Girlfriend of 6 years is cheating

David Parker
David Parker

Girlfriend of 6 years is cheating...

Be me
Get a good idea to take my girlfriend on a nice vacation
rent a suite and go all out
treat her like a queen, spend entire day going everywhere she wants
buy her expensive things she wants and just make sure shes having a great day
take her out for supper at a nice restaurant
her mood starts to change and she seems sad and distant
I joke with her the whole time and try and get her to lighten up but still don't understand whats going on?
go to casino spend money letting her play whatever she wants
still seems distant
get back to hotel hoping to have great sex
says her stomach hurts and goes to bed
sit up in living room of suite trying to figure out what the hell is happening
feel hurt and fall asleep
Get home check her phone and find out she is messaging some other guy for awhile now
sending nudes
Honestly more sad then angry at this point....

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Oliver Smith
Oliver Smith

Moral of the story, do a quick check if your gf is cheating before you dish out a ton of money for a vacation.

Joseph Green
Joseph Green

she doesnt deserve you user

Nicholas Wilson
Nicholas Wilson

"If she breathes, she's a thot" isn't just a meme

Luis Lee
Luis Lee

Just kill her OP. She betrayal you and deserves to die.

Luis Anderson
Luis Anderson

My pathetic ass also stopped to pick her up a slice of cheesecake from this place she likes on the way home today because she asked.
I'm just in a fog and not sure how to handle this...

Camden Hughes
Camden Hughes

She doesn't deserve a guy like you. Fuck people like this.

I would confront her and leave, but what do you think you want to/ will do?

Lincoln Rivera
Lincoln Rivera

You have to kill her now

Jeremiah Peterson
Jeremiah Peterson

Sorry that happened to you homie. Life is sometimes really unnecessarily complicated and messed up. She has no business doing you dirty like that and sounds like she's using you for a free ride. Nobody deserves being used as a pawn in someone elses game.
Break it off clean with her, don't listen to her whines, sobs, stories or promises. Get her out, get free and move on to someone who makes you happy and treats you with basic respect

Cameron Scott
Cameron Scott

Kick the thot out

Gabriel Gomez
Gabriel Gomez

sad and distant
thats the guilt

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Zachary Nguyen
Zachary Nguyen

Jesus christ. Is she a stupid cunt, yes. Is it death worthy? No.

Make her suffer emotionally! Not illegal and will make her pain last a lot longer

Evan Collins
Evan Collins

Thank you man ,
I really appreciate that, I find this really opened my eyes to a lot of things. free ride is right since she doesn't work...
can't remember the last time she did something nice for me.
this all just really hurts and I feel like an idiot

Logan Peterson
Logan Peterson

expose her
drop some nudes and deets

Nathaniel Ward
Nathaniel Ward

I can now say that I am 100% sure that's what that was

Hudson Turner
Hudson Turner

Share nudes

Owen Kelly
Owen Kelly

Sorry, she may have hurt me bad and broke my heart but I can't do that nor "kill" her

Jace Murphy
Jace Murphy

Honestly keep her around for a few more good fucks. Don't pay for anything on her and just come over to smash and dash.

Thomas Price
Thomas Price

Yeah listen to this guy.

If this is how you treat women, you'll have no problem finding a better one, one out of your league even.

My husband isn't as attractive as I am, but he spoils the shit out of me and I would never EVER hurt him.

You'll find someone better, for now know that this is her problem not yours and now you get to live your best bachelor life until you decide you want to try again!

Owen Roberts
Owen Roberts

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William Scott
William Scott

It's ok user.

Wife of 8 years cheated on me too.
Did everything for her money etc as well.
I gave her a 1000 chances.

It doesn't work fren
You have to fuck her off.
Get your head and finances straight.
Get on tinder and get out and about.
Get on with your life and be happy.

