Is being a nice guy a bad thing, Sup Forums?

Is being a nice guy a bad thing, Sup Forums?

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yes

Only if you're hwhite

what if im not

It's called charisma when you're attractive

Only if you want to be around other nice people, be give nice opportunities, and have a nice life with nice friends, have nice kids, etc, etc, etc.

I know, being an edgy angstlord has bennies that totally overwhelm the work of being nice, so there's that.

yes

if you want to get laid it is. hot bitches love bad guys because they want dominate seed in them, not some pussy who gets btfo while being nice.

No. It's very sweet.

But you need to stop it because your life wil be a complete failure if you keep being mr nice guy.
People wil take advantage of you.

Be a paladin, not a peasant.

Being a "nice guy" often means being a push over. But you can still be good and be strong. Remember that the life of the just man is ultimately greater than that of the unjust.

you have to be a bit uncivilzed, so chick will try to 'rescue' you.
other than that, no. you would just be an selfish idiot, hindering human progress like cancer research and going to mars.

women, man, not even once

You need to be a good person, that's all.

to your friends, no, to your opponents, yes

If you're surrounded around ignorant, manipulative people it is. Find a place in life where you're around other nice people and it won't be a problem.

also you have to look aggressive or turks will start atticking you

Don't worry, I'm not German

Sometimes. It depends on what you mean by "nice."
"Nice guys" are simply betas who use the "I'm nice, other guys are assholes" shit to justify their cowardice and social awkwardness. Being too nice also allows you to be manipulated. A manipulated, unassertive, subservient male is ridiculed by the males higher in the pecking order as well as females.
However, an assertive male who is kind, such as provides for his friends and family, can be seen as nice. And everyone likes that guy.

Modern western society says that being a nice guy is a bad thing, yes.

I find it so fucking strange how people punish guys for being nice and virtuous, then guys become jaded and become the exact opposite of nice and virtuous, and then people complain at how "young guys these days" are so fucked up and cynical. People are so indecisive and scatter-brained. Make a decision, you idiots.

This
Good, and nice are two different things
It's not very nice to tell your friend he is a fat fuck, and doesn't need that second double quarter pounder with cheese. It's good to care about your friends health, and tell him when he is making poor decisions though. Just an example.

Sometimes being nice is the wrong choice to make.

That depends, are you a nice guy or a "nice guy"

No but you will find that people will easily take advantage of you and use you.

Being a nice guy is the toughest thing you can do in life to be honest. It's not a bad thing at all.

The only thing that makes you feel like it's a bad thing is the fact that not everyone is like that and you won't see any major changes in your generation even if you act like Jesus for your whole life.

The thing about acting like a nice guy is that it's more of an exercise for your own soul and self-actualization. Don't expect immediate external results from it. Being a nice guy is a very Sisyphean endeavour.

I try my best to be a nice guy, but I am also full of vices and I admit that I fail at it. But at the same time I believe it is the only worthwhile way to be in this life.

I like to think I'm the latter, but I'm never sure about myself.

"nice guy" is a code word for being beta. nice guys are "nice" because no cares about them and no respect them so they work extra hard to be likable and what the end up doing being less desirable

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>Is being a nice guy a bad thing, Sup Forums?

Yes

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When guys say they're nice guys, what they really mean is they're spineless and don't take risks.

Nice guys don't get in fights. Nice guys don't ask for promotions. Nice guys don't get in arguments. Nice guys don't ask girls out. Nice guys are basically just failed men.

Men are meant to be expendable - genetic experiments and risk takers. Men are supposed to compete, are supposed to dominate.

Women look for traits of dominance in men when selecting for a mate, and you know what nice guys don't do? They don't dominate. I'm not even talking about treatment towards women - I mean just in general, nice guys fail. They don't win at anything. They let themselves get cucked. They let themselves get shit on. They don't stand up for themselves, they don't talk back to anyone.

Being polite, well-mannered, calm and collected; these are not the defining traits of a nice guy. The 'nice guy' stereotype is fundamentally that you're a pushover.

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Being polite is a good thing. Being a "nice guy" is not. Women will not respect you because they see people walk all over you and you don't assert yourself.

You don't have to be a total fucking douche bag, but people will take advantage of you given the chance.

No it's breddy gud if you are not a useful idiot

Nice guys are not attractive enough to get the girls they are being nice to.

There are plenty of tall good looking beta fag types who get women.

Watch this and take the looks pill.


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It's not going to get you far in life. As others have stated, there's a difference between being a good person and being nice. There may be some overlap but generally a good person is motivated by moral reasons and will take a stand when necessary, being a nice guy is being passive in order to avoid taking moral stands. It's not surprising that so many liberal males are beta nice guys. Liberalism is founded on a lack of moral principles and therefore leftist males are generally nice and take easy, non-judgmental stances.

Women like douches and although you can be respectful, you shouldn't let that devolve into be treated like shit by them. They'll respect you more when you throw their shit back at them and act dominant.

i think it is

i mean, i've gotten roasties to like me because of my looks and people generally think i'm le so quirky, but if I had to classify myself it'd be a nice guy so I can't confirm whether we finish last. But generally speaking I am unmanly as fuck, and I also think nice guys are too, and thus beta and part of the sjw brigade

>Clutched hand.

That is just painful to watch.

google 'robert glover' he wrote a book on this

I am annoyed of modern life nowadays too. Despite that I actually had a very hot girlfriend, I do see that todays society just excludes anyone who doesn't fit in the scheme.

Maybe we should think back to pre 60s times when harmony and respect meant more than "express yourself".

What you consider to be a nice guy and what an actual nice guy is, are two different things. There'a a difference between being a doormat and a gentleman.

>be large hairy ex con with a body full of scars
>am not actually mean, I just have lines that if crossed will prompt me to respond immediately
>am very polite by default
>normal people feel special when I'm friendly to them
>especially women

I feel it is the best of both worlds to be very nice to people who allow you to be nice to them, and explode in fury upon those who would take advantage of your disposition