A girl I've been seeing texted me this trying to (I believe) say something sweet but really it just kinda made me feel sad. What do you think she meant? I feel like the implication is the way I make her feel isn't special and she was just waiting for someone to like her back.
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Tell her you love her.
I'm not sure that would get me anywhere...
How in the actual hell did you arrive at that implication..?
She just told you that she appreciates you. That's a beautiful thing. She is communicating. That is a beautiful thing.
How about tell her how you feel instead of what Sup Forums (incel central) feels.
She enjoys spending time with someone.
That someone is you, who seems to enjoy her too.
Congratulations and stop over thinking it.
Just cause multiple dicks can fill the void doesn't mean your's has to be special.
Actually she’s saying that what you have is special compared to most people she’s met over the years. How can you take that as a bad sign?
Besides, even if your theory is correct, you still have a damn good shot at having a long and loving relationship here.
From the "who enjoys me too" part. I know she hasn't had a lot of luck with guys and it makes me feel like she's just been going around falling for anyone and it's just on me now because i happened to be available. Maybe I'm being too literal. I dont know. Something about it just sounded...wrong...
also a good step to take, you should only ask Sup Forums about a girl if you want us to get nudes from her
This was helpful. Thank you.
Noted sir
You're a fucking sperg OP
Entirely possible. Emotionally and socially inept at least.
Well, when we don't love ourselves, we often take actions and do things to support that belief. You are very likely attempting to sabotage yourself because subconsciously you believe you deserve it
I'm not trying to stab at you OP, I'm speaking from direct experience
That sounds pretty on track. My self esteem is below zero and i think she's so great.
Did you get help? Did you sabotage yourself? What happened?
Sounds like she likes you and likes the way you make her feel.
Please activate your autism card and fuck it up user. Merry Christmas faggot.
she likes you idiot
go get 'er, OP
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It took a lot of strength to realize how much I truly hated myself and a lot of patience and learning to begin to understand how to heal. Western medicine has failed me so many times, so I turned to more Eastern ideas on self love since the West puts 0 importance on it.
They can't sell you products if you love yourself. Most products prey on insecurity. it's part of our entire culture.
When you realize that our very cultural values are self-depreciation, you can begin to see all the nuances in which you must change in order to heal. Simple things like not consuming television (to avoid ads/commercials) can really help.
I did a lot of reading from Thich Nhat Hanh, too. Allan Watts YouTube lectures were a god-send.
OP, my best advice is to communicate these things to her, too. If she's right for you, she will also value your communication, honesty, and desire to grow and change.
I pretty much laid all this out for my current partner and his response was something along the lines of "that's ok, I'm pretty broken too, but we can heal together"
now I think I'm in love, 6 months later.
We have only gotten this far as a species with things like love and communication. Anger and self hatred will destroy us, and eventually those around us, too.
I believe in you, friend
Thank you. I will try to be better.
And congrats on improving
I like to tell people that awkwardness and honesty are the new 6-pack abs ;)
I really do mean it, too. I have come to find these things very raw and attractive qualities
Thank you user. the road to improvement is long and messy, but it gets easier too