I know it's hard user. I'm happy to speak further user to help you

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Jace Gonzalez
Jace Gonzalez

Thank you.
she was also my first so think it makes the pain worse

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Adam White
Adam White

Op could always force her into prostitution with or without violence

Ian Cruz
Ian Cruz

don't ever trust women, don't ever show interest in women ever other than just sexually. they're demons who will purposefully suck your soul to create drama in their retardedly empty lives. even if this is just pasta, women really do suck and in a heartbeat will turn on you if they really feel like it

Jace Robinson
Jace Robinson

That night in the restaurant when I felt her change , I just couldn't understand it
I was on top of the world and I just couldn't figure out what was going on with her

Tried all night to make her laugh and smile but it just wasn't there

fuck this hurts so bad

Joseph Morgan
Joseph Morgan

I assume you've been hurt too,

regardless of what I'm going through I don't believe it and this is 100% true story sadly

Julian Evans
Julian Evans

its her loss

Jonathan Evans
Jonathan Evans

I did this for a while too. It made me feel better but didn't fix fuck all

Jayden Peterson
Jayden Peterson

First cut is alway the deepest
Were you her first as well?
If not, she'll not take the end as hard, which in it self can be damaging.

Fuck that bitch off, there is no such thing as "The one" go get ANOTHER, Tinder is great for hook ups and if that fails you can always find whores.

Muh ex
Yes, she will linger in your mind for a very long time, maybe even forever, you need to replace every memory with smoething better. Step by step.
I found a way that helps me a mile with my ex from just a year ago. Hard to describe but... the Aaaaw-Ness of not thinking of her anymore is amazing.

Your soon to be ex is just "Fog" that you need to lift from your feelings.

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Jonathan King
Jonathan King

That definitely does, I'm so fucking angry for you. I cannot understand why people can be so shitty, I wish I could hug you dude.

Right now, do whatever makes you happy in the moment. Live dopamine spike to dopamine spike just to get through this. Spoil yourself like you would've her.

When it's less fresh, analyze who you chose and look out for those patterns again in the future, but don't close your heart off or that stupid cunt wins because only she would've gotten you.

Jacob Peterson
Jacob Peterson

Illegal. He seems a decent man so I doubt he'll do anything bad, which good for him. I would not feel so immediately compassionate

Nolan Russell
Nolan Russell

I was not her first, I know its strange but she is 10 years older than I am

she also left her ex for someone else , yeah I'm an idiot I know.

I feel like I'm supposed to be angry and full of hate but I'm not. all I feel is pain and sadness about this

Josiah Rodriguez
Josiah Rodriguez

Start fapping like crazy and occupy your self in any way you can.
And set your eyes on improving your self phychly, get buff.. or at leas "Lean" and go fuck about some rando bitches.

Sad times
They will come no matter what, mostly at night when you try to sleep.
I got away with putting on some Twitch and watch people play games I play.
It fucks with the sleeping somewhat, but once I drift off.. im set

If I dont, I can't not "not" think about her.

Ian Young
Ian Young

Thank you so much
The advice means a lot to me

Lincoln Wright
Lincoln Wright

I've been there OP. There's nothing you can do about it but leave her. Yeah, yeah, people will tell you to get revenge or whatnot. But that's kids stuff. She's the one in the wrong here, and if you want to come out on top, you should be less retarded than she has. Leave here. Explain why. Mourn for as long as you need to, then go on with your life. All of this is temporary, and all of whatever your future is, is also temporary.

It might seem impossible right now, but it will get better, and there will be a day when you think back on this and feel nothing.

Mason Hernandez
Mason Hernandez

Sorry you went through this too
not sure if it will change but fucking random women doesn't even interest me , it was the love and connection we shared man

Levi Lopez
Levi Lopez

The worst part is discovering things and realizing this has been going on a lot longer then I first thought.

things she would do that she pretended were for me but it wasn't
she bought a shirt and acted like it was a surprise for me but to me it didn't make sense but played a long
then discovered it was something the guy wanted her to wear

Gavin Smith
Gavin Smith

You're not an idiot. You were in love, why punish yourself for giving 100% in a relationship and being the man every girl dreams of?

This is all on her.

You're not "supposed " to feel any way, you feel how you feel. You might actually heal faster from this feeling like you do as opposed to the angry guys here. While they hide their sadness behind anger, you're confronting it which is healthy and the best way to speedrun through it. Just don't wallow for more months than the relationship lasted (6 years of relationship = 6 months to recover). I think you'll feel better before that.

Good luck OP, seems everyone here is rooting for you at least

Eli Rogers
Eli Rogers

something is in the water my friend, i just found out my wife of 5 years is cheating on me too. Don't know what the fuck is going on.

