Please, Sup Forums, redpill me on women, relations, feminism etc. Where to find a wife? (not in clubs, etc...

Please, Sup Forums, redpill me on women, relations, feminism etc. Where to find a wife? (not in clubs, etc., no decent woman would go there)

Want to find a future wife, but I find it extremely hard. I'm 22. Never kissed a girl, never dated or something. Don't drink, don't smoke, look normally (I'd say good, but no photo will be included), not overweight. I've finished a mathematics school, study at university, have a part-time job and already collected all the money we could need for living together.

Why women are so cruel? When I was 7 years old I've told a girl that I love her, but she didn't like it. After finishing school I proposed a girl to go somewhere, but she declined, and that broke my life for 5 years. Maybe I'm too straightforward. Are women like that in other countries? Maybe women there are better and not brainwoshed by feminism, here I see and epidemic of feminism.

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absolute cancer

western women are golddiggers
and yes, all women are like that
divorce laws are written against you
you can only lose with marriage

women like assholes
treat them like shit and they come back for more
dont try to use logic on them, theyre illogical and run on feelings

when you're in your 40s, when you have amassed money, power and or fame, then you are the alpha, you have the pick of the litter

you dont have to date the single mom, you can date their daughter

but of course, no marriage

pump and dump

Go to church. This is where women who want to start families go.

Not all women are like that. I know for 100% many of my relatives aren't golddiggers.

There is a great deal of truth to "treat them mean, keep them keen". When the guy begins to be be too affectionate or too invested in the relationship many women will see this as a weakness and begin to consider if there could be more to gained from persuing a relationship with another. In a relationship where a woman believes that you could still do better than her, she will work harder to maintain the relationship. As for meeting a nice girl, the best way I have found is introduction from friends. A girl who already scocialises with the same type of people you socialise with are more likely to be compatible with you.

get a job> prove your worth to society>drown in pussy.

not that hard user.

If your friends don't know many women to intruduce you to, consider spending less time on this board and meeting new friends.

>Please, Sup Forums, redpill me on women, relations, feminism etc
If you enter a relationship with a chick then be an asshole to them don't be a nice guy and be a complete piece of shit to them.
>Where to find a wife?
You don't find a wife you should have better things to do in life then just marry a bitch.
> I'm 22. Never kissed a girl,
Have you at least slapped a girl yet?
>Don't drink
Start
>don't smoke,
Start
>look normally
lift weights
>I've finished a mathematics school, study at university
Collect more money and do not let a bitch get to it and live for yourself so you can retire rich or take vacations.

I have a good job with high salary, it's just part-time. Work in family business, so part-time dosn't make it less valuable.

>start drinking and smoking
don't listen to this retard.

What? BUT DRINKING IS PART OF A CULTURAL IDENTITY MY FELLOW LEAF GET DRUNK WITH BUDS EH BUD??

The leaf menace must be stopped.

...

Yellowstone will erupt in two days

Think about pol's userbase. Do you really think a good woman would waste her time with most of the posters here? That leaves only gold diggers or degenerate women who were rejected even by betas. It's no wonder they feel this way.

Don't listen to that faggot, I make 100k and I still have no puss or whatever.

>tfw I found petite, white, conservative girl who was a virgin when we met and is always up for a good fucking

Feels good man

why are you worried, you're in russia. Wives there are a step lower from islamic women

Russia is very integrated in western culture. Many women especially in Moscow (where I live) are feminist. Sad, but true.

I thought that was just a meme..

that's beyond optimistic

This is how russian middle-class people look like.

>calls it puss
>expects women to chase his money
Sure women see wealth as an attractive quality for breeding with (protection/quality of life). But there are many other qualities women look for. Leaders/alpha males, physical strength and age.
Stop being butthurt manlet, workout and socialise with more alphas.

I'm 6ft 3 and I have average physique. I'm not a buffgod or anything but I'm not a fatcuck either. I take care of my body, also I take leadership positions at work as such.

>average physique
>not fat
pick one you autistic beta bitch

highly illegal extreme secret life hack cheat code to finding a good partner: someone who has a good relationship with their parents who are still happily married

>good relationship with both parents
>still happily married
fine but not that important.
good relationship with her father is much more important

Well, that sounds logical. As I've noticed girls living with single moms are usualy far closer to feminist ideas etc.

Oh yea I forgot average here in burgerland is fat fuck. I mean average as in "averagely fit" not "average ameriburger". Also why the assholery? Did Stacy cuck you or something?

>Please, Sup Forums, redpill me on women, relations, feminism etc.
Feminism is like a cancer, it spreads and kills everything it touch.

>Where to find a wife?
For a Russian fellow like you? Here in this weird little village in Brazil:
youtu.be/quKYR1J6W8A

That is Colonia Santa Cruz, 1 hour away from Curitiba, the people here live the same way they did in the begginning of the 19th century, much like the amish in the USA.

