I'm married and have 2 kids. I have 2 more years till I graduate University. Have a job making decent money, $13/hr. My wife has a job making about $13/hr as well.
We can't afford daycare because it's $800 a kid per month. That's more than our rent costs.
So one of us has to stay home with the kids and in that case, we can no longer afford rent. Tried to get help from the government for childcare and according to them, we make too much money. We also make too much money for foodstamps.
We are just trying to make it by until we have our degrees, but we can't even fucking take advantage of the programs meant for people in situations like this because we make to much money for help and too little money to take care of ourselves.
What the fuck is wrong with this country? The middle class is always screwed over. We are out of options and will probably have to downgrade to a 1 bedroom in the ghetto, where our children are going to have to grow up around criminals and share a bedroom with us.
The main thing I'm complaining about is that government aid programs only help people who are too fucking lazy to get a job making more than minimum wage.
And they are not available to people who need a little bit of help as they try to better their lives.
Gabriel Cook
Shouldn't have had kids then you moron
Cameron James
Nobody has kids on purpose.
Jace Brown
It's because you're white. :\
Robert Johnson
This.
Have you tried being a minority?
Noah Watson
how about you work different shifts, then you won't have to worry about daycare
Angel Myers
I don't think Ill ever have kids hard enough trying to love myself let alone another human being enough to be able to do the kids thing.
Don't have a job myself but people want to blame it more on me being picky and things like that instead of just "sucking it up and taking anything" like my concerns don't matter. Can I ask you OP what those jobs are?
Brandon Hernandez
okay but dude like
you do realize hes right, & that kids are what screw over everybody in your position
i would like to have kids eventually but come on
Camden Lee
Oh and also no , I don't take any government money, in some ways I've been tempted to but no I never have yet.
Lucas Watson
>dropped out of school because rebel >got my GED >fucking useless >sat around doing nothing for years >havent worked a serious job before >no savings >spent all my restuarnt job money on guns and ammo for the happening >denied to join the army because of bipolar >denied to join the police academy >denied every university because of GED
KILL ME PLEASE
Jaxon Rodriguez
Join the military. Your family gets better food and board and you get your school paid for and can save money.
Grayson Baker
This is what fujoshi aunts and gay uncles are for. Do either of you not have family? Do your parents not have a large family home?
Elijah Hughes
I would not dream of it user.
They're 9-5 jobs. We have been looking for other options that pay well and both of our jobs are putting us on the track for when we graduate.
I'm in tech support, trying to move up to web developer so that I can just have my wife stay home but I don't know how long that's gonna take.
My wife is a home loan specialist.
I would take it back and have kids at the proper time if I could, but it's too late now.
Well user, it's not a solution I like but I guess it's something. I would much rather finish school though. I'm almost there.
Brayden Rodriguez
Fuck thats rough, user...
Ryan Sanchez
Everybody in my family works full time day jobs. my grandparents are dead and everybody in her family lives in Washington or they are fucking bottom of the bucket scum bags sucking the government dry on "disability" for "anxiety"
William Sullivan
>denied every university because of GED Public community colleges have to accept GEDs, as long as you pass their entrance exams. From there, you can transfer your 2-year degree to any public or private university. That's what I did. I dropped out of high school myself, and I'm starting grad school this fall.
Isaiah Bell
Hey now anxiety is something I actually have to deal with don't belittle it.
Brandon Phillips
Maybe look into apprenticeships for plumbing or construction? I have a friend that got into an apprenticeship for plumbing then moved into sales in the same field. He makes pretty good money and doesn't have to touch pipes anymore.
Blake Bennett
you should have got a better job and wife should stay home to look after kids... thats how nature intended it son.
Nathan Price
What kind of stupid fuck has kids when you make 13/hr?
Fucking tradies don't usually consider it till making in the 20s.
13 isn't decent pay. Even fucking nobodies on construction sites paid to pick up and move debris get higher than that.
You are not middle class. You're a fucking idiot. You made stupider choices than retards who can't math.
