Just came home from celebrating NYE...

just came home from celebrating NYE, my fiancee was pretty cold to me all night (until i started visibly showing i was upset with her) and we haven't had sex much, she went to bed without even trying to kiss me. pretty pissed and feel pretty awful about it

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Sounds like the relationship is over, might as well end it now. Not worth getting pissed over, just be bummed for a few days and then move on.

Gotta man up, user.

And I bet you just sat there like a bitch and didn't say anything. Ever.

Shut the fuck up. I haven't seen my wife naked since Thanksgiving. Haven't creampied since before Halloween. She won't even sleep in the same bed. Quit being a bitch.

get out bruh it's over

Ask her what's wrong. Just tell her she seemed a little distant.

Sounds like you need a divorce

Word. Go into the bedroom and get some ass. If she's not compliant then the relationship is over. Don't worry if she starts saying you're breaking up with her because she won't have sex. No matter what, this is all your fault. Get over it and move on.

I've needed a divorce since before we married.

OR he could go talk to her and find out what is wrong and not be a total Chad.
You know listening can work fucking miracles.

Maybe but fighting pissy with pissy get nobody no where. When my wife gets pissy I pretend she's not there. 9 times out of 10 she comes running back.

OP isn't listening to us
why would he listen to his wife lmao

Does seem that way. I'm out. Ciao.

Pretty simple really. Go find out why she's upset with you.

So get one...? She doesn't own you

Why'd you get married?
A Kid?

Shitty excuse...
But if she's shitty get rid of her ass

she's cheating on you.

Except I'm the one that doesn't want to. Been with 20 bitches until this one. All fuckin train wrecks.

No kid. Everyone has them by now. Want one of my own and this one deserved respect. For a while. Jokes on me i guess.

>covert suggestion
Cheating with chad the big black thunder cock? No, take your insecurities elsewhere.

Newsflash: They're all trainwrecks.

Moral of the story: don't get married. If this goes south, i never will again.

user in any relationship there needs to be communication. It's a two way street. I understand that there may be short periods of time where you or her gets mad and don't talk for a little while. But this should not go on for days, that's not normal. I don't know if you just mean today or if it's been going on for a while.

If it's just for today that happens sometimes, but you will need to have a talk tomorrow. And if it's been going on for days this isn't normal and you need to put your foot down and demand to have a serious conversation. If she doesn't want to talk about anything anymore and this has become habitual, you need to end it. Anyone that doesn't want to communicate with you isn't ready for a serious relationship and doesn't care about you. Now all of this is assuming this has been going on for a while and it's not just a one day thing.

And in the future don't even let it get to that point if that's where it is. The more of a doormat you are, the more people will take advantage of you and use you.

You're gonna get cucked, bitch.
Say hi to Jamal and Tyron. BBC! BBC!

Who the fuck made you propose to an ungrateful whore in the first place?
Just kill her and yeet yourself over a cliff

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You probably did something to piss her off and she's mad you didn't realize it.
If you intend on staying with her you both need to fix how you talk to each other - if there's a problem it needs to get brought up properly and then dealt with, not let simmer and expecting mind reading. This includes you, since you got pissed with HER and are now whining on 4ch about it instead of working it out with her.

OP here
she's a self-proclaimed "demisexual"
don't know why i stayed with her after she announced it to me several years ago but i love her
when we first got together we had sex constantly
now it seems like she can care less and has become borderline asexual/uncomfortable talking about sex
kissed me at midnight but told me "not to get all worked up" when i tried to make out with her
this shit has become normal for her and everytime i bring it up she tells me i'm not respecting her boundaries
feels like a slow death
just came here to complain about it and feel bad about myself while i have cam sex with strangers on omegle

also she def is not cheating on me. she's very loyal and is either at work or hanging out with me or her family the majority of the time. just doesn't see sex as something very important. when we do have sex it's pretty good, but it isn't something that she NEEDS and at max we have it maybe once or twice a week.

If she wants you to respect her "boundaries" in a conventional relationship (which is what being engaged is), then she needs to understand you have expectations/needs and do one of:
- fulfil them
- open the relationship (if you're ok with that)
- break up

You're obviously sexually incompatible and the only fix for that is compromise, if there is to be a fix.