Jordan Brown
Jordan Brown

You guys have been nicer to me then anyone has in a long time and it really means a lot to me honestly

Gavin Young
Gavin Young

(6 years of relationship = 6 months to recover)
Fucking lol
Is there a clock some where I missed?
Can I fast forward or something with it?
Is it that simple to yjust "not wallow" in something?
Damn!
Can I do this with depression too?

Levi Bell
Levi Bell

sorry brother, we're in this together
have you confronted her yet?

I haven't not sure how to go about it,have to go sleep next to her soon and It all just feels so unreal

Levi King
Levi King

dude i live with two chicks, i've known mostly women my entire life, i'm telling you they're okay short term but in the long run they don't give a shit unless you really lock it down

Chase Allen
Chase Allen

gf of 3 years cheated on me too

she and a work friend were "hanging out" alone too often and I was like "dude, he's trying to hit on you"
she said it wasn't an issue, that they're just hanging out as friends, and I should trust her
I wanted to give her space and let her have friends
Guess who she cheated on me with a month later?
Fuck me for having trust and trying to be understanding right?
The guy knew we were dating too and he actively chased after her too.
Fuck people like this
But you'll move on OP, it'll take time, but you'll move on

Jack Flores
Jack Flores

i had a thread yesterday about my situation, i confronted her and everything, still havent seen my child though.
My advice is, since you aren't married, I would confront her and see how she reacts, if she is remorseful and you want to work it out, try, if she doesnt care, fuck that and get a new one

Angel Jackson
Angel Jackson

The worst part is always the deception. If she'd come to you and said "user, there's someone else, I want to break up" then it'd be another matter. You'd be upset and angry and sad, but she'd still have shown respect. Cheating means she doesn't care what the consequences are for you. Or she cares, but she can't handle the idea of confrontation. Regardless, the deception is a stab wound.

Let it bleed user. Right now, you must be fucked up emotionally, but being rational right now is your absolute best bet. Make arrangements to separate. Make the break up clean and with as little discussion as possible. You are vulnerable right now, if you get into an argument with her, you may lose more than you have. She might appeal to your history, ask for a second chance, try to explain her actions, or even gaslight the shit out of you. Make you out to be the bad guy. That's why you cannot have a debate about it right now. You are not in a position of strength. If you can't expel her from your home, then call a friend or check into a hotel. Make the break as clean as possible. Wounds work like that, even emotional ones. Poke around in it, and it will be infected.

Lincoln Price
Lincoln Price

Kek. I know, right? Clip through the depression with this one trick.
I just mean he needs to let himself feel his feelings, but not fetishize his own sadness if that makes sense?
He might still be sore about it 1 year later, but he shouldn't be crying every night being a hikikomori 1 year later over it

Ethan Smith
Ethan Smith

Is that other guy a nigger by chance?

Ayden Collins
Ayden Collins

Thank you for your time
I think I will take your advice but might give it a few days before confronting to really figure it all out

William Young
William Young

That's the point actually, always wanted to bang someone's gf

Brody Myers
Brody Myers

The guy is white, and no where near what most people would consider good looking.

Ian Foster
Ian Foster

Check HER into the hotel, that's YOUR house.
If I cheated on my partner who financially supports me I would 100% expect to be kicked out. Getting her a hotel room makes you look nice while giving you the home advantage.

Plus, if she's being supported, the breakup could trigger her to panic and steal what she can to support herself later.

Andrew Ward
Andrew Ward

yeah except that if shes been sending nudes hes already lost her and shes therefore immune due to not caring anymore

Zachary Bailey
Zachary Bailey

Hi Steven

Andrew Perez
Andrew Perez

I'm in my late 20's if that matters
I still have love for her but legally there is nothing
she can go live with her family or something

I spent the last 6 years of my life doing everything for her , revolving my whole life around her

Hunter Barnes
Hunter Barnes

Sometimes I fell for an ugly girls too, well not ugly af but not model pretty

Lucas Taylor
Lucas Taylor

He made her feel excited, sexy, alive and chased after. You had her already (and while you cherished her and she didn't deserve it) you weren't chasing what you had.

That's why every woman I've known that cheated did it. From schoolmates to coworkers, it's the feeling of being chased and lusted after.

