How does one get to kissless virginity in his 20's in your country?

How does one get to kissless virginity in his 20's in your country?

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By being weird and unnattractive. Girls are super hypergamous these days

I just did nothing to lost virginity.

*to lose

By living for more than 19 years, and not being kissed or ever having sex.

its pretty easy dude
for men, if you don't make any effort and chase it you won't get anything

Just not showing interest in any girl.

Living in a big city where no one knows who you are and always be inside playing video games. I was lucky to be born in a small village.

Wait, I don't understand, so you're KV or not?

...

KV? What is that?

Making zero attempt to get with women.

People seem to think that sex falls from the sky, but if you actually never leave the house or talk with women ever, it doesn't happen.

probably because going to social events and talking to people comes as naturally to normies as walking or breathing comes to anyone else

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>right
simple, shallow, one dimensional personality if any at all, room temperature IQ, consumes degenerate substances such as alcohol, weed, drugs and others; rroastie female companion will get old wrinkly and decrepit...and ultimately perish, will get STD and die young, those who won't die young will get a child sooner than later and have their lives fucked up, fake friends and will serve their Wizard overlords in a not so far future.
Some will meet their bitter end by suicide after accumulating fortunes worth in debt result of child support or shitty cars/delayed mortgage payments

Rejoice.

You're only considered weird if you're unattractive.

>By being weird and unnattractive

These words are synonyms to females, there is no distinction, you are both or you are none. You could collect toenail clipping and shit in a pot in your basement and be considered completely normal to a woman if you were a turbo Chad.

Several reasons
You could be religious (of course, finding a woman who also believes in "virginity until marriage" and actually does it is basically impossible in the year 2017 so you might as well not bother holding up your end)
You could be a non-sexual person
You could be a eunuch
You could be ugly/short/some other undesirable feature without the charisma, job, etc. to make up for it

Really though, literally anyone can lose their virginity in the USA if they download tinder. As long as you aren't weapons grade autism when it comes to flirting, even a 400 lb dude who wears anime shirts under his trenchcoat can get laid.

>is basically impossible in the year 2017

Time to update, bud.

>By being weird and unnattractive.

This.
Also helps if you go to a boys only school and all your friends don't have any femal contacts as well and you spend every weekend somewhere outside getting wasted with your bros.

What actually happens
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>woah I can use my 6 hours left after work looking at pixels
Right
>woah I can use my 6 hourse left after work getting shitfaced to feel like total shit tomorrow and probably vomited all over the bathroom floor
>but atleast I had the 2% chance to get my dick wet with a roastie which would have given me a spectrum of STDs and would’ve probably told everybody how small my dick is

S-shut up, it's still 2017 in my heart

kissless virgin, it's written on the OP
so just talk to them?
>even a 400 lb dude who wears anime shirts under his trenchcoat can get laid.
with what kind of girl?

>literally anyone can lose their virginity in the USA if they download tinder.
>even a 400 lb dude who wears anime shirts under his trenchcoat can get laid.

My spergy fat ass weighs a good 110 under that and I have no trenchcoat to speak of but I set up a Tinder profile around 4 months ago and have never gotten a match.

>you have to drink and party every night or else you never go outside
This is bait

Fat girls and other desperate girls/girls with extremely low self esteem

Go to NYC or LA, there's plenty of fat fetishists there

Then what else is this image trying to convey?

>woah I can use my 6 hourse left after work getting shitfaced to feel like total shit tomorrow and probably vomited all over the bathroom floor
>but atleast I had the 2% chance to get my dick wet with a roastie which would have given me a spectrum of STDs and would’ve probably told everybody how small my dick is

Hot

In general German girls don't value unsolicited cold approaches. In fact it even is considered downright rude to bother Germans of every gender in public without a serious reason like a medical emergency or something, the way it is completely ok and to a degree even expected like in the US.

The club and party scenes are also way less about hook-ups the way it's often the case in the US.

Yes, in Germany, people actually go there to listen to the music. In bars they prefer to stick to people they already know instead of aiming to get to know new people as well. The only real point in time when approaching becomes acceptable at some festive event is around midnight when everyone is already at least a bit intoxicated.

