What does being a bottom feel like?

What does being a bottom feel like?

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>Be me
>girlfriend likes milking my prostate
>so do I
>girlfriend works at sex shop and brings home strap on
>why not?.jpg
>warm up
>GF slides it in
>its kinda uncomfortable, but not bad.
>she goes slow til I get used to it
>10 minutes later, I'm face down, ass up being pounded like a whore
>head feels like its going to explode
>tension and pleasure building from my crotch, into my torso and limbs
>"oh my god! Don't stop!"
>she keeps going
>"yes! Fuck me harder!"
>she does
>the tension becomes unbearable, I feel like I'm about to pass out
>cum starts spraying out of my and I'm moaning uncontrollably an octave higher than my normal voice
>"don't stop, don't stop. Pound my ass"
>cum continues pouring out of me and I begin shaking uncontrollably
>we collapse on top of each other
>I sleep good that night
>she pegs me at least 3x a week until we break up
>I miss being fucked by her.

Its my favorite way to have sex. I cant speak about doing it with a guy, but getting pegged by a hot girl is incredible.

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Probably not like what you're expecting if your experience of it is just sticking a finger or two up there.

Even if you own a collection of giant dragon dildos it will likely still take a few attempts at bottoming before it becomes enjoyable, and at the very least you need to know how to douche properly to make it enjoyable, but I also found that shaving helps. The only the other thing you really NEED is to seriously want to be a bottom. If you're doing it because of porn brain or because someone has talked you into it then you aren't really going to like it. I'm not even saying you have to be a raging homo to enjoy it, just that if you are arrow straight you probably won't like it just because it's sex with a man.

As for the sensation well it's pretty singular. I guess when it's good it's kind of similar to the pleasurable sensations you can get from taking a shit. I've never managed to have a prostate orgasm and I don't even know how to tell if my prostate is being stimulated but I can tell you that I still enjoy it anyway.

tl;dr it's kind of a mild, satisfying pleasure if you have a bit of practice and know how to prep

I've always said that so long as your relaxed, clean, and lubed, the worst that happens is a relaxed feeling in an area that normally holds a ton of stress. Gonna sound gay as shit, but I felt like I was walking on a cloud the day after getting fucked.

How much experience you have back there? I'm fairly certain prostate stimulation is sorta the pressure you feel on the front of your pelvis and your dick when everything's angled right.

Awesome write up. How long did it take you to enjoy it?

About as pleasurable as being a top, but you're probably not gonna nut til' someone jerks you a bit.

It's like having a dick in your ass

One big reason I wouldn't try it is because I'm afraid of being bored. It seems like a fine idea but in practice I'd probably just be bored and feel kind of silly. I'm not worried about shame or regret because at least that could be hot, I don't want to stare at a pillow for thirty minutes while someone does their thing.

So true. I always feel super after using a prostate massager.

And idk what he meant, when I stimulated my prostate it feels great and I know when I'm stimulating it vs not.

so you only care about your own pleasure

>How much experience you have back there?
Not much. I've only done it a dozen times. I'm not super worried about prostate stimulation or even getting off. Personally I find it pretty enjoyable just to go along for the ride (no pun intended).

Didn't start enjoying it until my third attempt, which was ironically the biggest dick I've ever had at a pretty thick 7". I nearly didn't meet with the guy because of the size of his dick but he seemed well adjusted enough that I trusted him not to tear my asshole in two. I think a big part of why I enjoyed it with him was because I was 11/10 horny and because I did a like 20 odd minutes of fingering and butt plug work before I left the house to go meet him. Then there was more fingering at his place and by the time he put it in I was able to get 3 fingers all the way in, so I was pretty ready. The only thing about it was that he was too long to comfortably take the whole length.

That's one of the things I actually like. I like to give pleasure to someone else even if I don't get it in return. More of a psychological enjoyment than a physical one. I'm not at all a submissive person with women or just in my general personality, but when I want to bottom I like to submit and be made use of.

You can still do that with women. They actually get really into it. And yes, it's a total thrill.

Gotcha, do you think it was because you were hornier than usual when you (...well technically he was..) were going into it?

I do enjoy giving pleasure to women even if there's nothing it for me, sure, but it feels different, more like I'm doing it for my benefit than theirs.

Why not get fucked by a man?
It's just as gay, and maybe you'll get aids and die you worthless faggot larping asdjsdigdfsoghdsfiuifhgidosuvgugctfulfh6tr7

Agree completely. It just feels great, regardless. I've had guys who I really tried expressing that I really didn't care what was going on so long as they were having fun. Don't stop to check on me, pound me like you own me.

The funny thing is, in my experience, only caring about your own pleasure is pretty much only wanting to suck dick or bottom. Everyone wants vers. Gay guys love taking dick more than the average woman.

