Is sexual restraint necessary? If so, what purpose does it serve?

Is sexual restraint necessary? If so, what purpose does it serve?

It's about maintaining self control. If you constantly give into your desires it clouds your mind and lessens the control you have over your own decision making. Self control and decision making based on the long term greater good, not immediate pleasures, is what separates us from the animals.

This. The more restraint on sex, the more you want to contribute to society

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Yes

It serves the purpose of social order. If I fucked every girl I got horny over in college I would have ploughed many a girlfriend.

Adultery =>fights => social decay

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yes because it makes bonding with a partner more special

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This,

It's so funny listening to people my age.

>I just feel numb about everything and just want to get drunk / fuck

You just know they'll all end up divorced and childless or at best cucked

American education everyone.

Yes, you don't want STDs, unless you're a huge faggot who craves AIDS. Find a cleen one and keep 'er

It prevents beta-males and cucks from uprising due to the monopoly of pussy that inevitably happens

It helps to focus on other, way more important aspects of a relationship between a man and a woman. That sex should serve as a mean of strengthening such relation, not base one upon it. And that having sex with random people is a bad idea.
When you are horny, and alone, you should just masturbate if you have to.

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Delayed gratification (or displaced gratification) is one of the cornerstones of civilisation. It selects for the division of labour and the promotion of monogamy.

I wasn't expecting intelligent responses in this thread.

There's only 80k people living in the Isle of Man, it is pretty rare odds for one of them to be on Sup Forums right now.

keep talking shit tho and SCARF THAT BARF

>>I just feel numb about everything and just want to get drunk / fuck
the people I talk to usually act like partying + money = life

I will never understand them

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I've seen everything now.

You really are a retard if you didnt expect at least a few graphs when you propose a question here.

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Astonishing... The leaf makes sense.

My friend, I have been abstaining from sex for nearly a week. It's not hard but it's not easy. It takes some personal and emotional security to be okay with it. I lost the v at 23 but sex was never really important to me and I have great sex with my gf, who's had more sex than me at least been with more partners. But when it comes down to it, abstaining from sex when it's readily available means you are content with the masculinity and sexuality. Or maybe I'm getting cucked lol. I know that I haven't had any desire to have sex, even when my girl wants to though she'd never say. And that's fine. I'm feeling great overall. I've got more energy, my boners are rock hard and I'm getting better sleep. Feels good not fucking.not having to worry when your next fuck is or if you're gonna be ready for it and able to perform.

I'm secretly GMOW and I'm just cucking my gf lol the confidence boost is worth it. This is what it feels like to be a lying , scheming whore. It feels good

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>Newfags.

I don't feel bad for her at all if that was your intention since she's had her holes filled by other men before you. She's also probably cucking you behind your back so she deserves your cucking

Exactly. Instant gratification is nigger tier. If we all just lived life day by day only caring about whatever instant pleasures we can find without ever stopping to dream of something bigger, we would probably be living in huts and mindlessly reproducing with no values or goals for a greater future. What makes great civilization? They happen when groups of men, instead of fucking whores and getting drunk decide to put aside their daily desires to dream something big. They imagine great things that they know they have the power to create. They will work at their dreams with goals that span over years, decades and even lifetimes. In the end these men will be great, and those who live in the present and never decide to dream big will be dying of aids in a mud hut never having done anything with their lives.

Putting aside desires such as porn, junk food and video games builds a brain that has control over the decisions it makes. It builds on the ability to make decisions based in what is good for you in the long term. Constantly giving in to desires gives you a chaotic mind never being able to adhere to your set goals for the future. You will become stuck in a repetitive state of mediocrity in which your only desires will be meaningless everyday pleasures.

Look at how shitty India is, and the whole of Africa, in absence of sexual restraint. Too many children, nowhere near enough resources, everyone is dumb because there is 3000 children to every teacher.

Lower populations are far more easily managed and sustainable in the long run. Of course there is a point where too low a population becomes a serious problem, but lower is generally far better than higher.

>sexual restraint necessary? If so, what purpose does it serve?
What are you? A subhuman?
If you can't control your sexual urges, or violent outbursts for the matter, you aren'n any better than a rabbid dog.

It was a starting question for a debate not a sincere question.

>tfw working with kids all day has killed my sex drive completely

Yes, sex is just another desire that is programmed into our brains. Just like the desire for food. It's the power to overcome these animalistic desires for the greater good that makes people different than animals. A monkey lives it's life according to the behavior programmed into it's DNA. It does not posses the abstract or long term thinking required to form long term goals. It's this ability along with the power to disregard genetic programming to seek out these goals that makes a person different from an ape.

It stops empowering women, as sex is the only thing they have to offer - and what ultimately turns potential alphas, into betas

Well, I mean the answers are easy, we aren't that wild anymore, at least most of the westerners.
We live under a series of cultural values, laws and religious beliefs that encourages actually the opposite,
Monogamous relationships and consent basically.

I really hope she's not cucking me, cuz I love her. I was doing laundry a minute ago and I saw her underwear and one of them was just a mess with crusted fluids, and she wore those to work bit she nevermessy underwear when Shes around me. I'm slightly concerned. How can you tell if crust is vaginal fluid or semen? Someone is still arousing her though.

It's actually quite rare to see a man in this country so its perfectly understandable.

And she really likes you.

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it's a waste of energy if not done correctly

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