Ask a 36 year old kissless virgin and complete social and professional failure anything

Ask a 36 year old kissless virgin and complete social and professional failure anything.

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You in pic?

Is that really you?

Do you get just a regular dopamine rush from the self pity or is it a sexual thing?

Yes.

Yes.

Venting now and then feels good.

If you want some real advice you are not ready to live until you are ready to die.

The hottest women I ever got was when my heart was beating out of my chest and I still made the move.

I'm telling you it's going to be easy I'm telling you it's going to be worth it.

I don't know why I bother with these threads it seems like you guys never listen.

Making the move isn't difficult. Not looking like a creep with mental issues is.

And what exactly do you have to vent about? Depwession? I guarantee everything bad you have is your own fault. So fucking boring. Not even a good tragedy story here

>I guarantee everything bad you have is your own fault.

Damn it, you're right.

Then why not just DO something? The fuck are you waiting for? It's your life, retard. Why are you waiting for other people to do it for you?

just kys already.

>Then why not just DO something?

There is a difference between doing something and succeeding at it. I've been doing many things, but I never succeeded.

I remember you, hows molecular biology going? Why do you consider yourself as professional failure?

I have a similar build, maybe more on the side of boy chest then you. I find it hard to believe girls don't approach you. Personally taking my shirt off to go swimming is sometime enough for a girl to come up and try starting a conversation.

>Why do you consider yourself as professional failure?

Still a postdoc without career perspective.

Never happened. It's my face bro.

do you think free will is an illusion?

Facial hair covers alot bro. Keep that shit well groomed and you may have something.

Do u have a head?

I'm not able to grow facial hair except on the top of my lips, my chin and some patches on my cheeks. I tried to keep as close of a shave as possible but it still looks like shit.

Do u have lower legs?

how bigs your dick ?

Failure essential. Fail fast/often and learn from your failures so you can move on and eventually succeed. Don't dwell on failures or you will be doomed to repeat them. It really is that simple.

Some success now and then would be nice though. Until now, it was only failure. Guess I suck.

This.

>Guess I suck.
This is what's holding you back.

That I suck? Certainly.

Your self-destructive attitude

You could try hormone supplements or more extreme method. Past 40 your T levels are almost nil anyways may as well keep that shit going. It can effect a males metal well being if your low as well.

Where do I get some? My testosterone is on the lower side but within range.

Before you go taking that shit, what exactly is wrong with your face? And remember, it's not for you to decide if you're attractive or not.

Idk you can probably find that shit online. I have a buddy that has sources. Never actually tried myself but have seen results in him.

Go to Thailand and smash asian whores that lust for white men like you

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I have a rather long face which is not particularly masculine (rather weak chin etc.). In addition, I have a baby face which now starts to age (rings under eyes, wrinkles) without ever having looked adult. I cannot grow facial hair (which in itself is no problem) but I have a patchy beard shadow which I cannot get rid of manly around my lips. Like an involuntary Fu Manchu beard.

how much of a failure are you really?

No sex
No friends
Useless degree
Underpaid job

what makes you a professional failure? do you not have a job? or do you have a job and just suck at it?

are you on probation for being black?

must be an asian thing

Get off Sup Forums you fucking larper

I have a job. Which for most people is a transitory position. Long hours and low pay (50k in a large east coast city). But I cannot find a better position. And yes, it's because I suck at it.

I'm white as fuck. I was at the beach in Germany last summer and even there, I stuck out for being super pale.

I'm Caucasian.

at least you have your fitness lol.

just go get a prostitue then you can learn on your terms and explain to them you need a teacher. they won't care as they are getting paid, (i've been with a lot of prostitutes).

other option is find a fat girl with low self esteem and given your body type you will be way out of her league and she will be understanding and patient with you. (been with a good number of these women as well)

together this training will help you then land a hotty and build up that confidence.

I don't need to learn how to fuck. I need to learn how not to be a weirdo.

prostitutes are paid for their time you can fuck them or have conversations with them. you just need someone you can pay to get what you want.