Gotcha. As long as your both having fun, it's all good.

It definitely helped a lot. Hard to say whether it was a bigger contributor than all the fingering that went on though. Should also say that he spent a long time edging himself. In total there was about 45 minutes of penetration. For me it can take 5-10 minutes to get fully relaxed and opened up and everything after that gets more enjoyable the longer it goes on as long as you know how to keep your butthole relaxed for prolonged periods.

I'm not going to go out and find a dude to fuck me just to make them happy. If I were already dating a dude or the right chick I'd let them assfuck me for their enjoyment alone. I say right chick because my ex always wanted to fuck me in the ass and I didn't let her because of trust/respect issues. I can get off on being used but only if it's by someone who lets me use them at other times. I guess even if I didn't like it at the time it would still be a hot submissive memory that would get me off in the future, which is what lets me do gross stuff after orgasm.

Anyone know how to be clean for a long time?

Seems like everytime I try to schedule a hookup the original time gets set back, I get worried about my cleanliness because I've already cleaned out but I don't know how long it'll last, and I put it off for "just" a blowjob. Also, I have a free use fantasy, and I don't know how well it'd work with anal

You jelly?

>when I was 18 I got jebaited by a trap, being really drunk/stoned and having already had my dick sucked before 'she' let me know I agreed to fuck
>within seconds of telling me she was slapping her cock across my face trying to get me to blow her but I refused to open my mouth
>this led to makingout while stood as she rubbed our cocks together and tried to finger my ass, then spanking me everytime I tensed up to stop her
>eventually I got into it and I started fucking her doggy with my hands finally stroking her cock and grabbing her balls as I fucked her
>she then crawled forwards on the bed and turned to face me, sat at the top of the bed with her legs spread
>before I could think about what I was doing I was on my chest licking and sucking her cock until she asked to fuck my ass
>I initially said no but after much pleading and telling me it would feel good I finally conceded and she fucked my virgin ass missionary
>after shed stretched me out the pain subsided and she turned me into her little ass slut, spreading my ass for her and moaning


felt really good both physically and how it made me feel that she managed to get me from thinking she was a girl to fucking my virgin ass within 20-30mins
going to go see an trap escort tomorrow night for her to dominate me while I wear my ex's panties

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Jebait!

Poor user...

I don't clean things out until I've got a set time down. Often it's a safer bet to clean things out ahead of time by an hour or two but like you say, things get moved around and people flake and stuff. I've never had a problem with prepping half an hour before actual penetration starts. Not sure how long a good douching will last but you've definitely got at least a couple of hours.

Sounds like a fun night. I'm kinda curious as to how "the real thing" feels, but I'm not into guys.

I don't think you can be made to understand where I'm coming from because it just doesn't do it for you. Making the top happy DOES make me happy.

Like when you mow the lawn and then stand around feeling like it's a job well done. It's like that. You relax your butthole and take whatever they can throw at you and afterwards you're satisfied by a job well done.

It was awesome, but yeah she was really unstable and had jealousy issues.

I miss her because she was actually studying to be a sex therapist. I've always been a really horny person since i first 'noticed' girls. It was an incredible relationship sexual, but she was crazy and not marriage material in almost every other way.

It's different to a dildo or your fingers or a carrot or whatever you've used. You'd have to try it to know what the real thing feels like and it's a very different experience to just playing with your ass in the shower.

If you're not into guys I don't recommend trying.

Personally I think that straight guys could absolutely enjoy it but you'd have to be able to separate the sex from who was doing it to you and that's hard.

I bet shes not pegging her current man

Based on this, I'd definitely say you should wait until you find the right person but you should also definitely still do it because you're obviously interested.

When I started I wasn't sure if I was into dudes and everything felt weird, BUT I also just viewed sex as sex. If it didn't work out, it would just be bad sex but it wouldn't define me. Not like I haven't had bad sex with women. I'm not going to seriously put my value in myself on the fact that I ate a dude's asshole while he called me a faggot. It was hot and I was proud of being in such a crazy porno moment.

If you don't take it seriously, you can have a fun time. If you do and it goes bad, it's gonna go real bad.

I completely understand. And yeah, I'm resigned that some fantasies should stay fantasies.

Pretty much the only situation I'd consider would be a super hot woman (like Salma Hayek from dusk til dawn) with a dick, walks in and wants to fuck me. I know it's highly unrealistic, but it's hot as hell as a fantasy.

What makes you say that? And idk, I've stayed away from her since we split. She's been married and divorced twice.