Parker Reyes
"Get a better job" like it's so easy to?
William Watson
honestly, get a divorce. it sounds like a bad idea but it will let your wife and kids qualify for lots of government programs. and you will too.
Christopher Johnson
>$13/hr hahahaha what the fuck? are you 14?
Liam Clark
Welcome to the middle class.
You and your WIFE work hard in school, work all day, make a few bucks. Can't pay rent, can't watch kids, but you have too much money to take advantage of anything.
I watched my parents go through the same shit, that's why I'm not a liberal anymore. Parents both worked full time in decent jobs, dad lost job due to circumstances beyond his control. Takes a job he's way overqualified for, has been there for 15 years. Struggles to pay bills but doesn't spend any money on fun shit until they are all paid. Finds pleasure in cheap, simple hobbies. Their cars break down a lot.
Nigger pulls up to Section 8 house with 6 kids, giant rims on newly financed car, buys groceries with food stamps and then cigs and booze with EBT cash from kids.
> Equality.
Josiah Robinson
I have 2 more years of school left but I just NEEDED to have a kid. I thought of having kids and I said THIS IS A NECESSITY FOR ME TO SUCCEED REEEEEEEE WHY WON'T THE STATE PAY ME REEEEEEEE
Charles Bell
brother this is the same in Australia. Except childcare costs, I believe $80-100 per full day of childcare.
The best solution is for your wife to study childcare, and for the state to take the children due to negligence, while she studies, once she graduates, make two more.
Gavin Collins
welcome to the jewnited states
Justin Scott
It sounds like you want to live in a country full of brown 'people'.
Jordan Brooks
Also, tried to take classes at community college, could never qualify for financial aid because parents made too much money, yet parents are living paycheck to paycheck only buying necessities and paying bills. Wut.
Daniel Sanchez
>decent money, $13/hr.
Wyatt Wilson
And that's how the white man is a dying race. Here, our government pays you for your kids. :^)
Caleb Gonzalez
Ya nigger, it is. Learn a trade there is tons of them.
Liam Gutierrez
You sound like me, except I inherited well.
Kayden Russell
I know user. I know it can be serious, but this person I am speaking of is an alcoholic living in a trailer who doesn't want to get a job if she can mooch off the government. She does not need the help she's just scum.
I hardly know anybody who didn't go to college that makes $20/hr unless they have been slaving away at a shit job for a decade and have earned their way into a management position. $13/hr is not good but it's not that bad.
And like I said, it was not something I did on purpose.
7.25 is minimum wage. We don't have child labor in the US.
Mason Martin
have you tried making friends and having them babysit
its free
Angel Hughes
>decent money, $13/hr >The middle class is always screwed over >$13/hr
That's not even 30K, that's not even middle class That's not decent pay at all, you broke af
Dylan Reed
Feels sorry for you americans, living in a third world country
Daniel Collins
I agree with you user. My situation isn't nearly as bad as yours but I'm probably only going to have one kid because of how expensive it is. Not to mention with both of us having to work fulltime it's hard enough to spend quality time with the one we already have. No help for being responsible middle-class but if we were pieces of shit everything would be free.
David Collins
>Low income housing. >Why the fuck are you taking your kids to a place that costs $800 dollars a month lol? >Maybe one of you should postpone school and get a second job.
What are your jobs? Where do you live?
Also like someone else already said, stop being a pussy and join the military. Or become a trucker.
Kayden Phillips
That's actually more than most jobs you can find in my state without a degree.
Owen Allen
>have kid >before graduating university >twice
Good job you fucking idiot. With all the contraceptives, and abortion clinics, and education to get into a university, you still managed to fuck your own life up and blame the government for it.
Are you a nigger by any chance?
Joseph Edwards
considering hjis wife also makes 13/ hr he would be in the middle, middle class
Kayden Perez
learn a skilled trade.... working at walmart, mcdonalds or some other dumb shit like that isn't a real job... those are jobs for teenage kids.
Aaron Reyes
Tell us your pre-tax household income, not your wage.