>other option is find a fat girl with low self esteem and given your body type you will be way out of her league and she will be understanding and patient with you. (been with a good number of these women as well)

Yes I can confirm this works. Alot of the times they have hot friends too..

>other option is find a fat girl with low self esteem and given your body type you will be way out of her league and she will be understanding and patient with you. (been with a good number of these women as well)

OP here. I don't know whether its the city or the circles I frequent. But when I came to the US, I expected more fat people. There are usually many more hot girls (or girls which are out of my league) than fat girls.

i have that same underwear

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bump

cmon

How did you make it to 36? What made/makes you keep going? How did/do you keep up with the loneliness?
Im going sort of throu the same, except Im 26. Every minute is pain; dont know how much I can keep going.
I need a coping method.

Hobbies help. Working out helps too.

Your attention seeking is reaching the same level as the “why-can’t-I-hug-a-girl” faggot. Absolutely pathetic. Just get the sex change op already.

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I see this thread every day and they always boil down to the same blockades and reasons-
>I can't get laid because I'm socially inept
Yet somehow they always find an excuse not to practice and socialise regularly
>I can't get laid because I'm ugly
Yet somehow they always find an excuse to keep their standards obviously too high
>I can't get laid because girls don't like me
Yet somehow they've went on 100+ dates and never asked a girl to go back to their place after picking up on obvious social cues

At least you understand you're a failure I guess. Carry on

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Minoxidil brother, google it. You can buy a 6 month supply off ebay or amazon for like 80 bucks. Look up minoxidil beards. If you're genetically capable of growing a beard it will speed up growth for you.

Doesnt it kill you to feel so extremely disfuncional? You see normal people living their normal lives; dating, moving in together, getting married, having kids. Doesnt it hurt to feel so disfunctional?
Sorry for bad english.

>Yet somehow they always find an excuse to keep their standards obviously too high
well in theory a dude with a good body would be the looks match of a chick with a good body, in reality its landwhales though.

I don't know who you are talking about.

I wished I've gone to 100+ dates. Maybe had half a dozen. Also, what obvious social clues are you talking about?

My father can't grow a beard either. So maybe it is genetic.

OP here. Looks and body don't really matter. What matters is social position and I suck in that regard. Can't even be some ugly sugar daddy because I am poor as fuck.

bruh I'm unemployed college dropout and I have women buying me dinner, I don't mean to black pill you or anything but money and status don't matter for shit.

You are probably a pretty charming guy.

im a complete dickhead according to every woman, i get carried by looks and not being a bitch

You dont know how to women, striking out sucks but you dont even get on the feild lower your standards fuck a fat chick smoke weed get a good job.

Look dude the way your body looks is more than enough. Even if you are butt ass ugly, I'm sure there are PLENTY of bitches (old and young) that would want you to Fuck them

Damn. I look like shit and I am a gigantic bitch.

I wish I could land a decent job. Made some stupid decisions in my youth and early 20s though.

I'm still kinda skinny. But I used to be very skinny (pic related) before I started to work out regularly. Nothing has changed though. I never noticed any difference in how girls treat me. And this includes places where I don't wear a shirt.

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>Damn. I look like shit and I am a gigantic bitch.
well one of those things is easy to change, can't imagine you looking that bad though considering the bodyfat n shit

Changing your looks is easier than changing your personality.

How does a typical interaction with a girl normal go? Are you not making any moves at all? Judging from what I can see in that pic your face looks fine.

You have a nice body, OP. What's your diet like?

>Changing your looks is easier than changing your personality.
this is bitch mentality, also you can never change a deformed face and many other aspects of your looks.

Awkward, stuttering small talk until she decides that she rather talks to someone else.

Lots of cock.

I'm somewhat fit 34 yr ex-virgin. Lost it to a model from seekingarrangement.com yesterday. Paid her $600 and had good time. I'm sure you can save some money. You can only see a girl once by looking for the ones who do pay per meet arrangements. Doesn't mean you have to see her every week.

Are you russian? It must be hell being an incel in Russia.

You have this body
and you're a KV?

I don't think so, let alone a failure socially/economically.

