There is a theory gaining traction that sexual fetishes are induced by pornography consumption and masturbation, and that they can be healed by abstaining from them for long enough to "reboot" the brain. (yourbrainonporn.com/are-fetishes-innate.)
People who abstain from pornography and masturbation for long enough also report the following benefits:
Increased joy; renewed self-respect; more articulate; clearer thinking; better memory; increased energy levels; reduced depression; deeper interactions with others; no social anxiety; increased brainpower and mental endurance; experiencing natural highs; reduced anger; feeling intense emotions without being ruled by them; and many more.
What are your thoughts on all this, Sup Forums? Is pornography responsible for the effeminate, unprincipled, lifeless men we see in the West today? Are we collapsing in part because we are becoming like all the other societies of the past that did so once they became sexually deviant?
On the one hand, no fap builds resolve and character. It makes women more attractive and boosts drive.
On the other, I don't want to bust 90 seconds after getting it in because I haven't fapped in 10 days and I'm on a hair trigger.
Isaiah Harris
Lol why not? Just power through
Isaiah Cooper
wew that really made me think and go hmmm i guess im a #cruzmissile now
Adam Smith
it doesnt really work that way. sexual stamina has less to do with how recently youve come, and more to do with overall health. thats from my experience anyway.
Ian Kelly
Autism + watching porn on a daily basis don't mix well.
Isaac Brooks
Pic RELATED
Kevin Brown
"theory" "science"
Kevin Nguyen
bump
Joseph Jones
Good thread. Porn is harmful.
Samuel Garcia
Whoa there, Hemmingway, do you really expect me to read all that?
Jace Cook
>yourbrainonporn lol no, sell a book faggot
Kevin Lee
Well you should. But never mind here is the short version.
Noah Morris
sounds accurate to me. had the same thoughts before le science.
Austin Martin
Thank you
Ethan Thompson
Eating is an instinct. Food is the bait. Don't eat.
Gavin Martinez
Eating = essential Food = essential
Sex = essential
Pornography = ????
try harder
Camden Murphy
Everything is bad in excessive amounts. The fact that the average Sup Forums neckbeard doesn't have the self-discipline to not fap to porn 6 hours a day, doesn't mean that there is something intrinsically wrong with watching porn.
Drugs are also bad for you, but in small quantities and the correct dose, they also save millions of lives every single day.
The ability to moderate and self-discipline is what people lack.
Nicholas Flores
God damn, this really makes you think (meme not intended), this should be the sticky of Sup Forums maybe it shows some light to the anime fags too.
Kayden Long
>Sex = essential For survival of the species? Yes. For your own personal survival? No.
Jordan Robinson
Toilet paper is also not essential, moralfag.
Nothing is essential beyond the bare survival, idiot.
Matthew Rivera
it's true
deny it all you want, you're probably just addicted :)
Cooper Jones
Just going to leave this here.
Nathan Bell
can't speak for anyone else, but all my fetishes and chronic masturbation were pre-internet. i had a few playboys hidden under the mattress. guess i'm just a degenerate. i was raped as a kid though, so that might have something to do with it.
Elijah Rivera
Fapping takes my energy away when I dont fap, I start to work out , do meaningful things
fap can really fuck you up
I'm addicted its like a drug man
Charles Foster
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Logan Brown
No one cares what your moral beliefs are. Doctors advocate for masturbation. But surely you know better than people who spent years studying the human body? You honestly should've been a cumstain on your dad's sock
Jacob Hernandez
Problem with that, is that when Lewis wrote that in 1930, good women actually existed.
They don't anymore, and there's literally nothing of value to chase, hence you're better off just jerking off.
Evan Gray
Wow it's almost like we were talking about porn and not masturbation and you just made yourself look like a retarded ass
Jordan Lee
Slow and painful death?
Samuel Cruz
I posted some stuff to provoke the though, don't take this religiously, just think about it and take your own conclusions.
>In a thread filled with nofap people Right. Porn and masturbation kind of go hand in hand, if you want to provide valid sources for your claims go ahead. (.gov or .org pls) Otherwise you're just a moralfag. None of your business what people do in the privacy of their homes
Adrian Cox
Is Sup Forums essential, faggot?