Chase Davis
>the white race is dying! White birth rates are declining! We are being bred out! >Itt: every one in the thread gangs up on op for having kids
Why is Sup Forums so hypocritical?
Jeremiah Adams
Horse shit. I made my wife wait 5 years before we started. I told her I wanted a house with equity and an emergency fund that totaled $5,000.
You're just an irresponsible douche. Or a troll.
Ryan Taylor
Did the mother rape you?
Nathaniel Lewis
Dude that isnt middle class, youre lower class. Middle class is like 40-100k/yr Sou ds like a shitty time, but like I said earlier, learn a trade
Nolan Price
decent money is not 13/hr, dude
decent money is 50k-60k a year. Thats about average.
Julian Hill
white nationalists and "alt right" anons don't work...
Michael Gomez
>7.25 is minimum wage Good lord what an awful country. You'd make at least $18/hr as a cashier at Macca's here.
Matthew Young
>Thats about average. It isn't though.
Wyatt Evans
It is per household, not per person.
Christopher Hernandez
Ah yeah I've just had plenty online and stuff try to basically tell me to "get over it" hell I even had a parent tell me this once. Something about hearing that just really feels insulting.
Christopher Collins
Not until you vote Trump. Also Kek has blessed you, do not forsake life until you have served your purpose for Kek.
Ian Cook
It's by design to destroy the middle class
Alexander Kelly
OP, how old are your kids and what price range monthly are you looking to spend on childcare?
Free isnt a likely option with your situation but there are still solutions
Lucas Baker
$800 a month is literally the cheapest childcare available. On average childcare costs more money than a college degree.
She was on birth control. her body rejected the implantable contraceptive without us noticing twice.
Around $50,000
That's average for a person with a degree my man. I don't know a single person my age making that much money other than the ones who have their degrees already. I'm 23 by the way.
Noah Cruz
better than being a ching chong
Ryan Reed
>"I had kids that i cant afford!" >"what the fuck is wrong with this country?" are you fucking dumb? i bet you are a nigger
Isaac Perez
Also households, 2 people @ 13/hr
Charles Ramirez
13/hr is what you get in jobs that aren't gonna require any meaningful experience. Its wages made for part time students. Trades pay higher, especially skilled trades. Technician jobs pay higher. Hell, Behavioural Interventionist jobs, which don't really have requirements, pay higher.
13 an hour isn't middle class user. Its working poor if not underclass pay.
Jordan Miller
Also are you religious?
Jace Roberts
>have kids you can't afford like a nigger >crying for more social programs like a nigger >blame the country instead of yourself like a nigger
You're a nigger.
Brayden Williams
you do know how kids are made right? clearly you are not a pull out king, although you probably thought you were, or maybe you thought women cant get pregnant on a full moon
Liam Perez
I have GAD. Get the fuck over it. I deal with it like millions of other people. You aren't unique, millions of others have it far worse than you or I and can still function just as well. Harden the fuck up.
Student loan if your degree is NOT liberal arts. After graduating, you'll be able to find a much higher paying job, so your problem will be resolved.
Luis Green
take out loans.
Easton Miller
>without us noticing twice
Oh fuck off. The first kid should have been the wake up call. Pull out or not fucking around her ovulation dates should have been the answer.
You're an idiot - which explains why you make fuck all.
Leo Howard
Abortion nigger. They're practically free thanks to obongo.
Stop making fucking excuses.
Andrew Butler
That's what poor people tell themselves to feel better about their life decisions
Ryder Lopez
I work for 2.5€/h and manage while most things like electronics and food are even cheaper in your country, probably even rent since you said it's under 800 bucks.
Explain
John Russell
> Have a job making decent money, $13/hr. > $13/hr hahahahahahahahaah oh my god
I'm from a socialist shithole and oh am i laffin
nigga $13/hour nigga are you serious
Anthony Lopez
Did I ever act like I'm a special snowflake no. I know others have it too. IMO you are just biting at the fact that I think telling someone to "just get over it stfu" is really insulting. Like you assume I like this and take advantage of it and can just "shut it off".