Most Germans form couples the way they make new friends. Either through their extended(and already existing) social circle, i.e. a friend of a friend or by meeting people at some shared activity. In order to enter an existing social circle you have to be good friends with at least one person or you will constantly regarded an acquaintance at best or an outsiders at worst.

Sure, exceptions apply and you shouldn't generalize too much but insinuating that cultural and social differences(especially in this area) don't exist would be a bold-faced lie to anyone who's experienced and lived in two cultures. I can speak 3 languages fluently and I can tell that it's not hard to find blog posts by foreign expats who go through the same three-stage experience when it comes to their dating life.

Stage 1: Girls, especially those from countries where hitting more aggressively is more common, feel liberated at first. They feel relieved from the pressures of being constantly pursued and hit on. Finally they get to enjoy recreational activities from the constant reminder of being a sexual object!

Stage 2: Reality kicks in and they wonder why 6 months have passed without a single native German man having hit on her. What's going on? Is she getting older? Is it the language barrier? Are German men just not into her for some reason? Sure, she went out eating two times with Stefan from HR but he hasn't really made a move on her. Not even a kiss on the cheek or an earnest hug...

I could swear ive seen this autism copypasta here before...

god I need to leave this goddamned site

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I don't think women in the US appreciate unsolicited cold approaches either. Also I'm pretty sure what you describe (meeting new friends, male and female, through your existing friends) is the "default" modus operandi for finding partners almost anywhere on Earth (except for countries with arranged marriage and etc.).

Stage 3: >6 months have passed an our expat did one of two things; she has accepted that stuff work differently here. Germans apparently flirt differently(more rarely). She got over her most basic female instincts and approached the next best guy who while not even comprehending his apparent luck jumps straight into a committed relationship until it expires. The alternative is that our expat just starts dating our foreigners within her expat bubble, more aligned with her expectations from her previous dating live that have shared her bizarre experience.

How many years have you lived in countries outside of Germany? Can you list them to me?

>In bars they prefer to stick to people they already know instead of aiming to get to know new people as well
HOW? Is that not the point of a bar? You have some friends and they know friends, and after a while you hang out at home. Before you know it you are talking with grill.

Talking =/= what OPs image tries to propagate

Zero years, but based on all this stuff currently going on in the US, it seems that cold approaches aren't appreciated anywhere (for example, the "10 hours walking in NYC" thing; in the aftermath of that, some talk show host interviewed people on the street about it and pretty much everyone agreed that cold approaches are just annoying). I'm talking about in everyday life btw, "club culture" or whatever may well be different from country to country, but only certain types of people take part in that anyway.

No, not at all here in Germany. If you start to approach a group of friends which you are not part of then at best they will for a moment assume that you are an associate of someone within the group if they notice right away that this is not the case people will make a short scornful comment or just downright ignore you for breaking basic social conventions.

In Germany you just skip the talking part?

He wasn't talking about total strangers though, he wrote "you have some friends and they know friends", so it's the same old "friend of a friend" system mentioned above.

Please refrain from giving you unqualified opinion on a matter you have clearly not the faintest clue about. See, you are actually proving my point by writing this ignorant comment.

From the get-go you are equating cold approaches to cat-calling thereby demonstrating your personal German mindset formed within the German culture that actually equates these two. But in other parts of the world these two things are different and distinct.

90% of the time it doesn’t move up to something intimate

The 10 hour walking video wasn't just about cat-calling (which I guess involves not expecting a reply), a lot of people tried to start a conversation with her and that was found to be equally annoying.

You are so naive to believe that someone who fabricated a recording with a clear agenda in mind would include a positive response on her part in a video like this?

This.
It shows that it worked.
A person who never went to NY e.g. the other user instantly thinks of the video as full truth.