I have 6 sisters and plenty of sexual partners, unfortunately those 2 groups weren't interchangeable but I haven't met a chick that simply wasn't interested in sex. Extenuating circumstances aside women liked to be fucked or licked if they go that way.

...you have no kid but won’t get a divorce? I can’t even. I just don’t even know. Wtf bro? Tell us your life in green text. How did you get from being a baby to here?

Fiancee, not wife? Dude, she is doing you a favor by acting like this. Now you know not to marry her because this is who she REALLY is. The beginning is always fake. Get out now and ghost her. Act as if she is dead to you and if you have to talk to her, do so as if she is a stranger. It will suck but not as much as when she divorces you and takes the kids and half your money.

Btw, they all cheat.

Then you better start meeting her expectations because the likelihood is that you're the problem.

If you don't support her mentally and physically, don't have a job or career prospects (which you have to work for) and aren't in your physical prime then don't expect women to bend over for you. Like everything in life you gotta put in work. Even women.

If you genuinely find someone good then you work hard to maintain that relationship.

I’ve been married 5 years and with the same girl for 15 and have 1 kid.

Love them both more than anything. The relationship is fine. Sex has dried up massively. And I basically fantasise about being along. Not fucking around or anything. Just being completely on my own free to do what I want.

Getting married is all well and good, but it’s basically a massive complication that you add to your life for no fucking reason.

I love my wife,

...ugh. That lady bit was a typo because I’m hungover to fuck.

Oh yeah...my drinking is now out of control. I can’t imagine my life being any more beige than it currently is,

I've had some experience with this OP. The others are right try to get a straight answer out of her If she isn't forthcoming, then just tell her you're not really interested in being around someone who isn't sexually compatible with you for...fucking ever. You tried to shrug it off and hoped it would get fixed by itself, and you just tried to figure it out, but that's kind of the line. She doesn't want some weird shitfest of you finding someone else so make up her mind. Talking, walking or fucking are her only three options here.

Sometimes you gotta get tough.

And don't sweat it OP, you WILL find another eligible woman.

Dude


Fucking leave.

If this is how it is now, by the time you are married for 5 years you will be in a sexless relationship.

Fuck her boundaries, what about your requirements for a longterm mate?

Doesnt that mean anything?

Sex is part of an adult intimate relationship. If she isn't capable of that it would be the same if you werent capable of managing finances, maintaining employment, or engaging in non-sexual intimacy.


Leave. Leave tomorrow. This isnt getting better, your relationship is done. Stop fucking pretending and move on to something potentially good rather than the mediocre slow-hell you are putting yourself through.

Immediately leave this fucking fatass!

Just rape her

Post more of her.

Let me guess.

Probable mood disorder. Low sex drive. Most of the expectations in the relationship are put on you doing what she wants like keeping mind of her boundaries?


Get out. You fucked up. Start over.

Next time dont let the woman set all the terms of the relationship. Be willing to fight. Be willing to make her upset. Realize its part of how a functional relationship works out

Also, dont pick this kind of female again. These types of females have widespread availability for a reason.

Why the fuck would you ever move in with a bitch? Now she thinks she has you trapped and will start to treat you like shit. If you didn't live together you could just say fuck it and go home, rub one out, and play some video games.

Why in the whole fuck would you still marry her?

I’ve been married for 20 years. Sex has gotten more frequent of late. Started out at 2 to 3 times a week and now is about 3 to 4. Strangely enough, menopause makes my wife orgasm faster. I have two beautiful sons with her and I can’t imagine living life without any of them.

Maybe you made a bad choice. But marriage has been anything but a complication for me.

When my wife was in the hospital I fucked a young hooker and came in the small condom she put on my cock while inside her pussy. I don't know if any sperm escaped those confines.

Sounds like my marriage 300 out of 365 nights a year. Yet, I'm happily married, 19.5 years so far.

Real speak: Women aren't always in the mood to be close, let alone physical. That's just women for you, user. Don't take it so hard.