That's why there's so many insta and ethots, same drive

Isaac Reed
Isaac Reed

Lol not Steven
Try again fag

Ryder Scott
Ryder Scott

That's a very good idea. When emotions are surging, trusting them is really iffy. Taking a few days if it's possible to figure out what you ought to do is absolutely a good idea. When I was cheated on, it was this whole thing where she had kids on the side. Yeah, kids. On. The. Side. With a cop no less. He had no idea about me either. Slick bitch to keep it secret for so long. I called her and screamed all these horrible things to her, and I always regretted that. Acting like such a child.

If you haven't been through a long term relationship break up before, I'll tell you what I've told others. The amount of grief you will have from this is constant. The more you try to avoid mourning this, the worse it will get. People -will- try to get you to tank up booze to get your mind off of it. They will try to hook you up, or try to distract you. This is not the way to go. While ruminating about it will harm you, so will hiding from what you're feeling.

Sorrow, anger, anything that stresses your system produces hormones. And these hormones stay in your body until released. There's three major ways to get rid of them. You can cry, you can sweat, and you can piss. I recommend crying if possible, because that's where the body dumps the hormones. Bawl like a child if possible. Get that shit out of your system. If you can't cry, then sweat. Sweat like a pig. Best way is to work out because that gives you endorphins too. I guess you could chug water all day, or drink beer til you collapse to piss it out. But that is very ineffective.

Good luck user. I know it might not seem like it right now. But this is survivable.

Owen Allen
Owen Allen

I will admit that maybe I wasn't "chasing after her" like I used to but I went through a lot in the past couple years and stuck with serious permanent pain.

but she is also guilty of it

Sebastian Ward
Sebastian Ward

You're young. You have enough money to enjoy your life. You know how to treat a woman, fuck dude this is easy now.

Instead of hoping some bitch will look your way YOU can call the shots. Unless you're ugly, a pedo or have a micropeen you're the total fucking package.

It doesn't seem like it right now, but this is the beginning of a really cool part of your life. I'm getting excited for you.
Just hang in until you get there and keep giving yourself whatever you need

Ryder Hill
Ryder Hill

Go home and when she comes to get it throw it on the ground and tell her "you cant have your cake and eat it too" do a 360 and walk away. Never look back

Asher Collins
Asher Collins

they're demons who will purposefully suck your soul to create drama in their retardedly empty lives

this is the most real shit I've seen on this site in 5 years

Gabriel Cook
Gabriel Cook

Again, 0% your fault. If she felt like that, the minute she got that attention she should have said something.
I went through this too, but instead of cheating I sat him down and told him there were 5 other guys begging me to go to dinner and if he wasn't going to engage with me I was going to leave.
She just didn't have the courtesy to break up with you or try and fix things first.

Communication usually saves relationships but FUCK her. She doesn't deserve you, and she's going to realize it really quickly when the new guy doesn't do what you did

Brandon Cruz
Brandon Cruz

LOL a 360? He'll tell her that, then spin around 1 time, then turn around and walk away? How about he does a 180 and walk away instead? I don't understand what the pirouette is for.

Nathan Garcia
Nathan Garcia

Kek. Imagine being so caught up in your feelings it's easier to demonize half the world than confront your feelings and possible shortcomings.
Absolute kek

Luke Martinez
Luke Martinez

PRESENTATION

Cameron Sanders
Cameron Sanders

well I might be ugly, bit over weight I guess but not those other things lol

Yeah it might be fun , but for me it was time to start a family and really create our future.
now it is all just shattered
I care more about real love and future over just sex

Xavier Jones
Xavier Jones

Maybe she has a fear of ballerinas? Pirouette her into fleeing.

Gavin Cruz
Gavin Cruz

all women are thots.

Eli Price
Eli Price

Just take all the shit you bought her, burn it take her keys from your place and kick her out

Anthony Peterson
Anthony Peterson

Just sit her down and say the following

"Ok, it's been 6 years. Either you grow the fuck up and you stop all the fucking around that you're doing. Or you can just get the fuck out of my life entirely right now. I don't give a shit what you bullshit reason you have for doing this, all i want is the following either you're out or you're in, and if you're in you have to invite the guy over"

Then force her to poison him in front of you op.

Caleb Johnson
Caleb Johnson

Not gonna lie you had me in the first half.

Juan Richardson
Juan Richardson

Speaking of the nudes... Can we se them ?

