Be me

>be me
>random girl messages me on reddit about concert asking to go with me
>i ask to meet thinking it is a catfish
>meet her
>6.5/10 japanese girl with mediocre looks but interesting personality
>she rests her head on my should when we watch a film
>text her after about how i had a great time and hope to see her again(besides going to the concert)
>she says she feels the same way
>ask her when she wants to meet
>says she isnt free for another two months because busy with uni but still agrees on a day
>message her again after this about random shit
>starts taking at least three days to reply
>apologises for not replying for a while because she was busy with work and was sick
>i'm fine with that and tell her i hope she gets better
>wait three weeks before talking
>ask her how she is
>3 days later
>no reply or acknowledgement but she isn't dead and still posts on reddit

Am I just a faggot or did I do something to make her avoid me?

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Women are retarded don’t take it personal Sup Forumsro

>reddit

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Must have been something offputting to her go back through and try to figure out what but don't take it to heart humans are retarded especially women

I am confused is that a 540?

>says she isn't free for the another two months

This was her dumping you user. Shes just a woman so she wouldn't actually come forward and say it. You did nothing wrong but you have to move on.

maybe she got one of her friends to go to the concert with her? she messaged me twice with random shit related to the band, i messaged back again three times with random shit related to the band, each time she took at least two days to respond. either way i'm not going to publish a manifesto about it. just gotta move on and try harder Sup Forumsros

her exact words were "My dec hols start from 16 till 3rd jan but I’m pretty much free from dec"

still, gonna distract myself and forgot about her unless she decides to message me. tbh fuck that concert there is another a few months later with better bands.

i'm fucking stupid i didn't know refreshing changed my id. i am now exposed as a redditfag

she's probably too busy getting semen enemas from some dude who's hung like a mule and not so fucking needy

hit her up if you want

move on...why would you want to make a girl a priority who is so difficult to spend time with even if she WAS telling the truth about why she's being so unresponsive.

A few weeks ago I went out twice with a girl who is my definition of a 10/10 and she pulled the same shit and i decided in the meanwhile, I'm gonna talk to other girls

no thanks, I'd rather not get herpes from the sloppy seconds aftermath of her fucking a whole fraternity

Yeah probly a good idea. If you're the one always initiating that's a pretty good indication shes not all that interested. Its gonna suck especially cuz it sounds like you got your hopes way up probly a few weeks of feeling like dirt but you will get over her

her appeal to me isn't looks or a relationship. i genuinely just like hanging out with her. she didn't seem like the type to just ghost randomly but then again she might not have decided to ghost me. who knows

Are you too afraid to ask this on reddit because you'll be bombarded by soy boys and femcels who say things like "she doesn't owe you her time" and yadda yadda yadda?
Also did yall go to a concert or the movies?

Didnt make a move, did you?

she is a 6/10 and has been single for a year lmao. looks don't matter but she isn't a slut who fucks anyone... or at all pretty sure she is a virgin

probably. just gonna wait, if she never messages then ill have saved £200 to use on something else

she knows my account and even if i made a throwaway it's more interesting. i posted this to see how quickly i would be called a faggot lmao.

anyway we went to the movies, and the concert is still in 2 months time. haven't given her money for my ticket in case she pulled some shit like this

Pretty sure she is hunting for dick as we speak...

>says she's busy for the next 2 months

First clue brudda

she *tells* you that she is single

>you fell for the oldest trick in the book
>she's had more pipe coming in and out of her than a Home Depot

She used you for a concert you got played it's sad you didn't notice it sooner when she claimed to literally not have a free day for the next several months

man, u got reddit drained by a 6/10 hahahahahha fucking made my day

You have a small window to make them feel there's "a spark" between you two. You need to be assertive, compliment her on her looks and kiss her. Set the tone for your relationship early.

Its actually funny. You didnt necessarily do anything wrong at all, she could easily play the same routine with anybody else. "I think I wanna put energy into this."
"Wait no"
"Maybe"
"No"

Don't burn the bridge but yeah I wouldnt invest energy into it yourself for the moment.

only useful advice i have gotten. acting more needy will only make things worse and i can just assume she has reasons for now and if she never replies ill move on

You got it man. Best possible way to go about it. Happy to have offered some perspective.

U r a faggot

She wants rape. You should rape.

360

If she wants rape it's not rape!

don't text her and see if she text you first

She just doesn't know it yet. Secret rape.

Faggot.

Happy?

lift weights and/or do BJJ and you won't worry about 6/10s not wanting you.

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>BJJ
Not the superior .357.

Oh I have guns too but BJJ gets you in great shape and is fun on top of practical

So is Aikido.

yeah man the point is to do *something*
whatever you think is fun and enjoy

you're supposed to hang around her, be her friend, come to her house, be there when she got in motorcycle accident, next to her bed, when she's in a coma, :( I lost her didn't know where her family move after that, was 10 years ago DAMN i miss my friend

>starts taking at least three days to reply

oh come on you big fkin faggot, was this your first time chatting and being with a girl?! get used to it then.

she took 3 days to reply? cool, when she texts you back, you take 6.

So, she'll SOON be in holidays, right ? Why not merely text her, like, in a few days, and ask if she'd like to go somewhere with you ?