The little blonde loli there was explaining that she learned russian before she learned portuguese, she is 11 years old and says she will soon be looking for a husband, the girls there are usually married by the age of 14 or 15.

Every one in the colony is a orthodox catholic.

Go ahead and move there, live off the rest of your years with your blonde brasilian-slavic wife, drinking braska and watching your children grow.

>western women are golddiggers
Not all of them but the majority of them seem to be gold diggers.

calling betas out on their shit is my life's passion thanks

Heh, those old-believers. They're all across the South America. I respect them. But I'm Orthodox, we consider them heretics.

>But I'm Orthodox, we consider them heretics.
Wait, what?

They ARE Orthodox.

Are there more than one kind of Orthodox?

>implying you're alpha

You're probably just a beta plus wannabe. Either way thanks for the tips, I'll lift more.

>thanks for the tips
anytime bitch

>Wahh I deserve women

Kill yourself, cuck. You're not owed shit, and you are no different than fat slutty 30 year old feminsts who think they are entitled to prince charming. You're probably a lot uglier than you think, don't make nearly money as you think, cringey/autistic as fuck and your standards are probably way too high. Accept that if you are an average guy, the best you'll get is an averarge girl I.E stupid, slutty, ugly (or all three.)

How many friends do you have? Through friends is how literally everybody meets girls once school is over.

I kinda feel like a lot of women these days seem to be shallow.

I'm not sure about them, because I don't know portugese. But, I know for sure that almost every Russian religious people that flee to South America for religious reasons were old-believers. They've split from Orthodoxy at XVI century.

>women like assholes
>treat them like shit and they come back for more

This. And beeing an Asshole does NOT mean beeing mean and backstabby. Just show her, that your respect needs to be earned. If that is not the case, and you dont really feel like it on the inside women WILL notice. They have been breed to always adore strong men who know what they want and can smell fear 200 meters against the wind. Dont try to be sweet, dont buy her a drink without her doing anything for you. You might need to train this a little bit if you are an autistic fuck, but it will get better the more you try it.

Women ruin the fun for the whole fucking world

>shallow
entitled*

Why that complex? I'm a plain person and all I want is to do good for a woman, help her, solve her problems, support, etc.

I think lots of the misunderstanding between the genders come from false expectations about the other side and relationships, this does affect males especially though due to modern cultural norms and social expectations.

Why do you want to be around a woman in the first place? What exactly do you expect from a woman?
I mean sure they look nice, smell nice and you want to stick your benis into them but what else?

I just want her to be my wife: talk with her, be with her, etc.

Nikon's reforms, aren't 'ey?

Yes, exactly.

Women are worthless, vane creatures only good for their wet holes.

>But, I know for sure that almost every Russian religious people that flee to South America for religious reasons were old-believers. They've split from Orthodoxy at XVI century.
pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/Igreja_Ortodoxa_Russa

No, these people fled to China running away from Comunism and the uncertainties of Russia from that period of time, it seems there were several areas of your country suffering from famine and pests and such.

They remained there for 25 years, until the chinese revolution. They claimed persecution by the Chinese government and asked UN to intervene. Then they negotiated with the brazilian government to migrate here.

Not sure about other south american countries.

Forgot the second link:
skyscrapercity.com/showthread.php?t=847912&page=6
Use google translator.

I see you join us in our sinking boat, comrade.
I am sorry.

Wow, I didn't know about them. Maybe they're Orthodox then. Because old-belivers ran away from Tsar government, which wasn't very friendly for them.

I think you should be more specific on the long term, serious relationships are something that can last years to a lifetime, there's gotta be some long term expectation from it.
Also, you should be more specific on what you expect from her specifically and consider those as your founding principles i.e something you make clear since the beginning, explicitly or not, lots of women in their 20s don't know what the fuck they want from life and might drag you with them in a pointless relationship that eventually just breaks down simply because some of you get bored.

What I'm trying to get at is that feelings just aren't enough, realistically speaking, feelings can come and go.

Thank you. As I see those people really look like amish. They don't wear traditional russian clothes like old-believers.

Does "raising a happy, healthy, family" count as a good goal these days?

>Maybe they're Orthodox then.
They are, I was not even aware of these old believers you mentioned, don't think any migrated here.

They live isolated at their villages in order to maintain their racial, religious and cultural purity, just look at them, you don't get any more pure than this!

>They don't wear traditional russian clothes like old-believers.
I wouldn't know, to me the girls dress like princesses out of diney fairy tales, but I guess I never saw what a traditional russian clothe actually is.

do you think i would come to this shithole website if i knew how to get a worthwhile gf

As a fellow slav (don't look at the flag, here for vacation), I can advice to you looking for tatar girls. They are not brain-washed muslims on the average. Yes, there are some, but if you are uncomfortable with them, so, skip her and look for your preferential (i.e. orthodox/atheist) one.
Their major plus is that they are old-fashioned, meaning they are less affected by western "culture", which means that you can actually get a decent girl with a whole "Nice Guy" method.
Just, PLEASE, don't start worshipping her as a goddess. You still have to care for yourself, eh?