Aiden Smith
Aiden Smith

Different guy here women feed off of attention and drama. Theyll fuck your best friend behind your back and deny it even if you walked in on it. I did however meet one girl out of many who was an saint I wish I stayed with her but I broke her heart instead

Jaxon Allen
Jaxon Allen

That would be one big fire lol
if she took back what she has given me it would easily fit in one box

Jonathan Collins
Jonathan Collins

Top kek

Adrian Gonzalez
Adrian Gonzalez

I know its strange but she is 10 years older than I am
Not strange at all, shit happens. But when you get over this you will realize she just did you a HUGE favor. Not even kidding. It doesn't seem that way now but you'll realize you dodged a bullet. From on now don't date women older than you. In this day and young there's no reason to do that, at least not for serious relationships.

Henry Hill
Henry Hill

Oh shit pal your first? Its the hardest to put your foot down on because its the first time youll have to deal with this. On a different note, its a good sign. If you've had a successful relationship that long I dont think you will have zero issues getting right back into a better relationship with someone else.

Good luck op!

Jeremiah Thompson
Jeremiah Thompson

Rebook your flight home to the next one available. Do not settle the bill at the hotel. If you're overseas "accidentally" take her passport with you.

Eli Barnes
Eli Barnes

Do it. Burn all her whore clothing trash her make up and change the locks

Jack Hill
Jack Hill

Do you think she demonizes all men based on you?

Jackson Moore
Jackson Moore

Holy fuck based. Not having a passport fucks you up happened to my sister she lost hers costed money and was a big inconvenience

Jordan Collins
Jordan Collins

Well guys , I really want to thank you all for the advice and sharing your stories.

it means a lot to me in this shitty time

I'm not sure where I'm at mentally other then just hurt and sad and the pain feels real but I am not going to do anything crazy because regardless I still have love for her and care
I'll take a few days and figure it out while I suffer in silence and try to act normal
this was my first relationship so I had no idea what to expect or how to go about dealing with this and you guys have helped so honestly thank you!
if you need me I'll probably be in bed silently crying and dying inside lol

Brody Williams
Brody Williams

She fucked around on me and gave me a disease and laughed about but shes dead and it was many years ago but every time my crotch burns I think of that worthless waste of skin

Eli Cruz
Eli Cruz

Usually this makes men sadder than mad because embarrassment is the first reaction to these situations, then you might blame yourself. In reality this girl has a problem with herself, which is not yours to try and fix. Realize you dodged a bullet figuring that out before you preposed.

Nicholas Flores
Nicholas Flores

You sound so beta. I'd book a flight home tonight and steal her passport (throw it in trash) and go home. Burn all her shit or give it to her family be done with her no contact is best. If she makes a new account to talk to you just block her

Jeremiah Cooper
Jeremiah Cooper

Go ahead. Get that shit out of your system. Tears is no different than taking a piss. You're shedding stress hormones. Never be afraid to be human. Worst thing you can do right now is to take the manchild approach and pretend like nothing's wrong. Pretending like you're a drone, void of human emotions and reactions. This isn't an action movie, and you're not a psychopath. Mourn as much as possible, because the sooner you allow yourself to react properly to this, the sooner you'll be rid of it.

Good luck user.

Chase Scott
Chase Scott

Buddy hes stuck with a two faced skank on vacation. That's rough. He should just go home.

Jonathan Gomez
Jonathan Gomez

The pain will pass, you just got an opportunity to find someone who really cares instead of that thot.
Or you can use your pain, to make her bleed

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Ian Wood
Ian Wood

I didn't know that. Yeah, he should absolutely go home. As soon as possible. No wait. Was that even a thing? Staying there like nothing happened?

Noah Hughes
Noah Hughes

Guys I'm not on vacation anymore. I am home . It was when I got home I discovered all this

Michael Torres
Michael Torres

Sounds reasonable, leave while she is sleeping take her passport, cash and all of her shit, and just fly home

Kevin Mitchell
Kevin Mitchell

Oj Simpson them both. It's the only way.

Blake Smith
Blake Smith

Buddy hes stuck with a two faced skank on vacation
He isn't really "stuck". He could just say I know you're a cheating whore and you've been acting like a bitch all day, so I'm going home. You can stay here if you want I don't give a shit, but I'm not paying for anything else. If he's too weak to do that he could make up an excuse to leave with her. Then when he gets back break it off. I have a feeling though he's not going to do any of that and will continue to be with her despite the cheating.

