To be Alone is the Ultimate Redpill

Normal people don’t want to admit that losers exist because they’ve been riding the high wave of self confidence and social skills from their early childhood into the present. They want to think that that’s a result of their own good character and skill, and not simply the result of factors entirely outside of their control, like upbringing and the absence of early childhood trauma such as bullying or child abuse.

Normies want the double pleasure of having had good things fall on them by an accident of fate AND believe that they’re truly responsible for having brought it about. For example (and this is just ONE example of a possible cause), they’re generally physically fit and healthy. Why? Because they came from a high income family that instilled the benefits of healthy eating from a young age. They did not come from a low income family full of abuse where the child was forced toward compulsive eating to fill the hideous emotional gap in their life. Normies never had the feeling of hopelessness that comes with wageslaving every day at minimum wage which after taxes and bills leaves you barely a few bucks to save. They always knew that they had the material, emotional and social support group required in order to succeed in life.

Normies hate losers complaining because they don’t want to feel guilt or sympathy for them. They reaslise on an instinctive level that empathy for losers will ALWAYS only drag them down into the mire with them. So they have to find a way to simultaneously deny the losers their aid whilst still believing themselves to be good, friendly wholesome people. The only way to do this is to imagine the loser as a villain who’s entirely responsible for their own misery and shortcomings.

Otherwise the nice, inclusive, tolerant normie would have to face up to the fact that they infact aren’t nice, inclusive or tolerant at all.

We all understand that “just be social” or “go outside and meet people” or “man up” are just meaningless phrases. But people assume its really that easy for everyone, and you must just be lazy for not foing whats otherwise so simple and second nature for them. You will mostly get “advice” from people who have had normal social lives and cannot fathom being in your position. You see when a normie approaches you and offers to help you, they are not really being sincere. They are merely trying to get a feel good (dopamine) ego boost by helping out a poor sucker like you so that they can brag later to their friends about what a kindhearted individual they are, perhaps they may even describe that experience at a job interview for being “socially conscious”, and the thousands of upvotes they will get on reddit will merely solidify their belief even further. BUT if you reject their help, without any empathy whatsoever they will lash back at you for being an “ungrateful” lowlife, and do their best to further damage whatever little self esteem you had before.

It’s almost always better to suffer alone. Other people only pretend to care, and if they show an iota of interest, its normally for the shortest timeframe as possible. After that, they can’t be bothered. They’ve done their part. Its YOU who is too emotionally draining for them hence they simply erase you from their existence by cutting off contact. That’s why people hire therapists – essentially a friend for hire. But they don’t really care about you either unless you have normie problems that can easily gotten over with anyway as they already have the existing social support groups and networks. Why do you think they make you sign a contract saying that you or your family will not hold them liable for suicide? You are merely an income source to the therapist. Did you really think that if mental illness could be cured there would any need for the multi-billion dollar anti-depressant industry?

You won’t receive any empathetic suggestion either. Instead, people Infact, any normie reading this, cognitive dissonance would kick in causing them to instantly reject this as whiny drivel, and get back to their “just world” antics. They cannot, NEVER see through the eyes of those who have suffered.

tldr

Faggot

suck my dick dude

nah comradery and companionship is essential to the human experience.

Having alone time is a definite must though. Try not to get a clingy waifu

Mate, as much as I appreciate you typing this all out its completely irrelevant you writing it here. Sup Forums in the majority will not care.
Now you have a nice day, Sweden bro

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Personally, I make fun of people who are alone in order to HELP them. Sometimes, someone who is depressed just needs that "kick in the pants" to get them a jump start back to normality. I'd I know someone who is "shy" I just try a little scream therapy

>writing this bullshit on a japanese imageboard looking for approval
All this is satire, come on...

dubs says you commit suicide

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take some personal responsibillity.
You sound like a leftist.

>tfw I used to be like you
>tfw stopped complaining and made an actual effort to change things
>tfw things are actually changing
>had a qt gf for a while
>have cool friends now
>going back to uni soon

Not everything was great but things are getting better.
There comes a point where you just can't complain anymore and have to do your own shit. You'll make lots of mistakes and fail many times but one day it'll stick. Now fuck off, this is Sup Forums not your hugbox.

The real red pill on the subject of lonelyness:
You (everyone) is ultimately alone. You will never be one with someone else, there will always be a gulf between you and everyone else.
With socialization and sex you might fool yourself to think that you understand someone, but you are making up an illusion. Other people will always be a disconnected mystery, you will never really know them.

For example when you love someone, maybe even consider them to be a soulmate, but the target of your affections is not the person you "love", but an artificial construct, an ideal, built from the incomplete information you have from the real person.

Ok so normies:
-Try to help
-Are healthy
-Have self esteem

And losers:
-bitch about it
-kill people
-commit suicide.

Whats your fuckin point dude? Do something about it. We're not your fucking gods or teachers. Figure it out.

this
never give up on trying to improve your life OP, even if it seems impossible

*EXISTENTIAL CRISIS TRIGGER WARNING*

There is no excuse to be unhealthy. You are a man, you can turn your will to life into power. You live in a rug country where opportunity abounds. Make yourself into the man you were meant to be.

You will be the first to fall in the revolution

>For example when you love someone, maybe even consider them to be a soulmate, but the target of your affections is not the person you "love", but an artificial construct, an ideal, built from the incomplete information you have from the real person.

This redpill has been dawning on me for the past month, HARD. Strangely liberating sensation once it drops.

Because nobody else has told robots this before. Nobody else has told these people to go outside, to never give up, to keep trying, to man the fuck up, to stop wallowing in self pity, to solve their own problems. No, it is you who can save them, with your psychological expertise and your enlightening aphorisms. You are a good person, shepherding these feelfags, losers, closet pedophiles, NEETs, suicide attempts, and malcontents on the path to interpersonal effectiveness and life satisfaction. You won't spend time with these people, you avoid boring, strange, stupid, hideous, mean, bitter people all the time. But you are always the first to tell strangers on the internet to improve themselves and never give up. Good work, user. Let's save some lives together.

You'll be too scared to even leave your bedroom pussy

REEEEEEEEE

normies must be purged.
beta uprising when???

sure thing

Why the fuck is this even on Sup Forums you fuckin beta faggots? Go back to r9k if your looking for sympathy. God damn.

NOOOOOOOOOOORMIE

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you would get the shit beaten out of and have to go to the hospital

im alone because im mentally ill