What are you going on about? I'm talking about the public reponse to the video (wish I could find the interviews they did), which pretty much proved my point. Of course there are exceptions to every rule, and perhaps you're statistically slightly more likely to encounter on in the US, but in general the most common way of finding a partner is still the "friend of a friend" system.
Cf. also (5 seconds of googling):
mic.com/articles/112062/the-way-most-people-meet-their-significant-others-is-not-what-you-think
en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Relationships/Where_Couples_Met#Who_Introduced_Couples

>and after a while you hang out at home.

In Germany a small foamy beer does not cost 7+€.
Here you stay in the bar untill you are drunk and go home.

What an autistic bunch, imagine approaching a grill and she is there making a disgusted face because someone she doesn't know is talking to her. Fuck frigid women and fuck germ*ns.

Oh yeah, another thing here is that friends work differently here. In Germany, the word 'friend' does not have the same inflated meaning as in other countries. So in general Germans don't have a lot of 'friends'.

Here, a person who you would really consider to be your friend is someone with whom you shared years of common experience with.

A playing friend from childhood. You original school. The sports club you have played at for years and so on.

It takes a long time until a German promotes you from more acquaintance to friend status.

Where do you think I got the motivation to study 3 languages? I haven't head a German girlfriend in years.

I'm sick of frowning faces and frigid bitches.

This is so true it hurts. If we go to a club we meet each other at home and ge totally smashed before we go anywhere. Sometimes we don't even go at all.

We have the word "maat" "mate" in English for someone who is not actually your friend but you with. Größe kek

>Sometimes we don't even go at all.
Probably the better nights?

We use 'Bekannter'. 'Er ist ein Bekannter von mir (von der Arbeit)' = He is an acquaintance from work, for example.

By being poor/not well educated , being a beta unattractive doesn't matter as long as you're rich/well educated .
tho kissless virginity stars from mid 30s here ,It's pretty normal to be a kissless virgin in your 20s ,it's actually preferable for marriage

By repelling thots with righteous fury and adamant will.

I am a kissless virgin and I am 35. I doubt I will not die a kissless virgin.
I have never really tried. I have always been a pathetic loser with no friends or social life.
I also have a pencil penis which has stopped me from even attempting to have physical sex

>tfw used interpals a few years ago
>actually had women talking to me
>one of them was a fat Belorussian woman who was in her 50s
>after a few chats she starts getting erotic
>asks to see my penis
>tfw took 88 pictures of my penis (I remember the number)
>arranged the pictures in a Mosaic of the Belorussian flag and sent them to her
>her response was fucking 'if i wanted very thin thing to remind me of home, I would look at starving children with excess chernobyl radiation from ukraine border'
>she blocked me
>tfw only woman to see my dick in probably 23 years

By not being a fucking autist like me

Confidence is everything

What kind of 50 year old woman is a picky size queen

>>tfw took 88 pictures of my penis (I remember the number)
>>arranged the pictures in a Mosaic of the Belorussian flag and sent them to her

they made drunk sex illegal

>You could collect toenail clipping
Wtf, I'm not weird. It's perfectly normal

>he didn't use a script and win the numbers game
Also her comment is fucking savage.

by being a dick to other people and having no friends

>>arranged the pictures in a Mosaic of the Belorussian flag and sent them to her
>>her response was fucking 'if i wanted very thin thing to remind me of home, I would look at starving children with excess chernobyl radiation from ukraine border'
And they say romance is dead?

underrated post

By being an autistic retard like me.

20yo, 6' tall, blue eyes, athletic, lean, smart, rich, KHHV here
severe yellow fever in a town with no asians

>Most Germans form couples the way they make new friends. Either through their extended(and already existing) social circle, i.e. a friend of a friend or by meeting people at some shared activity. In order to enter an existing social circle you have to be good friends with at least one person or you will constantly regarded an acquaintance at best or an outsiders at worst.
I believe most normal people are like that in the West and I'm including middle/upper class Brazilians, like me. Had 5 gf, I met all of them through friends.

>one of them was a fat Belorussian woman who was in her 50s
>her response was fucking 'if i wanted very thin thing to remind me of home, I would look at starving children with excess chernobyl radiation from ukraine border'
Sound like bullshit