I know this is self affirmation pretty much, but I’m turning 20 soon, I’m 5’6, go to a military school...

I know this is self affirmation pretty much, but I’m turning 20 soon, I’m 5’6, go to a military school, and have to serve in the military. I’m thin, not muscular. I was watching a movie tonight (pic related) and It made we want to go through with transitioning because I have always been scared to. I want to hide it. Should I do it

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Nothing wrong with being a tranny

No. If your unhappy now you'll be worse after.

Well, the military will kick me out, so I have to hide it.

Why? I am constantly hiding right now. I will then, but at least I’ll be happier with boobs and knowing that my body is changing. It’s something I’ve wanted since I was little, but I’ve always been scared to do it.

Also, both of you are opposite opinions so that doesn’t help much :/

Kill yourself to be reincarnated as what you want to be

I study Psychology and don’t think it’s a good option. It doesn’t lead to anything, and the idea of an afterlife is iffy

I had a similar train of thought back a few years ago. But i realised a cheaper option. I was just unhappy in my living situation and wanted an escape, so I up and moved city and started a new life.
You want to change something, and yeah having tits would be baller, but the hormones, the surgeries, the "dilation" the 43%. Not worth it.

The 43%? I don’t know if I want to get any bottom surgery. I have tried changing things. I got accepted to Duke but opted to go to West Point because it’s free and different. I am not an athlete but my gpa, sat, and clubs were really good. I am still just presenting a persona to everyone as a means to fit in. I cry literally every night and before break almost had a breakdown in class. A bunch of people already think I’m a submissive pussy and now rumors are spreading that I’ve been crying. I don’t like my life anywhere. Also, I already am pretty feminine and have no visible Addams apple.

They dont tell you the realites, first off just cause your not muscular has nothing to do feminity, and the fact is 90% of people dont pass. Go to a therapist for your problems or solve them yourself. Also if your thinking about getting bottom surgery spend 5 mins on this site.neovaginadisasters.com/

43% of trannies kys themselves and alot detranistion after a couple years

Ya, I’ve been wanting to do this since I was a little kid. It sucks, but I’m pretty sure I’m the 57% who wouldn’t I’m just in a shit situation and I’m a pussy.

What your describing has nothing to do with gender though, show me where it says you cant be a feminine man, and if you think thats hard dont even think about becoming a tranny, compared to feminine men you will spend the rest of your life being looked at like trash.

this user is right

you'll end up with aids or a permanent depression according to ucla studies

You're 20, you sound like a know it all faggot. Just join and hide it until after youre done with the military. Why would you think it would be a good idea to transition while you're in? If you're deployed there isnt any way to get hormone blockers or if you're underway the medics wont stock up on that shit. Either don't join and transition now or join and transition after.

I don’t want to be a man! That’s the point. I have gender dysphoria. I hate my male body and almost cut off my balls off when I was 15

Maybe, but that seems hard to predict. It’s the one thing I’ve really wanted in my life.

I am not going to combat arms so I’ll probably be put in the us and I can just order myself stuff.

Listen, I’ve already ordered a years worth of stuff. I just don’t know what to do. I’m scared. I share the showers with guys and I want advice from people who are transgender. I am not a know-it-all. I know very little just like you. I am spooked and worried and want someone to make me less worried because I have no one to talk to. I want free collage too but I want to transition in secret.

yeah these same studies show mental depression don't get's better after becoming an oposite sex. But you recognize you are depressed and have gender dysphoria so do it, you pretty much know you will be worst after this, people will ruin your day

When it’s 5 years from now and you reflect on your life, i hope you realize you are the only one to blame. You ruined your own life.

But I don’t know. Omg this is killing me. Studies don’t speak for 100% of everyone and I know what I want but I don’t know how or if it’s a great idea. I am Pretty sure I’ll be happier. The anxiety that comes with not taking it is a big problem for me.

How? Fuck you dude FUCK YOU. I recognize there are ALWAYS options. I don’t think it’s be a problem in 5 years but how the fuck am I supposed to know? I don’t and neither do you. Now I’m crying because of shit like this. People like you. It’s the reason I can’t talk to anyone anymore.

user, if you would like to talk about it in a more calm and less judgemental place i can talk to you on wickr, i have trans friends and have a lot of stories i can share about dysphoria and the like.

What you need now is to not take any harsh decisions and really think this through ok?

add me on wickr if you want to talk, it is anonymous too: cybercowboy

Omg thank you :)

>asks b for advice
>cries because of reply

k then, kek.

you're welcome, i know you are on a hard place now, we can figure it out ok?

>and I know what I want but I don’t know how or if it’s a great idea

what? you know but you don't, you fall under your own irony, you will be worse than today user. You are confused as fuck

If you cant handle it sell your lifespan, plenty of people can use it better than you

Plus studies and statistics are the better version of reality info we can get for solving any problem. You just told me you are in the majority, user

Fuck you guys I’m out :(

Why do I actually smell bait from all of this...?

Don't start taking hormones instantly, and don't use some random shit you ordered online.
The reality is that there are certain things you pay for transitioning, you'll get sterile, you'll have to depend on pills your whole life, you'll have to work alot on it your whole life.
You're still just 20. Have you cross dressed any? Have you been with a partner crossdressed? Have you done anything you know you'll want while cross dressing?
Try these before taking pills that will prevent you from having babies. And talk to a therapist or something

Don't be a brokedick and serve like the rest of us.
Boo hoo you hate your body. And I hate mine. Things you can't change, and just put up with.