Oliver Thompson
Oliver Thompson

You just need to up and leave. Fuck that no cheating whore is worth your time. Dump her and move on. 6 years is a bit but you can recover. Dont be a beta cuck and stay, if she cheats once shell cheat again.

Angel Cooper
Angel Cooper

A female that have the same dick in her for the last 6y is cheating, a guy who had the same pussy for the last 6y is cheating....
COLOR ME SURPRISED

OP this is what you get for not spicing things up. Get a high end hooker faggot and have a threesome. Go to sex club.. do something.

Christian Gray
Christian Gray

I've been there user. I took my ex on vacations, gave her awesome and thoughtful birthday gifts, and never disrespected her. I found out she was fucking someone else and kicked her out of my house. Put all her stuff outside and never talked to her again. The good news is I'm married now happily for 3 years and she is amazing in every way. The moral is your first love is usually not the one you end up with. Its best to just cut it off with her before things get worse. You dont deserve that bs

Nathan Johnson
Nathan Johnson

This

Except don't bother explaining her. What would even be the point?

Just "I know you're cheating on me. It's over, goodby, please don't contact me again. You can find your belongings in the box in front of the house."

Nolan Ward
Nolan Ward

That's what I meant with explanation.

Adrian Garcia
Adrian Garcia

I was with my gf for 5 years and found she'd been cheating from our first conversation...
My biggest regret is deleting all of our pics including nudes, don't make my mistake user.
Feel for you.

Andrew Stewart
Andrew Stewart

Lmao deleting the pics is good helps you feel nothing for them like it was a bad dream. Not healthy faps for you mentally trust me speaking from shitty experience

Aaron Thomas
Aaron Thomas

Great advice but narcissistic as fuck.
Oh yeah.... rules? TITS!

Zachary Clark
Zachary Clark

Yea I've more or less been in the same situation. But the message I found was to her ex on Christmas morning saying "its days like these that I really miss you" which was a kick to yh4 guy. The distance thing is a real sign. Also if they're trying to find reasons to get mad at you over nothing so they can start a fight and break up with less guilt. She was probably looking for that kind of opportunity all day but couldnt find one.
Are you still on vacation with her? Just ghost her. Dont even say why you leave or ever talk to her again. This shit fucks a girls head up way more than when you give a reason. But you wont....you wont...

Asher Clark
Asher Clark

Dont listen to this larping neckbeard. This is not how women react. This is a pathetic loser that is saying this as a massive cope thinking he can get his oneitius if he just spoils her. Women DO NOT want this treatment. They will not feel attracted to you if you act like a pay machine doormat.

Kevin Roberts
Kevin Roberts

10 years older
been together 6 years
So shes what? 35? Guy dont even worry about it shes well past her expiration date and likely cant even have kids anymore. Here's your chance to hit the reset button on your poor choice.

Jeremiah Diaz
Jeremiah Diaz

I can feel your hate, your anger, it gives you power! Strength! Use it! Young Jedi.

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Ethan Davis
Ethan Davis

Uea when they start doing shit way out of the norm its a sign of cheating. I had an ex that started bleaching her butthole out of the blue after 4 years together and taking a lot of sexy selfies of herself. I didnt catch her sending them at first but it was a red flag. When I asked her why shes doing this shit (she wasnt showing them to me, eother) she got all defensive and said she was doing to feel confident or some bullshit. Anyway that was a red flag so I started snooping around and eventually found out she was fucking around on me with multiple guys

Elijah Perez
Elijah Perez

you need to trust me
That's also a huge red flag. Someone who is trust worthy would never behave in a way that would call their trust into question

Charles Harris
Charles Harris

gf
6 years
why aren’t you married, you filthy man-child?

Colton Foster
Colton Foster

How did you confront her? Verbatim please. You did confront the cunt right?

Jackson Carter
Jackson Carter

You shouldn't have to chase a woman you've been with for 6 years and treated well

Henry Walker
Henry Walker

Ok woman

Bentley Bell
Bentley Bell

if she wanted you to buy her expensive things....
well

Angel Smith
Angel Smith

Do it op

Samuel Miller
Samuel Miller

Get a 5 dollar weeding ring and hide it somewhere you know shell find it

Connor Sanchez
Connor Sanchez

Boob

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William Jenkins
William Jenkins

That was quite unexpected. Gf gave me warts once and tried to blame it on me cheating on her and giving it to her. Like the fucking audacity to blame me when she knew damn well she was whoring around. Then when I dumped her she told everyone I was cheating on her and left her for another woman so her friends and family were sending me all kinds of rude texts

Zachary Phillips
Zachary Phillips

There's a world of difference between treating a woman well and spoiling her, user.

