Gf is bi. How do I convince her to a threesome?

Gf is bi. How do I convince her to a threesome?

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ask?

you dont it will ruin the relationship

Show her threesome porn

Maybe for you bud. I am in same situation as OP. I asked my gf point blank and shes down. While I was at work one day she even made a tinder account to find a second girl

Threesome?
Ask if you want to hatefuck a trap?

this

The only alpha way to do if is to attract another bi woman to yourself, then introduce them and kick it off.

tell her to select the grill
make her present pussy to your liking

Make all about her

If she's bi, you don't have to convince her.
She's already there. Now it is simply a matter of having her pick up a chick to fuck.

Yeahh, Elon Musky...you was all time

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Is this spam?

experienced swinger here, scores of partners in every possible combination and scenario over the past decade or so. i've seen it all so heres some tips

1. having a bi girlfriend doesn't automatically mean she's down for a threesome any more than having a straight girlfriend means she's automatically down to fuck other guys. many women are attracted to other women and never show or admit to it, as it is most often irrelevant in a committed relationship.

2. inviting another person to the bedroom is the number one fastest way to ruin your relationship. dont say it wont happen to you, i've personally seen it dozens of times. sometimes just by simply pitching the idea.

3. IF you manage to have a threesome with another girl, don't be the guy who concentrates on the guest, your girlfriend will feel left out and it will lead to contempt and a fight, possibly the end of the relationship. again, i've seen this happen dozens of times

4. IF you manage to have a threesome with another girl, DONT exclude the possibility of having one with a guy too. It has to be fair, or contempt will develop over time. DONT use her bisexuality / your heterosexuality as an excuse to win this argument, it never works. Play fair or don't play at all.

5. lay out every rule, boundary, expectation, and escape clause before doing anything. if you are not on the same page going in, it will only end badly. VERY badly.

6. communication and brutal honesty are key. if you hide ANYTHING from your partner, whether its a feeling or an intent, it will end badly. even if the session goes well, any hidden feeling will breed contempt. you can never be prepared enough, because you have no idea how feelings change in the middle of a session. talking about it and doing it are two very different things.

any questions

Different guy, but some of the same experiences, and I want to add that a foursome is vastly better than a threesome. Two couples playing is so much less relationally and emotionally complex.

Yes, some people run bots, it's a common scam tactic, to tell people to search stuff and it brings up their fake website for phising or credit card theft.

Not the guy you responded to but he's right. Degeneracy decays and destroys a relationship over time. If you're not sexually committed, you may as well be friends with benefits. Only do if you don't want kids / a long term relationship with said person.

>adding a 3rd into your relationship
Enjoy going through a break-up/divorce in the near future

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My girlfriend is bi. She asked me if she could have a pass at my cousin. I let her and now shes been wanting a threesome with my cousin and me. I'm ok with it but my cousin isn't.

agree 100%, over the past decade we started to get away from singles and mainly hook up with couples now

Just remember that the divorce rate for marriages is 40-70% within five years of the marriage day. Being couples for life is not exactly a sure thing. But then, it never way - in the olden days people still left each other, they just couldn't divorce. And a lot more people died at early ages so remarrying happened frequently for the survivor. Ironically the large divorce rates benefit the children as being born out of wedlock was much worse then. A divorcee kid today will still be economically supported by both parents. In most levels of society anyway.

If people didn't rush to get married like they do now it would last longer. Prenups are a good thing to get it let's both party know that the marriage is genuine and they're not just after your money or belongings.

Ideally you have to get her to thin it was her idea

you genuinely believe that manipulation is the best way into a lifestyle that basically revolves around communication and trust?

Act really shy about the whole thing. It's just like introducing a new kink. Don't be over the top, just let her think about it

With girls? not even that user, but yes. indeed yes, sir.

If you need to convince her, you're a fucktard. Just ask. If she refuses, dump the bitch and get someone who has the same views and sexual desires as you.

If she's bi that means she just loves having sex. Your relationship is doomed so you might as well just ask her and have some fun with it. You gf is a slut anyways lol

That's not a gf. That's a fuck buddy. Learn the difference. She already has.

This.

Make her read this thread.

Then red-pill her with the shit test.

"What do you think?"

She wants commitment and chivalry? Then nah.

She wants to fuck around lay it down. She is a fuck buddy and needs to pay for her own shit.

If you give her a pass you probably either need to embrace being cucked for attention or turn off your feelings and become her manager and pimp her out.

Fuck around with these ideas nothing is foolproof the universe just makes better fools and fools out of all of us.

saying your "bi" is just what people tell themselves to hedge themselves against being in long term relationships.

I could simply join the wagon of guys already telling you that this will probably ruin your relationship, but I won't, because in some exceptional cases I saw it work.