If you're against all non essential activities then remove yourself from Sup Forums.
You moralist pieces of shit are the reson why conservatism has a bad name.
Hunter Murphy
Op is right. I still fap cause my body makes me but I don't watch porn. Having endless degenerate visuals shat into my mind was fucking with me, and now it's gone. HIGHLY recommend no-porn fapping.
Brody Harris
If women are really better than porn then they will have no problem competing with it. If they're not then it's good they're being replaced by better alternative. Just stop being secretive commie and let the free market fix it.
Sebastian Bell
>If women are really better than porn then they will have no problem competing with it.
This. Applies to fembots, too.
Isaiah Hill
Did I get you all worked up because of some posts? Calm down, I never said I was against anything here...
Jonathan Richardson
Centurys of people masturbateted without porn. Give it a try it can be really great.
Jaxon Garcia
>I still fap cause my body makes me
That is called being weak willed.
As far as the science, No Fap and No Porn have not been born out rigorously. They are at the hypothesis/prospective research stage, with the main authors being prone to hyperbole, as if this will be a new scientific paradigm.
Nothing conclusive or causal.
Brayden Campbell
>There is a theory gaining traction that sexual fetishes are induced by pornography consumption and masturbation I'm skeptical, because I've had my fetish since I was a super sheltered little kid who had never done either of those things.
Robert Gutierrez
SHUT THE FUCK UP
Ian Bennett
Honestly the only bad affect I've had from porn was being unable to get very hard for real sex and that came about from a bit of depression where I masturbated multiple times a day to increasingly worse porn. It went away after like a month of me talking to girls again and now I can still watch the same depraved shit with no side effects. I think people look to porn too much and not the reason someone is watching so much porn.
Gavin Ortiz
motherfuckers were floggin' logs since way before porn.
it's not an addiction. you gotta get that cum out. it gets uncomfortable. it's either that or get violent. and of course option 3 was always open.
raping a cavebitch.
Nicholas Perry
Bate without a trap is not bate.
Though I agree with the discipline. Just because you can eat fast food all day everyday doesn't mean you should, but neither does it mean you completely abstain from it.
Nathan Bennett
Women can't be better. There is now way you can compet with the ability to see tausends of different women doing anything you want without having any needs.
I know a women who tried that and in the end it dident help anything.
Jose Jenkins
In other news:
No.
Evan Jackson
>tfw fapping multiple times a day
I really fucking need to stop.
I'm gonna start hitting the gym soon since I'm figuring out my new work schedule. Hopefully that will kill my urge.
Hudson Jackson
If the have to rely on posting a link to a book rather than a collection of studies then you've already lost.
Jacob Martin
I want r9k to leave
Isaac Hill
I do all the time, not any harder to cum from that imo. I just don't understand why OP doesn't want the people that like porn to use it in their home. It shouldn't be anyone else's concern if they're looking at porn. Honestly OP get a life - there's bigger things to worry about then your neighbor jacking it to a vid
Oliver Roberts
I also developed a fetish before I had access to the internet. I didn't even know it was a thing; I thought I was the only one until I looked online.
Jason Barnes
>eliminate social anxiety
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Easton Williams
>This self loathing This is what's unhealthy.
Blake Walker
I agree that it can't and shouldn't be forbidden by law.
But it's good to speak out against it. Just tell your story. My story is that porn addiction is fucking up my marriage and my job. I just wish I would have never seen porn my life.
Xavier Foster
i have a ridiculously high sex drive which is supposedly linked to bipolar disorder and I am just never really sated by sex even if I have it all the time so i dont really know if this applies universally to people. sex is also basically detached from my conception of myself so it doesn't figure into my psychology much. desu i think people spend way too much time thinking about it
Henry Myers
There is correlation between religiosity and falsely assuming porn addiction.
Connor Clark
your expierence fucking sucks, beating your dick occasionally can help with control.
Ian Evans
>tfw fap to interracial porn
at the same time, I would never date a girl that has been with a black guy
I think I'm aroused by the fact that it's degrading her, which is why I can only fap to "abusive" genres like rimjob / anal / deepthroat / cum-swapping / etc
I should really quit fampai
Wyatt Jones
Agree. I often think to myself "I need a wank", get home and realise I don't want a walk at all, I just want to watch porn. It's similar situation with food - are you hungry or do you just want to satisfy a sugar craving?