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>BUT I also just viewed sex as sex. If it didn't work out, it would just be bad sex but it wouldn't define me. Not like I haven't had bad sex with women. I'm not going to seriously put my value in myself on the fact that I ate a dude's asshole while he called me a faggot.
This is definitely how I feel, I know I'm not going to freak out after I lose my boner and want to kill myself because I let some dude in my ass. It just needs to be someone whose pleasure I care about, not some rando I only want for dick. A dude would be better because I know what he's getting out of it instead of a chick where I feel it's more about the mentality of shoving plastic up my ass (even though I know strapons can give stimulation to the wearer). After I fuck another chick I think I'll have the sexual confidence to start fooling around with dudes again in a big way.

You do you, man! Live your best life with whoever you live with.

>fiction
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>falsehood

>tfw can't find a top who just wants to spend 30 minutes a week pounding me without trying to suck my dick in return

Life is suffering.

It happened. You mad bro?

I get what you're saying but there really are chicks out there who do like submissive, weak, beta dudes. I broke up with my ex in part because I was self-conscious about my masculinity and she immediately got herself in a relationship with an MtF she pegs regularly. Yeah the percentages are bleak but I'm pretty far from typical and don't like what I'm "supposed" to like and the same is true for most of the people (including women) I know. 95% of women want a real man but I don't give a fuck about 95% of women.

Idk but I’d kill to have some dude with a fat ass 6 inch dick destroy my virgin ass

lol

I've thought about trying to find a total bottom and agree to trade off with him, figure we're both going to know exactly what the other wants, but at the same time I just don't wanna do it. Not turned on by man ass.

It's a shame I'm not/couldn't be a CD. I see black guys all the time just looking for a CD to use. I just don't see it in non-super petite men. For anyone who does, more power to them.

I got you. That's not me though. In my daily life I'm very masculine and love doing guy stuff.

With my ex, I broke up with her. She was extremely unstable and not marriage material. I had issues with her stalking me after we split.

My current GF pegs me every once in a while, it's just a thing we do. More often than not though it's just good old fashioned PIV. She actually likes it because, I'm masculine. According to her, its because "I'm extremely secure with who I am, and it's just a thing i enjoy physically." The psychology of it is hot too, but for me the physical is just as good.

Soo...he was behind of that..?

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>a week
you mean a day?

t. bear

I admit I'd probably have an easier time of it if I didn't look like 6' tall straight man with a short beard. I know the facial hair has killed interest a few times but I like it and I only sit on dicks very occasionally so I prioritise the beard. I'm just too masculine for most "total top" guys who are looking for fem types who moan like women and wear lingerie.

I have a CD/sissy kink, not into guys though. It adds another dimension to pegging and solo play and is really fun

I don't have that kind of spare time and prepping for anal every day messes with my gut health. Once or twice a week would be fine to scratch the itch.

You say that but there really are women who'd instantly lose interest in you after fucking your ass, no matter how masculine you are the rest of the time. "I just couldn't see him as a man after that" is a disgustingly common thing women say to break up with dudes who they saw crying or get beat up once, no matter how masculine they are the rest of the time.

there is a very high need for twinks, just twinks not traps or cds

>not having the superpower of libido of 10 men

I'd try it maybe once but I've tried plenty of anal play and it's such a huge hassle getting clean and stretched for something I don't enjoy at all. I will say putting in a butt plug once or twice a week would probably be great for my shits/anal health, a little bit of stretching has done wonders for too-big shits.

I actually like to bottom more the less I'm enjoying it. To this day the best sex I ever had was with a guy I met off CL a couple of years ago who I organized to help me out with a fantasy. We met up and I sucked his dick for ages and then when we got to anal he went slow and I jerked it like crazy until I got off. Blew cum all over my stomach within 60 seconds and then he spent another 15ish minutes fucking me. It was uncomfortable the whole time and it was amazing. He finished on my stomach too then wiped up globs of our cum and fed them to me which I hated but went along with.

Exactly. Except the moaning part. If I get hit just right, there's no play involved.

On this topic, is there anything you can do it combat over enema-ing? I try not to do it but I'm also the guy saying I had the free use fantasy.

Oh yeah, I get that. It's just never been a factor in my relationships. For me a woman like that wouldn't be marriage material.

She didn't lose interest, we kept fucking like rabbits after. And like I said, I dumped her because she was nuts


For me, what we do in bed is for fun. If there are hang ups and kinks that dont line up that's fine, I'll move on.

I don't think I count as a twink. Too much body hair even though I trim it and of course the beard. What I'm saying is I'm too masculine for most guys.

I don't trust dudes enough to fuck them. I'd love to have earnest sex with a cute/nervous dude but statistically I'd end up with players, which is something I don't want to reward even without the AIDS risk. I'm super uncomfortable with male sexuality in general but don't have that feminist kink where I want to get off on the thing I want to burn down

Butt plugs in a couple of different sizes (probably bigger than you're imagining too) are the best thing you can do to get better at anal and get more enjoyment out of it. Just wearing a medium sized plug for 15-20 minutes while you're blowing a guy is the simplest way of getting some pre-stretch happening. Honestly if more women were open to wearing butt plugs they'd like anal more instead of all being afraid of it.