Lets put it this way. It's not for sure things will change for the worst if you manage to bring another person in the bed along you 2. But things will change, and this is a fact.

You have to consider what you have to gain and what you have to lose.
She may as well ask you to splitroast her with another guy, and it would be checkmate for you, and you would become a cuck like the dozen american losers you can find in any cuck thread right now.

If you manage to clarify that it's something that you do just for fun and not to be repeated in every way, you could get away with that, but still after years girls tend to do a certain subtle thing in their mind: they pretty much consider what the relationship had to offer to them and make sort of a balance. They evaluate if it's worthy going on with you, because they have so many other guys that would gladly take your place that it's inevitable for the whores to actually resist. That's the reason why somebody still managed to have serious, durable relationship: they don't allow anything of this sort and mutually give up in discovering new sexy stuff. Others starts to fall and crumble just the way you seem to be, in my opinion of course, and judging from the few elements your post was about.

... I still would not do it if I were you, user. I'm one of those too much jelous partners, and the moment I doubt she's into me, I generally give up myself and actively search for another fish to catch. Girls have become like this. They move too fast for what I have in mind. Not even talking about putting up a family, I would honestly prefear a solid, durable, stable relationship. But I don't like to be cucked and I pref to give up at the first glimpse.

TL;DR most women are whore and will turn this kind of stuff against you just like FBI.

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I'm in Norway. We have that 55% divorce rate within five years and last I checked we were world leaders in casual sex per capita. And yet we also generally live together for usually a year or more before we marry. Average age for a woman to marry and have kids is 30. The man is usually a couple of years older. The single mom who doesn't have a father paying his part is an almost unknown concept.

As far as I can tell, we have every chance to choose our partner and get to know them pretty well before we tie the final knot. Trouble is, people change. And we no longer have to commit murder to get out a marriage gone bad.

I have a greentext about my bi ex-gf.

>be me at 19 (now I'm way older)
>fall in love with gorgeous 21 y old girl
>think she'll never be into me
>also they say she's gay
>meet her at parties because friends in common
>one night I talk to her
>"so, I heard you like girls?"
>"yes I do"
>"bad luck on my side I guess"
>"ahah, why? I also like you, actually"
>I had to freeze for some sec because I thought she was calling me gay or something
>"thought you liked girls"
>"I like both"
>same night I also discover she's engaged WITH A GUY
>we talk for a while she gives me her number
>she told me by phone she was actually already about to break up with the guy anyway
>I start to flirt, and it goes k

We have been toghether for 4 years, and the first two years were actually happiest years of my life, they still are, in my memory.
She left me for another guy (just what she did when she met me, so I guess I kinda had to expect it) then she came back with me after I somehow managed to fuck another girl we both knew out of hate for her. I always loved her even if I did this to her, I just could not forgive her for leaving me in the first place. She could have cheated too, but I guess it does not really matter. At that time it all seemed to matter so much.

We are still in contact, she is engaged with a guy I knew in the past. Not jelly of him, but she was my first love. She feels I've been the most important person for her as well. I'm happy we still see each other.

... We also attempted to do something like OP described in first post, with another couple of bi guys we knew, but the other girl was not into me enough, I have to say. My ex gf would have probably fucked gladly the other guy. This hurted me a lot, but you can't expect to be universally loved. At that time I actually felt depressed for months after the rejection from a person I was not engaged with, lol.

Thank you guys for the advice. For more information we are a very sexual couple and watch porn together often. I have convinced her to act many of my kinks already such as ABDL, bondage, collars/leashes, and others and she does them with enthusiasm. To top it all off, her Instagram and twitter feed is 90% sexy women models (this is how I found out she’s bi and she admitted it).

However when I brought up having a threesome/poly relationship she said no. Despite the fact that she tells me about girls she has crushes on, or when we pass by girls she would comment on their ass or such.

She has never been with another girl before. Why would she not be curious? Her reasoning escapes me. How do I convince her to not knock it before she tries it?

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You have to make her want it slowly overtime. Ask her what type of girls she's into in a casual not so sexual way. Eventually use this information to find a girl that she would have the hots for.

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mmh.
Let it stew for some time, maybe weeks, before pulling this off one more time.
You're in danger if she only said "no" without adding anything on the matter. Means this kinda triggers her in a negative way.

You dont, make her believe its HER idea.

Take her to a strip club and buy her multiple lap dances. Preferably in the back room. Be prepared to fork over big tips. You will have a GREAT time.

If you gotta ask you're on the wrong track, I suggest you log off the internet and do some introspective analysis of reality. In this situation you either coerce or suggest. Suggestion requires preparation, make them think it's their idea. The rest is up to you.