Where do you go to meet people?

I'm 20 and I don't have any friends ever since I graduated high school. I just don't know where to look

Church

Have interests. Join groups where people discuss or facilitate the same sorts of interests. Talk to them.

Dont associate yourself with delusional people. Go to the gym or something.

>wanting friends
Get a load of this fucking pleb

are you circumcised?

>"Dont associate yourself with delusional people"
>posts on Sup Forums

I'm 22 and haven't had friends since high school.

Couldn't be better desu.

Then again I'm a bitter sociopath.

Religion is much farther down the spectrum. I dont know any of you anyways, not much associating going on.

I mostly meet people at bars, and then that ends up with meeting people at parties and things. Granted I meet kind of fucked up people, but I am unstable myself.

You have to have something to offer, it's fucked but people are really quite needy, you need to be goodlooking, or intelligent, wealthy or have something going on at least. People also respond very well to genuine kindness, if you are capable of that.

The main thing I have noticed is that people appreciate calmness, if you can be the calm person when shit hits the fan that is immensely valued.

Basically you have to figure out your own shit on some level, develop your perspective, your beliefs, your interests, and above all keep busy, actually do something, make something, whatever it is.

None of it is written in stone though, each situation requires its own solution, and it isn't that hard to just respond to it as is needed if you realize that it isn't a catastrophe if things fuck up a little bit.

>having friends as you get oldered

coworkers are supposed to be your "friends" after you get out of academia and nobody maintains anymore

>You have to have something to offer, it's fucked

Why would anyone associate with anyone who has nothing to offer?
Why is that fucked?

This.

People are always worrying about their own problems, the idea of someone else coming in and adding more problems turns them off completely. If you always complain or act like a cunt around everybody they'll avoid you.

The best thing to do is to be someone emotionally strong with a fair amount of skills, so they have someone to rely on when they need anything. Just mind your own business and help people out when you can. You can't go wrong doing that.

This is what is wrong with pol.

Here's my problem, tell me if anybody here has a similar one

I can't manage to make close friends, just friends

People generally seem to like me, say hi, go out of their way to talk to me, etc.

But that's it. Occasionally I'll invite somebody somewhere and they'll go and enjoy themselves and not keep their distance afterward

I don't get invited to things. I get the feeling that my lack of friends just leads to more lack of friends.

It's not a powerlevel thing either, people think I'm some sort of moderate or something

Just ask to hang out I'm not saying force shit but be open and willing to hang out and invite people.

Uuuuh, yeah why?

Just go out to any place associated with your interests.

Play pokemon go.. It's the only way to socialize now.

Work or post-secondary education.

What are your interests user?
Do you like sports?
Are you religious?
Do you have any hobbies?

Find groups that appeal to your interest and do not reveal your power level, avoid discussing politics and talk about your interests with fellow people.

If however you happen to be a "Hitler did nothing wrong, gas the kikes, race war now" kind of person then you are at home with friends.

I WILL BE YOUR FRIEND!

I havent had any friends since elementary school op how do you think i feel

Go to a 4 year institution, live in the fucking dorms if you have to or just meet people in class. Go to the bars, the gym or anywhere, and when you find someone with mutual interests invite them to come with you.

You are young - be yourself but put yourself out there and don't be shy. Join groups on campus or in the community.

You better be filled with friendliness.
All up in that ass, bitch.

>current year
>wanting friends
The only people I can stand to be around are like 80 yrs. old.

Nothin' personnel

>pol is one person

>friends in high school
Fuck off. How did you guys even get friends at that age? I didn't even start wanting to socialize until about 10th grade and by then everyone in my shitty fucking school was in a clique.

Easy as fuck to make friends in college though.

in the woods at night, can't really tell who anyone is, cause of the white hoods, but the conversation is great. they even got free hot dogs

instead of having a BEST friend, find a GROUP of friends who you hang out with all the time. BE A GOOD ROOMMATE and make sure you live with GOOD PEOPLE. easy way to have a friend or friends is to outright live with them. But shit roommates are miserable so only make that move when you feel comfortable.

Yep go to the Gym, meet some normal Chads, that's gonna do it for you.

Right here, we're your most diverse, non judging friends you'll ever have