Let me help you out my friend. First of all I take it you've been reading into PUA. Discard most of what you know because it's marketed to be deceptive to get ugly men to pay for it.
Women are similar to men except more picky because they risk child birth in having sex but still very much soo want to have sex. They are just more tied to the idea of having it with a worthwhile man who can offer her sexual security (he will stick around if she gets pregnant).
And I'm generalizing here obviously...
Simply think of how you think, but add the importance of money to take care of a kid and imagining what living a life with the other person would be like and waa-laa you have a woman.
This means women are just as shallow as men, but they also care more about things like social status and confidence. Your job title is important, your goals to better your life are important, your social skills and if you are shy or social are important, how you dress and where you live and who you know are important, how fun you are to hang out with is important
and when it comes to sex... most important is what you look like and how tall you are...
girls in general want a guy who is taller then they are, in shape, with an average or better dick and some confidence... they need confidence because they get turned on differently than men do... they need you to be able to not be insecure and touch them and validate their existence romantically or they will have a tough time getting wet, you need to not be afraid of affection and be able to initiate foreplay or you won't be getting much pussy even if you are very attractive
that's about all there is to it
the friend zone doesn't exist, it's all in your head, she either wants to fuck you or doesn't and if she doesn't all you could realistically do is become better looking
and if she does want to fuck you but is losing interest it's because she feels like you cant turn her on
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