Jack Jenkins
Laffin at what? You're even poorer than us lol.
Wyatt Myers
25/hr reporting in, still too damn low to live in the city
Cameron Gutierrez
All that money is needed for lil mexican anchor (and muslime next) babies and lil niggles and their mommas. Fuck whites is the attitude of our country now. Seems obvious.
Adrian Walker
The point is not about my ability to avoid kids. The point is that when people need help they don't get it, and when people are lazy as fuck they get taken care of
Ayden Parker
>her body rejected the implantable contraceptive without us noticing twice. :^) She wanted the kids, user.
Daniel Thomas
OP you're a fucking idiot. I don't have a degree and I make 147k/year working the night shift at Wendy's. I'm also a Puerto Rican with a 9.749 inch cock and I'm gay so I don't have to worry about kids
Gabriel Edwards
Don't live in the city, problem solved.
Noah Wilson
No you don't
Noah Ortiz
> Puerto Rican > 4"+ cock
John Jackson
Then you're fucking retarded and I feel bad for your kids
Wyatt Morales
And on the other hand Sup Forums blames people who don't have kids for the decline of the white population
Which is it?
If we didn't have to pay for niggers welfare he would have enough money to raise kids (from less taxes) and you know it
It's propping up illiterate sub 90iq shitskins instead of letting them die off that is screwing us
Owen Thomas
Nobody is going to understand your point, but you're right.
Do fuck all, you'll get welfare.
Try to get out of welfare? Well fuck you, have a huge gap between welfare and being able to take care of yourself.
This ensures that you will never climb out of it without serious help.
I'd rather see somebody like you take welfare any day over a broke ass nigger. At least you are trying, and who doesn't make mistakes?
Matthew Reed
>Pull out or not fucking around her ovulation dates should have been the answer. that, that's actually less effective than the birth control they were using.
Josiah Jenkins
Yep but niggers who dont work should be taken care of from cradle to grave
A FUCKING LEAF
Ethan Brooks
Subtle troll. 9/10.
But in all seriousness, I pay $1300 a month for daycare for my son. That's for 4 days a week.
My wife makes $38/hr and I make $2,000 a week salary.
I've spoken to people who get subsidized daycare and pay $70 a week.
I was frustrated at first. My solution? Work harder and make more money. Fuck it. I get up some mornings at 2am and drive an hour to work to meet with my night staff then stay until 4pm.
Fuck it. I have houses in two states, and ocean views from my bed. I grew up on welfare and getting evicted. I've been homeless. Let them have their social programs.
Connor Bell
$13/hr doesnt sound too bad. 120 hours per week times 2 equals $3120. I am pretty sure you can get help from the governemnt somehow. Sometimes its better if you two work the at a 7$/hr job 20hr@week, and get a lot of gubement mony. But honestly $3100 sounds pretty comfy. $900for housing, $400 for food, $500 for health plan, $800 for taking care of your child. You still have $500 left. But honestly, I am pretty sure you can have an easier life living off thr governemnt. White Americans are pretty stupid for not taking advantage of that.
Hunter Hill
>2 kids >Still in school >No savings
What do you want me to tell you? You made poor fucking decisions and you're suffering for them. It is fucked up that the max income margin is dragged down hard by the min income margin for social programs, but I'm also banking on a government that doesn't prop dumb asses like you up anyway.
All the advice I have to give you is to take out loans or quit school and go full time looking for better jobs and even earning certifications for them. You're gonna have to brave through this shitstorm you should've seen coming.
Henry Harris
>I did exactly what everyone else was doing and expected a different outcome
Idiot. Quit complaining about your circumstances and complain about yourself, maybe you'll actually be sparked to better yourself instead of blaming everyone else.
Nolan Reyes
real talk why doesnt this fuck boy get a sitter? itll cost way less than daycare so you can stop bitching about how bad this country is and start realizing that not thinking of alternative means of supporting your family
Camden Harris
Nobody should be getting welfare nigger. Why the fuck should the government pay for people to fuck up?