The other bonus of plugs is that fingers are surprisingly rough and it can often be really uncomfortable or even painful to get fingered by someone else so just sticking a plug in neatly skirts around that issue.

Any specific plug recommendations? I need to get a new one.

This tbh

What?

I've just got some ebay cheap little one that like 1" diameter for a small plug and then a doc johnson medium plug for my bigger one. The medium is definitely bigger than you'd expect, can't remember the diameter but even now it's pretty much at the limit of what I can take unless I spend half an hour working on it. It gets a good reaction when guys pull it out because it's always bigger than they think it's going to be. My move is to excuse myself to the toilet, stick the plug in, then come back and that way they get to discover it when the pants finally come off.

honestly I've wanted to try bottoming but the whole douching thing just sounds like so much work and not actually very healthy. Is it actually necessary? This article says if you eat enough fiber so long as the guy doesn't have a massive dick it can actually be cleaner to not douche
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Nice. Thanks for the advice. Any experience with the bvibe snug plug?

Get fucked or don't. Do what makes you happy, user....I care about you....

Play with your own ass, some people are fine and some will need to douche. My ex's ass was always clean enough to eat out of despite not eating much fiber and never douching, meanwhile I can't get two knuckles deep in my ass without hitting paydirt. Bad enemas can make things messier and using a lot of lube will keep anything inside your rectum from sticking to his cock. It depends how much risk you're willing to accept, but if someone's penetrating an anus they're probably not going to puke at the first fleck of shit.

Yes it's necessary. I eat the recommended amount of fiber and I still find it uncomfortable to take it up the ass without douching.

The few times I've done it without, after a few minutes it starts to feel like you're about to shit yourself at any second (which you may or may not actually be in danger of doing). Not getting shit on his dick is moreso just a side benefit of me being able to actually enjoy the penetration. If I'm properly cleaned out I can probably take an hour or more of butt play without ever feeling like I'm in danger of soiling myself.

W-well gee... thak ye, sir

No problem. Civility and respect is in short supply. Live your best life user. Tell you girl you love her, buy your mom some flowers and your dad some beer.

Any plans for the weekend?

No homo but the main reason I'd let a dude fuck my ass is so I could go ass-to-mouth on his cock after. I've never gotten pleasure from anal.

What does a facial feel like?

The idea gets me going but I'm honestly not a fan of cum as it is. I'd rather swallow and only have to deal with the taste for 2 seconds than have to spend a couple of minutes cleaning off my face but the idea of letting someone do it when I don't want it is even hotter somehow.

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I have a secret fantasy of going to prison and becoming somebody's wife. I think this is the only way I'd ever become a bottom. If they told me in jail I had to take a dick or take a shank, I would bend over and take a dick and be a male sex slave.

If you don't have facial hair it's really not a big deal (don't get cum in your eyes obviously). Just like warm water being flicked in your face. Shave well so you can scrape it into your mouth.

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Is it true that eating cum is really good for your health?

No, who thinks that? It's a tiny volume of liquid so it doesn't make a difference either way.

No but it's good for your skin if you're willing to use it like a face mask and walk around smelling like cum.

it feels good if you find the right guy that knows what hes doing and has a cock not too big or small.
i only have one guy i let fuck me bare. hes the only one i let breed me.
but honestly i have let others fuck me bare but only for a few seconds. ive learned that they will cum without telling me and i assume they all want too so i just let them fuck for a little while.
the best felling is when thier cock head touches my hole and goes in. right as it goes in thats the best feeling. then next would be the feeling of it when its all the way in and just stays inside.

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Best feeling for me is when a guy is just a little bit too big. Not big enough to hurt you but big enough that he has to go really slow until you relax more. Second best feeling is after a long fucking when your asshole is just kind of hanging loose for the next hour.

It's definitely nice when you get that "I have to just let go and trust this is going to work" feeling with a big dick/toy.

lots of fiber. after 1-2 weeks you shit clean solid poop. but also dont eat shit food.

And then a few minutes later you've relaxed and you can take it easily.

Yeah

It's funny how it's sorta anxiety based and I know how the sensation will work but it still happens and I still like it happening. It's like truely giving your asshole up....

Jesus christ, I need to get fucked

Feels like the inside of your ass is cramping and burning!!!

ever been fucked by two guys?

I don't like anal but I do like the thought of being submissive to a guy. Would do it to please someone.

Good bottoms don't need to like it, just shut up and do it.

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