Ryan Wilson
>I think I'm aroused by the fact that it's degrading her, which is why I can only fap to "abusive" genres like rimjob / anal / deepthroat / cum-swapping / etc
Interracial porn is hardcore degradation porn with a race angle. It's based on the basic concept that screwing a negro is a deeply degrading act.
Isaiah Cook
If you can't get laid from time to time, it won't do yourself any good. Would've gone berserk over things i don't give 2 shits about without fapping (2weeks)
And i'm not even that degenerated not to get laid - but in reality unless you have a steady fuckbuddy (grill) you don't get laid constantly.
John Lewis
I have pretty much got rid of porn during the last year. I also try not to fap but after about a week or 1,5 it gets really difficult to fall asleep. You are like constantly thinking about women or sex for 2-3 hours before you fall asleep. Don't know if it's optimal to fap then or if the testosterone levels go down after a while if you don't
Levi Edwards
It's probably true, I doubt I would fucked so many hot traps if it wasn't for porn. I feel like I'm incapable of feeling love anymore.
Fuck it, embrace the dystopian cyberpunk world you live in.
Logan Gomez
I actually last longer on nofap. Feels like my prostate gets stronger from not releasing all the time
Samuel Hughes
Same here, I was hardwired to a transformation fetish before even knowing about internet porn and the places where my fetish could be satisfied. The internet fucked me up tho because I fapped almost exclusively to it from 12 to 18 years old (ofc i'm still a virgin and only slightly attracted to girls). I tried to leave this stuff, 1,2,3 days, but eventually came back. However, by repeating it enough, I noticed that my sexuality was slowly normalizing itself, as I could more easily jack off to a nice girl's ass. I do not believe that I can erase that completely, as it was already part of me during the key events of my teenage years. I also noticed that my own fetish was more about key parts of a normal sexuality and other fetishes such as domination, but projected on unusual furry stuff.
Fuck this shit, I'm giving it a decent try now. I will completely stop for a week from now and I'll see what happens.
Landon Turner
I had a fetish long before I discovered porn (back when you could only get porn in printed form from a physical location). I got my fetish from mail order clothing catalogs and the women's underwear section in clothing stores. To thing day I love panties and all things associated with them. If you want to blame someone for giving fetishes it's mostly sexual partners. I dated a girl who was into scat and now i get hard to girls shitting their panties. the internet just means I get to look ant more different kinds of panties and see what other people do with them.
Hudson Morris
But I can't have sex. Pornography is the closest I can get.
Matthew Ramirez
Just a theory, if you fap too much does your organism interpret that as if you were a successful male with alot of female at your disposal? If so you tend to not improve yourself.
Isaac Torres
Toilet paper is not essential you disgusting piece of shit slav >he doesn't use water and soap to clean his pooper after chopping logs >he LITERALLY smears shit around his asshole, convinced that he's actually cleaning it
Jose Rivera
You could have sex if you just saved up your autismbux and went on vacation to Asia to fuck brown whores for 3$
Maybe you could bring one of them back so you don't have to beat off to porn that makes you even more of a pathetic loser
Elijah Hernandez
Amen. I only watch amateur group and forced Porn
Justin Roberts
nah you're literally just a retarded underage m8
Justin Martin
I stopped for 6 months and nothing changed. Fucking placebo bullshit for you favors trying to get an easy fix for your shitty life.
Best way to solve all that is healthy diet, exercise, keeping your brain busy but giving it breaks now and then and actually talking to people.
Nathan Butler
>favors Faggots
Blake Parker
I always thought that site was Pseudoscience but reading that article makes me fucking staggered at how badly he understands human sexuality.
What he thinks are "fetishes" are actually paraphilias. You think somebody who decided to dedicate his life to pseudo-scientific sexuality research would have at least figured that out. How stupid is this Gary Wilson guy?
Guess I can't expect much from somebody that dressed up the old "hairy palms" argument with a bunch of broscience.
Ryder Perez
Porn is degenerate and should be abstained from for many reasons, as tie source makes clear.