Well, if all else fails, read Book of Pook...

for me, damn sure, but it should be made clear since the beginning, not something that you very timidly may bring to the table that one time while you are still infatuated until she leaves you because she wants to find herself and wants to travel the world

You forgot the most important one: be very attractive

I want not that much:

1. 100% loyalty.
2. Her looking nice.
3. Her being feminine. (that includes character)

About everything else I almost don't care. I don't want her to cook, clean, etc. having enogh money to eat not at home and hire a person who would clean. If she stays at home - fine. If she wants to work - not good, but no problem in general.

I would make it clear to a woman before I consider having sex with her that I will never buy a big house, fancy cars, jewelry, have an expensive marriage ceremony, etc.

I would say that I plan to have at least 3 kids. If she is a gold digger, she will leave.

Russian clothes would look similar to this.

I've opened wikipedia: yes, many old-believers went to Brasil (they live in Parana, Martu-Grosu, Goyais, Tokantins, sorry for prounanciation). And those Russians from China are also old-belivers as I read from Wiki.

You must at least prove that you can at least take risks in life whether it be smoking or drinking.

I mean, it might seem I'm saying that water is wet but I have the impression that many relationships don't go anywhere and become shit because none of the parts involved has any actual "plan" for the relationship and just follows their temporal infatuation/mood/feels. And this lack of planning is sometimes visible in celibate people as well.
Relationships are serious business. And if they are not supposed to be so, this should be made clear as well.

Prove to who that you can take risks in life? Women? I thought you didn't care about what women think?

>And those Russians from China are also old-belivers as I read from Wiki.
I see, didn't know that. What are the differences between mainstream Orthodox church and this old-believers? There are sevral orthodox churches around the country, many are probrably from the main religion?

What does a normal Orthodox church and an old-believers othodox church look like?

This is all correct. I would make it very clear I plan for it to be a life long relationship.

consider the amount of young men (many of whom are better looking and/or more successful than you) who want exactly the same type of girl you want. you're in a competition with these guys.

consider also how many young women are conditioned from a young age from music, movies, tv shows, etc. to believe being feminine and demure would make them a failure as a woman. few young women are able to see past the lies they are told.

you, on your own, have to find out how you pick out these girls and how to date them. there is dating advice out there but so much of it is bullshit.

i would say the best advice is like attracts like. so if you want a traditionally feminine woman, you ought to be a traditionally masculine man.

There are many brunches of old-believers. The difference is not big: it's a number of words in Holy textes and the writing of some words, also in some religious ceremonies. For example, they write "Иcyc" for Jesus, and we (Orthodox) write "Ииcyc". Nevertheless we consider them non-Orthodox.

The Orthodox Church is very big: not only russians are Orthodox, but also bulgarians, romanians, greeks, serbs, ukrainians, belarussians, etc., etc. And old-belivers are only russians because that sect orgiginated from XVII-century Russia. But there not many of them. Most russians are Orthodox, not old-believers.

He быть бeздapный

I see, will keep that in mind for future reference.

But you know, you might be able to find some traditional village similar to this one except with your own religion right there in Russia. Surely somewhere people still live like they did in the old days?

Thank you for the advise. The important thing I also need to know is what do women want. Trying to do my best.

Define "feminine".
Also, how fit are you?

>The important thing I also need to know is what do women want.
think rationally and critically. what would a traditionally feminine young woman be attracted to? a traditionally masculine man, right? a guy who is in shape and has some muscle mass. a guy who is confident and determined and stoic. a guy with short hair, who dresses well, is well groomed, etc.

>Go to church. This is where women who want to start families go.
Underrated post

degeneracy at its finest.

I love stds and I will continue to contribute to the massive problem facing us today. Stds are on the rise for reasons other than degenerates such as you.

Are you that fucking stupid?

Out of all the degenerate fucking trash I grew up with in NY and go to know from my older brother before I made my own friends, you are just normal top tier trash. Good luck nigger.

Women find that boring though.
Sure back in the day that'd be fine, but trying to find someone now you need to be exciting.
Keep her on her toes, basically

>When I was 7 years old I've told a girl that I love her, but she didn't like it.

>Why women are so cruel?

>After finishing school I proposed a girl to go somewhere, but she declined, and that broke my life for 5 years.

>brainwoshed by feminism


jesus christ you are such a pathetic faggot, even buy Sup Forums standards.

word of advice, leave this place. although Sup Forums can teach you things, weak autists like you just dont have the fucking mental capacity to properly filter the information so you just become bitter, anti social lunatics that any well adjusted person will stay the fuck away from.

im really starting to fucking hate this place, i cant believe ive spend so much time here.