Question guys, is it wrong of me to sometimes be bothered by my girls past?

question guys, is it wrong of me to sometimes be bothered by my girls past?

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What bothers you about it? Also, is pic related?

kinda, its not her but she let a guy in college take a pic of her like that and just the stuff she let guys do

It will ruin your relationship if you let it get to you. Decide which is more important early.

For the most part, yes it’s wrong. You’re the only one fucking her now bro. Unless she has a really extensive history of being unfaithful lol

More often than not, being bothered by a girls past is a projection of your insecurities.

It's not wrong, but it is unattractive.

not unfaithful just some of the stuff shes done

you should talk to her about whatever it is.
it is wrong for you to be scared to talk about things with her, if it's on your mind. - that's the biggest break down in a relationship.

what bothers you about that? try to think honestly and rationally, it will help you decide what to do next.

idk the fact that someone has a pic of her like that and probably more

It's pretty normal especially for young guys. Eventually you realize that you have a bit of a past as well and it really isn't a big deal. You maybe did some stuff like take pics or have sex in a public place with your girl and you know it wasn't to demean her, you two were just having fun. It was likely the same deal for her and another guy once.

Now if she has a giant list of dudes she's fucked and did all kinds of sick shit with that's a different story. It's pretty normal not to want someone that was essentially a fuckpig for dozens. You just need to be reasonable when it comes to the number.

depends, are you taking care of her? if you're mooching on her that means she likes fucking you which means she's not just using you for stability. (american)girls will date a man just for stability but let a mf fuck their whole life up for some dick, and theyll always be more loyal to the dick

Hey OP, you're not Marco fucking Polo.You didn't snag her in kindergarten so stop being a bitch boy. It's not like she was cheating, sounds like someone feels inadequate and that's a "you" thiing

we are living in an age where pretty much every girl you meet, or date, will have nudes or semi-nude photos of them on the internet.
besides that, guys they have met and had sex with, will have 'wank bank' memories of them, from times they have dated or had sex.. so it will always exist.
if you can't handle it, you just have to end it, because there is literally nothing you can do to change what has already happened - but you can choose to accept it happened, and focus on your relationship instead. it's all you have got, unless you are too unhappy to continue.
do what's best for you user.

whats your definition of giant list? and she said some of the guys were douches to her

Anons like you make this site worth visiting

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She's a whore. Fuck her for awhile and then dump her. She's going to cheat on you eventually. That's just the way it is now.

It’s not wrong at all, but if you dwell on it, it’ll end up ruining your relationship.

Remember that you’re the better person. Women who whore out when they’re younger are lucky to settle with half decent guys afterwards. Most have to settle with sub-par candidates and illegitimate children for the price of their “fun” they had.

Thanks man

That changes for everyone. If you're not a hypocrite though, it's likely around a number that you wouldn't like to go over personally.

No. So long as you acknowledged her right to be bothered by yours. We all have things in our pasts that bother us. If it's bad enough it really wears on you then you shouldn't be with her. But it's normal to be a little uncomfortable about a few things.

Yes. Her past was before you. Your concern is the person in front of you and who she is.

true and like I said its not that she had sex with a ton of guys, just did alot of stuff with shitty dudes

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Yeah it's normal. Being a whore isn't a great quality lol wtf

Ultimately, it comes down to what you're comfortable with. A lot can mean different things to different people, same with what constitutes a shitty dude. Just don't be a hypocrite when you're making your decision.

Anons like this make this site not worth visiting

I can't stress THIS enough.

she told me a bunch of stories and details so I know for sure

Then you have the information you need, all up to you man. Just ask yourself if you're being reasonable and rational and if you would hold yourself to the same standard.

Why not think about your girl's past?

She still does. Every night. Especially when she's with you.

Doesn't matter how good you are, to her.
She still thinks about allll the other cocks.

pic related?

kinda its not her but she let some guy take a pic exactly like that

And she still thinks of him. Nightly.

lets see a pic of her, then we can decide

Women aren't after anything rational, like support, nurturing, sanctuary, or a provider.

All they want is glory--showing off, admiration from others, living/shining in the moment. Only a violent, criminal thug or pretty boy or heartless rich man can provide that.

The most you can ever be is good enough for now.

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A girl with a past is like a camel with short legs - Useless!

Hey man, all girls have pasts, even some of the sweetest, most innocent ones. Here's a little true story. Went to a Jesuit high school. There was a nearby girls high school, also Catholic. Seemed to be three types of girls there. Prude virgins, the girls who didn't really care about virginity but had steady boyfriends, and the technical virgins. The last was the ones you wanted to find. Since they could keep up appearances of being good, they also would put out more. Had lots of fun with a couple of them during high school, mostly BJs, but also fucked one girl in the ass.
Went to a catholic university on the West coast after college. Sophomore year, meet a Freshman girl, from same hometown/city. She went to the girls's school, but hadn't ever run into her since different grades. She lost her virginity to me eventually, but did a lot in our first six months together. More BJs than I could count, and would let me fuck her in the ass at least once a week. We got married after college. Still married. Eventually get around to asking her when she started fooling around in high school. She started freshman year. She was a technical virgin. Found out she blew like 30 guys from our high school. Several her grade, a couple older than me, mostly my grade. Let about 20 fuck her in the ass too, again mostly my grade. Had my 10 year reunion three and a half years ago, almost all from class showed up. More than a dozen guys there that night had been in her ass.

we all have baggage. be happy she's sucking your dick and stop being a pussy

nah man. You're bothered what you're bothered by, you can't just ignore that shit. If you can't ignore it, move on.