Fapping is fine since you evolved to do it. However, avoid doing it too much and going no fap will help you build resolve.
Nicholas Adams
>he sticks his hand up his ass to clean it
Anthony Moore
Basically. Fapping all the time saps your motivation because your brain thinks you've won already.
Levi Ross
Can someone tl;dr this shit?
Andrew Scott
Women can make up for that by actually being productive in relationships instead of wasting money and being terrible mothers who go around fucking everyone to divorce you in 5 years.
Luke Brooks
Only if you use porn. You won't be able to masterbate more than once a day anyway if you abstain from porn, so you'll be fine.
Daniel Hall
Sorry but no. What does this have to do with anything?
We are talking about sexlife. And if you cant even start a relationship with a women because you prefer porn over the person from the very beginning maybe you have a problem.
And nothing that woman does will change it. You have to change.
Nicholas Adams
Porn can't possibly be responsible for the west's downfall. The average Sup Forumsack faps 3 times a day and we're all perfectly fine
Zachary Reyes
Anyways if you want to know the causes of Paraphilia, rather than this broscience neo-victorian nonsense, I don't know anybody that sums it up better than Wiki
It's correlated with having other brothers, high prenatal estrogen exposure, being left-handed. Paraphelias are presumed to be formed early in life, and then reinforced when you act on the paraphelia further associating it with sex and pleasure.
They're really badly understood TBQH because they're probably one of the least harmful psychological abnormalities. Fetishes specially refer to fixations on non-living/non-genital objects or body parts, but are again among the least harmful of all psychological abnormalities and aren't all that well understood.
Adam Cox
no
Camden Howard
yesterday you said tomorrow.
Colton Phillips
dude seriously...unless you are in an all male covenant or dont have a penis you CAN have sex. no more loser talk go fuck something
Michael Young
>Not using dildo soap to clean your ass.
Colton White
I feel the urge ( not really so strong but annoying ) to masturbate now.
I also feel a stronger desire to commit myself to no-fap, what tips do you have? I'm genuinely looking into this - give links and theories please.
I quit smoking last year just because I felt a same desire to commit and it worked. I've smoked a cigarette last week, but tasted like shit, made me feel like shit and made me realize how retarded I was for smoking.
Jaxson Anderson
Im skeptical of nofap.
I know first hand why porn is harmful, it fucks with your expectations of sex and the fetishes can seriously be a massive slippery slope (you'd be surpirsed how quickly a harmless enough uniform fetish can devolve into a full on fetish for seeing women getting raped and abused) and thus when it came to sex i, found it boring due to the fucked up shit i watched
Anyway, two years porn free and i have a girl friend but i still fap quite a bit. We have sex on a weekly basis at the moment (only get sundays free together so thats designated fucking day), if i fap every day during the week it can take a fair while to cum (pro) but i dont get super erect (con), conversely if i dont fap even just the 3 days before sex and my dick becomes a 12 inch diamond with the thickness of a lumberjacks upper arm but lasting more than 60 seconds takes severe concentration to the point im concentrating so hard on not cumming im not really being able to enjoy the sex
Ian Fisher
>moralist >conservative pick two and only two
Cooper Reed
>I've done research on why pornography is degenerating men >Just kidding, here's a bunch of vague opinions that are mostly based on abstract ideas
Wyatt Rogers
Jesus Christ if you bust in 90 seconds jerking isn't a cure all practice makes perfect. Learn to hold it.
Daniel Price
Can confirm OP. Into quite a few fetishes that all disappeared and disgusted me when I hadn't watched porn in like 2 months.
Dominic Allen
Why don't you find a middle ground? Just every second day for example?
Wyatt Bell
Also the first time i tried no fap by day 8 i was so fucking horny, i was full aware this fatty was trying to seduce me, i allowed her to succeed. Then dragged her off to a disabled toilet and wanked about a litre of semen all over her tits.
Matthew Barnes
Feminist propaganda horse shit. The ugly girls are pissed that they can't manipulate men anymore.
Kevin Campbell
fuhrer-tastic post brother
Nathan Hernandez
I mean, I was dressing up in my mom's panties and fingering myself long before I found internet porn So idk