Christian Nguyen
Christian Nguyen

embarrassment
This is how I felt. Embarrassed and ashamed and humiliated

Carter Wright
Carter Wright

Well it looks like he made the right choice now, innit?

Jason Roberts
Jason Roberts

I found out mine of 7 years was doing the same just before Christmas. We even have 3 kids. I'm still lost as well. I feel your pain bro.

Jordan Sanders
Jordan Sanders

Get the nudes she sent to this other guy, leak em, she will think it was him, they feud and you have the ultimate payback.

Julian Collins
Julian Collins

You unironically treated her too good. My sisters BF has the same problem. I really like the guy but damn I don't think it's going to end up working out

Michael Morris
Michael Morris

Shotgun to the chest is a great way to kill a slave or a girlfriend.

Luis Morales
Luis Morales

Talk to a lawyer before you have any discussions with her to make sure you limit any possible liabilities. My uncles ex-wife did that, she's a raging bitch but it was smart

John James
John James

I think this is how I was with my ex as well

Hunter Murphy
Hunter Murphy

yeah, know that feel OP, but it was my wife of 5 years, been together for 11.

be happy you didn't waste any more of your time and life.

some chicks are just fucked.

Henry Wood
Henry Wood

Just be glad you're not
#1. Ten years in
#2. Married
#3. Have kids

Cut your losses and send the bitch packing and move on. Do not under any circumstance try to salvage anything. You got off easy, trust me.

Brayden Brown
Brayden Brown

yeah, you're gonna get angry at some point. believe me.
best to put her shit outside, lay the evidence at her feet and just tell her "never contact me again" and leave it at that.

i'm . my wife is 20 years older. i thought no matter what i'd have stability. she's been cheated on. she's said throughout our relationship how it's something she would never ever do.
it's like someones stuck a knife in you, and gives it a good twist every now and then.
we just bought a fucking house. i can't up and leave like i want to.
its waves of sadness and anger. everything she says sets me off again.

get out of your living situation. get out. the sooner you can break contact the better you will be.

Jose Lopez
Jose Lopez

Yeah man, broke up with gf recently of 6 years... she was emotionally manipulative and unkind, physically abusive....

As other boys have said at least no kids, house etc or whatever to split, slut gets half

Just bounce, consult a lawyer then bounce

Jason Cox
Jason Cox

Cheaper and more fulfilling to spend that cash you just wasted on a prostitute. Prostitution's legal here in Nevada. I hit the local legal brothels here in Paruhmp 2 times a month, spend around $200 to $300 for an hour with a cute 18 or 19 year old, and I don't have to deal with a cheating girlfriend, false rape allegations & I get laid without having to waste time an effort on a fickle narcissistic cunt.

Alexander Flores
Alexander Flores

big love OP. i know how you feel.
shocked, sad, hollow.
anger will come. be ready.
then more sadness.

not sure what happens after that.
just reading this thread i've bounced between fury and near tears more times than i can count.

talk about it, with friends, loved ones. don't be ashamed. it's not your fault. your Sup Forumsros are here for you too.

Eli Price
Eli Price

Hell no bro!

Dude shes sad and distant because this hoe knows shes hurting a genuine fucking dude for side dick she knows only wants her for the puss. I'm sorry shes playin games dude but you need to shut that shit down. You spent all this time, effort and money and shes still gonna text this faggot?! Fuck. That.

Break it off before she wastes more of your time dude. Your a good sounding guy and you dont deserve that shit. The time your spending trying to make her happy could be time spent on YOU and trying to find an awesome girl.

Break it off dude, you dont have to be mean about it but shes sending nudes and talking to some side dick. Shes disrespecting you. Dont be disrespected. You'll get through this dude. It wont be easy but you'll find someone who loves and respects you and appreciates the things you do

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Camden Perez
Camden Perez

At least she never cheated on you with 14 fratbros, bro ;_;

Aiden Flores
Aiden Flores

Post revenge pics.

Carson Smith
Carson Smith

spending money on a materialistic whore
What did you think was going to happen?