Depression is not a "clinical illness"

Everything is NOT an individual's fault.

There is zero sympathy or compassion in this world from anyone at all, especially us freaks on the bottom to each other.

Meanwhile if I tried to major in any STEM when i'd had the money, the best I'd have ended up with was an undergrad in bio .... and undergard degrees in STEM that aren't in engineering are worthless....

chingchongs are ugly and smell bad...
it's why ladyboys are soprevalent there and their women exploit vulnerable unloved white men..

Personality is part genetic and part environment.

"Changing" it is kinda like trying to change your blood type.

Ludicrous.

What helps me is try not imagining what the perfect interaction would be. Being simple as fuck helps calm the awkward body language. You can get away with saying some weird ass shit if you look calm and collected.

German living in the US.

I dont think its self pity. He wants sympathy. It is a dopamine rush. Almost justifies his way of living.

>chingchongs are ugly and smell bad...
This is why you're a virgin standardcel.

Wtf so being foreign doesn't even help you? foids are pure evil.

>You have this body
>and you're a KV?
>I don't think so, let alone a failure socially/economically.

It's true though.

>Meanwhile if I tried to major in any STEM when i'd had the money, the best I'd have ended up with was an undergrad in bio .... and undergard degrees in STEM that aren't in engineering are worthless....

OP here. All degrees in bio are worthless.

Sadly that's the "STEM" I'd be good at AND like... oops....

It's not wrong. Their faces are funky, their lips/nipples/areolae are dark too... I mean...

I could have a harem of so called 10/10 barelylegal azns... and I'd STILL yearn for me a cute enough white girl...

The assumption of "dopamine" underlying pleasure is either false...

Or I am clinically immune to amphetamine in any dose which would create such a response.

Take your pick.

Op is a white supremacist no wonder he is a virgin.

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OP here. Where did I say that? The guy hating on Asians isn't me.

There's plenty of beautiful cute Asians and their feminine aswell unlike white sluts.
Sometimes you just have to compromise if you want to find love and happiness.

Not like this. Though I envy Leno for his complete absence of a beard shadow.

I can guarantee there's a femanon in this thread right now, thinking she'd like to ride you.

Trade your cognitive dissonance for self confidence.

>Personality is part genetic and part environment.
>"Changing" it is kinda like trying to change your blood type.
>Ludicrous.
na fam being a pussy ass bitch isn't
>muh genes, can't do nuffin about this

White is right.
It's okay to be white.

PS it's not white supremacy to think white chicks are objectively prettier than Asians or Blacks :)

Beautiful in comparison to ugly chciks maybe.
Take a 6/10 white girl and she's probably making the 9/10 Asian pale in comparison to me.

I just have a thing for the western white girl facial features as well as the skin tone....

You can't "compromise" if you want "love and happiness" becuase you can't fool yourself and you know you're trying to settle.. and wel.. when you yearn for something, it's obvious...

Well, let's let her speak up then.

What are your stats OP?
Height, weight, big four lifts. Looks like you're skipping leg days.

"pussy ass bitch"
oh yes it's so easy to just "man up"
why feels are just imaginary and magically go away when you will your feels away!

My main sport is rock climbing/bouldering, so I only lift as a supplement while keeping my weight in check. For leg day, I do some normal barbell squats regularly but I prefer explosive movements (box jumps) or one-legged exercises (particularly pistol squats).

Actually, I'm not very strong:

Bench: 1.3 x BW
Overhead: 0.7 x BW
Squats: 1.2 x BW
DL: 2.5 x BW

Not going to argue with op he is currently hopeless. My last advice is in brace your solitude, only then you will be able to work on yourself. If you arn't happy with your self you will never get a gf. Having a girl friend isn't the key to happiness it's the reward.

Most of the time, I am pretty happy. But then it dawns on me that I am actually a pretty big failure.

Why haven't you killed yourself yet?

Exactly. You are not happy with your job, social status, not having a gf, ect. What builds confidence in us guys is success. Fuck the bitches and see what you can do about your carrier. To say you can't is not a good answer.

I've been sending out hundreds of job applications over the last half year.