. there's times where in the end of the night we're joking and laughing as if we've been doing it for months, then when time comes to keep the connection it just cuts short.
Sounds like you're doing a solid job at this. Way better than me, for sure. I would suggest to be more action oriented, ask people if they wanted to do a specific activity, but you already seem to be a hands on guy.
lol, I'm basically the opposite. I need half a year to be comfortable with anybody.
that's basically the main issue though, we've got all the ingredients for the possibility of genuine connection and still none have been found.
i'd have given up long ago if it wouldn't mentally wreck me to be alone.
Why won't you be my friend ?
you do look feminine..... also the piercings and shave that pubic hair off your face for fuck sakes.
well what kind of stuff are you into?
Bro I have
Chances are you just haven't found the person/people yet and that it's not you. Keep on doing social activities you like and someone will show up eventually
pegging
Music, art, mostly sculptures and paintings, video games, I like talking about my day to day problems like my shitty car or how unlucky I sometimes am. I like movies, and like to dress well. I'm as boring as one can be though I'm not one to refuse a dare or a challenge as long as it's fun. Are we friends now ?
again i only plan to add more, and the one person who sees my face everyday says they like it so i guess i keep it
>but i treat every time i meet someone like an actual connection.
That can be pretty nice, but also a bit overwhelming. Like with any market, matching is important in friendships.
Well no shit nobody wants to talk to you. Even I don't want to talk to you. Cya.
i don't really know how to facilitate an interaction on an anonymous public forum without other people wedging in
it absolutely is. i work myself up to put forth 110% effort at being sociable and then it's all down the drain cause the other person just stopped caring.
Easy pal Siileng#7474
COME AT ME FAGGOTS IM ARMED AND READY
spent longer than i want to admit trying that as a battle.net account.
i personally don't use discord anymore since i made mine just to meet people then none of those worked out. just felt degrading to make an account on something to be ignored on.
Then how do we solve this ?
You're trying too hard. I have a friend who's tries to be open and interactive as possible because he wants people to like him and he just comes off as annoying.