I'm in the same boat. Things have cooled off considerably. We're basically roommates.

twice a week is more than normal in a ltr

Nah dude, it's over women are like that. Best way for you to get out on top is pretend it doesn't bother you and fuck the next cute girl you see. Make sure she knows about it from other people, that shit will drive her crazy

This is how men handle it when their wives don't want to put out. They don't whine about it, they don't go wank off, they don't go yell at their kids and kick their dog. They just say to themselves, "hmm. That sucks. Oh well. Another day" and move on.

Post close-up pictures of her spread open cunt. My mom says I'm a sex addict and caught me watching porn almost every night so she took me to see a therapist but how can I be addicted to sex if I'm a virgin. I wish I had a father. Post her cunt and ass.

Virgins can be sexual addicts. Masturbating is a sexual act. If you have to do it daily you are addicted to it. If you are addicted to it I guarantee you it will negatively affect and eventually ruin your life. Face the problem now while it's not as hard to get over. Denial is the normal response in the early stages of addressing any addiction.

Underage - if you care what your mother thinks about you wanking then you have no place on 4ch
Moralizing nofap cultist

She’s likely cheating. It takes 5 mins in a car at work etc etc.

Put a VAR (hide) in her car. See what convos (or activities) you record.

Im afraid you guys are expecting a nigger baby for 2020, congrats!

She's cheating on you, probably with a woman. Sorry Sup Forumsro.

This: Sorry, Sup Forumsro. She's someone else's fuck buddy.

You know when a man puts on this attitude it’s unacceptable but when women do it we’re supposed to just put up with it. The amount of double standards of conduct especially in relationships is enough to break a man.

She's defective. Kick her to the curb and find a better one.

She's getting it somewhere else bro

she's getting it somewhere else bro

RAPE RAPE RAPE RAPE RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

More chad to be a man and fix it than pout on /b like the /betabitch he is

So your partner is putting the brakes on any time you want to express your desire?

Funny; if you were a woman.. they'd call this emotional abuse.

Get out. While you can.

Lol. Too much of a little bitch to fix things so you blame everyone else.
Good going user, that'll teach em!

Agreed, except his behavior isn't a doormat, it's a petulant child.
Instead of fixing things with his wife he's here crying that it's all her fault.

Damn. A man! Who fucking understands how to adult! Hot

I wouldn't fuck you either. Jesus christ you're not trying to fix things, you're running for cam sex and blaming her instead of talking.
QQ. You'll break up and never be able to find happiness, everyone will leave you because you're the fucking problem.
Enjoy being an incel

OP listen to this guy, he's got the answers

The difference is you're a grown up who dealt with your issues instead of crying on the internet while you rubbed your dick to strangers

Great advice, but wasted on these idiots

I've known guy friends to do this shit too, don't act like women are the problem when it's something across the sexes

Break up. Find new girl.

pffft haha. jesus I am so glad I have not succumb to this girlfriend meme. They just want suck your fucking life force at every possible opportunity. Imagine your fiance actually has an attitude with you on fucking New years.

That's not emotional abuse you fucking dumbass.

If anyone is withholding sex, TALK and find out why. Not that hard you fucking 12 year old

I mean, women would have to be interested in you before you could "succumb to the gf meme" kek.
Go back to your tendies and fap to your ponies you obese fuck

I just got laid about two weeks ago buddy. Trust me I am not one of those guys. Its just so obvious that women bait men then they switch it up and go completely cold and show their true colors. Its fucking terrifying.

Yeah, totally dude. Women waste literal years of their lives all for the meme of it. Aren't you up a little late bud? School tomorrow.

Two weeks, bragging about being laid half a month ago.
Fucking kek, the absolute state of b

I had the same issues, but the other way around.
Sex with another person is not something that I need, and I would under no circumstances do it with someone I don't love.
My ex is more normal in that regard, she was in your situation.

We were together for 9 years, but it didn't work out. She left me and got a new boyfriend and I fully understand her. It was never any hard feelings between us and we are still pretty good friends.

I should have ended it before it got to the point it did, and I think you should too.

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TL:DR OP is an idiot. So are half the guys commenting

Pack your shit and be gone by morning.

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