>being a whore

i think you mean being a sexually active human being

you've never had sex before? are you "waiting for the right woman"? nah you just have shitty archaic double standards because nobody wants to fuck you and it's the only way you can justify that being a good thing for yourself lol

one of the main things is a bunch of the guys are all friends with her friend group so when we visit her college friends its like great, 4 or 5 other guys here have had her naked

you've got some weird vicarious fantasies user

it just means you're insecure. which is normal for every man

lol ok kid

spoilers: men have pasts too lol

I understand how you feel. My girlfriend told me she used to be very slutty at college. Now she is older and wiser, but it bothers me so much.

Holy incel, Batman

dont let these idiots telling you the past doesnt matter sway you. The past absolutely doesn't matter and any person who throws away their dignity by having one night stands and flings all the time, is a person who doesnt have their shit together. If you want a good woman you need to find one who respects herself enough not to open her legs at every opportunity. It absolutely does say something about a person if they have had double digit sexual partners

so?

like literally, why does this bother you? why are young men so wrapped up in their own narcissism? you want women to be 100% ready and down to have sex with you whenever you want but holy shit THEY BETTER BE PURE

get over it man

Can relate. It's a massive feels bad to know those guys exist ik but you have to accept there's nothing you can do about it except break up. If you can't mentally grapple your thoughts into submission and will always feel bad or weird about it it will eat you alive and ruin the relationship (i know this from experience).

My advice is to try and shut down this way of thinking ASAP. I still struggle with it sometimes and when i think about it my mood changes and i don't want to see her. This isn't fair to her bc she did nothing wrong but i kind of avoid her for the day until i get it out of my head. My point is i'm working on it. You can work on it too. You're not alone and we can either let this ruin our relationships or just fucking deal with it

a woman who is attracted to "shitty dudes" is likely a shitty person herself. She can pretend to be an upstanding person all she wants, but the fact that she made those choices definitely says something about her as a person

says the guy who would most likely fuck anything that agreed to touch him

>It absolutely does say something about a person if they have had double digit sexual partners
At what age user? 18, or 30?
Does the same go for a guy?

>the past absolutely doesn't matter

you're more correct than you wanted to be user

This 100%. You better cut that shit out op. Been there, done that.

what if you waited for the right girl and she just shared her body with any random guy.

i can imagine it would be an issue if one person valued sex as an intimate thing and the other saw it as just a physical insignificant thing

this is the type of man that fucks the type of woman you are dating OP. Ask yourself, is this who you are?

holy shit boo hoo. this is why YOU don't have a line of sexual partners, because you're autistic about human relationships. if you were less insecure about your own sexual history you wouldnt be bothered by anybody else's

triggered roastie

same goes for any person. If you are of high moral character you should seek someone of equal value. Don't ever demean yourself by accepting someone who has no self-respect.

Lol spoken like a true cuck

nope, the concept of probation exist to keep an eye on people that exhibit undireable behavior while in the public. Probation is not indefinite!

trust is built, maintain stability and exhibit healthy habits, they fall in line or they don't

>at what age, 18, 30
lifetime sexual partners should ideally be under 5. (even that's a little high) If you are constantly seeking out sex, you have psychological issues and likely aren't suitable for marriage.

Men and women are never held to the same standards, and never will be.
Women are held to higher standards of behavior and restraint than men are, because the world holds men to a much higher standard of performance and accountability.
Men get to be promiscuous because being promiscuous as a man takes value and effort.
For a woman, it requires nothing.

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that's literally up to two people in the entire world, and if you cant hack it then you're not the right one for her

you think you have a "right girl" out there but you never think if you're the right man

sorry man, this is your own internalized bullshit

This.

+1

truth

She didn't "let" guys do it. She participated in it willingly and enjoyed it all. Does it bother you someone else probably made her cum harder than you ever could?

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High School Reunion gangbang story time? I have a good one.

>going to the reunion
>the goody goody nice one girl never doing nothing wrong was there
>one dude told her to snort coke
>she did it like a champ
>she got aggressive and horny, fucked the dude like a tiger
>former nice one is now a coked out thot
>20? 30? Only God knows how many people fucked her that night
>I fucked her pussy and asshole, came on her tits
>saw her getting triple penetrated and sucking dicks like there was no tomorrow
>getting bukkaked, covered in cum from toes to hair
>show was surreal, all the guys were nervously laughing at the insanity of it

You can’t imagine the drama next day. The dude who gave her the coke simply disappeared for some time. And every time I see a High School bro we talk about the insanity of everything that happened that night.

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You act like anal is a big deal. It's as normal as blowjobs now, boomer.

redpilled af

Brutal but yes

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This is wise.

this.

holy hell kek'd so many times

Yep, dump the whore.

I dealt with this same shit before. Cunt staying friends with everyone shes fucked. I'll let you in on a secret, there's billions of women out there, find someone with the same views as yourself.

I've fucked 40+ women and kept contact with none of them. They are the past and should stay there.

Men and women are never held to the same standards, and never will be.
Women are held to higher standards of behavior and restraint than men are, because the world holds men to a much higher standard of performance and accountability.
Men get to be promiscuous because being promiscuous as a man takes value and effort.
For a woman, it requires nothing.

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>Belongs to a class of people who don't act like violent animals and who rely on police to control those who do

This.

5? This must be bait. Or this is your cope for being unfuckable

This, you have to get over it and realize passed a certain age all people are going to have a sexual history. Honestly I would never want to have sex with a 30 y.o. virgin woman that would be the most awkward sex ever

yes indeed

God damn

Lmao Sup Forums has become so cucked that they settle for sloppy seconds