Sup Forumsros, last week I got a message from my partner of 3 years, she has two kids, I have one. Basically I received a message from her saying she and her kids were staying at her friends (mother of *kid*). I tried for hours to find out why then I get a reply saying "*insert 11-year-old girls name* had made an allegation", my first thought was her creepy stepdad, so I replied saying is *kid* ok and if it was about him, she replies after a while saying, "no, about you"...
I am freaking out at this stage not knowing what the actual fuck is going on, I message and call a lot. No replies at all. Nothing about what the allegation is or anything, so I talk to mates and they say fuck the bitch she is probably breaking up with you an this is the easy way out, so I go to my mate's place and organize to move out.
I find out 3 days later from a mutual friend the allegation is that many months up to a year ago *kid* got up in the middle of the night, I was on the couch (not sure if I was meant to be awake or asleep or not) and she sat next to me, I then was meant to have put her hand on my crotch (unsure if it on dick or on pants or what), they have meant to have been to the police but It has been over a week, I have called the cops and they have told me they don't have any reports at all. The report is real because I have spoken to my now ex a bit she is heartbroken, so am I, I am not that kind of person at all. I would never hurt a child, there are so many things I can't understand.
1. *kid* and her brother stayed up to 4 times a week for 2 a half years and this was only meant to have happened once. Which makes no sense in my head. 2. *kid* an I don't get along that great she has no father figure to pull her in line so I used to try to be that which she didn't like but she needed it. So why would she sit on the couch next to me in the middle of the night? 3. Surely people that way inclined don't do one act like that that gives no one any pleasure and never do it again?
Also the aussie cops told the mother of *kid* and my ex that the child wasn't lying because she "didn't need to think about what she was going to say and was consistent".
Like my life is fucked right now, I lost the woman I love more than anything, two kids I treated as mine. Probably a lot of money going to court (Why wouldn't the police have visited me a week after the report) and now there will always be that slight doubt in everyone's head.
You’re on b asking for help about being a pedo. You’re fucked.
Ryder Reyes
>being a cuck and raising another man's kids Truth is, you already lost from the start
Julian Moore
Yeah but that means selling my car, I have no issue with the defending myself because this isn't true. The hard part is losing the woman I wanted to spend my life with.
Josiah Nelson
Obviously the kid isn't making this stuff up on her own it's the parent she's trying to fuck you dude
Juan Young
He is a junkie who I have bashed a few times for being a massive piece of shit, there is a restraint order against him for her and the kids. I don't mind being a step dad. It was rewarding
Carson Foster
No, neither. Sup Forums has legit helped me in the past an I feel stuck with so many emotions. So getting strangers' views can be good.
Daniel Baker
Enjoy prison. But then your whole continent is a prison so it should be an easy adjustment.
Austin Johnson
Hahahahhaha the absolute fucking state of this guy You gon get assraped and killed in prison for diddling kids
Angel Ward
I was thinking that, but that makes no sense. It fucks the kid up more than anything, there is no proof of anything so I feel for the kid if she thinks it is real. It is all just fucked for everyone
Joseph Lewis
Haha I've been making that joke all week XD
Zachary Jackson
Listen, women are fucking mental. They dont think like we do. It's scary we've given them positions of power. Get a lawyer chances are it'll never go to court
Kevin Flores
If you are what you say you are (apologies for the open-endedness of that but I just got done seeing a post: "I want Xanax, I have anxiety. Being exact here) then it's not really worth trying to change minds.
I love how Harris O'malley ("Dr. Nerdlove" on the internet) explains it. If somebody finds you creepy and ur sure u said the right thing in the right place and time, just don't argue with it. No one on the planet has argued their way out of it and as far as your ex is concerned, even if you're 90% likely to be innocent, the 10% is enough to make her worry.
Ego wise, it's not fair. Nobody wants to lose favor from someone they care about. However, moving on from it and continuing to display exemplary behavior can do wonders. Outside of confrontational legal stuff, just don't even bring up the subject with her and keep to regular things. Your career, how things are at the house. After all, those are the things worth thinking and talking about, especially if you aren't guilty.
You can either sit there and take it, confront it until everything blows up and all you're left with is a group of extremely upset individuals, or you can toss what's irrelevant to your life (IE anything about this that isn't legal shit) and go spend time with pals or a special someone
Elijah Fisher
Good advice, I just feel so betrayed that she wouldn't even talk to me or ask me to my face, I know it isn't a risk she can take regardless of if she believes me or not. I am trying to keep everything normal but it is so hard.
You're talking like people dump comics on Sup Forums anymore. Granted, it's a porn comic, but c'mon man, it's 2019. Newfags don't remember any of this shit.
John Stewart
Guilt's a funny thing. It weighs the same as it's shadow. There are two outcomes:
1) You did it. You feel guilty over what you've lost.
2) You did not do it. You still feel guilty over what you've lost.
If you run, everyone will #1 If you stay, everyone will still say #1
I say, stay. Fight this. You will loose the battle but you can say you tried. You run, this will eat at you for the rest of your life.
Fight.
Carter Nguyen
What are you even babbling about?
Luis Price
Well yes, your reward is most likely a tarnished reputation, maybe jail, lost time and money, maybe a record, etc. There's a reason you don't date women with kids, sadly. Not saying this is it but mostly because she'll throw you under the bus for them. Either that or the mother will try blackmailing your. All the best Sup Forumsro, get a lawyer now.
Anthony Price
Indeed, he should fight it. Kids get screened by mental health professionals anyway. The truth will come out even before trial, surely.
Grayson Jenkins
>Return I hope it does, the kids would have all been spoken to by professionals and the parents surely
