Don't fucking tell me to go back to /adv/ because it is from YOU that I want an answer

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## BACKGROUND INFO ##
>be me
>brand new gf
>been together 1 month
>feels like 1 year
>she is kinda annoying and judgemental
>but sex is amazing
>literally amazing
>I am enjoying it very much
>not sure what I feel for her. I need more time to assess
>she is completely lost
>I_start_noticing_something.webm
>she has this tendency to complain when I don't message her every day. She always wants me to be the first one who messages her, etc.

## THE PROBLEM ##
>I work, do stuff, browse, etc. until 5 a.m.
>Go to sleep
>Wake up at 1 pm
>Have lunch with my father (I used to live in another country, now will be a NEET for a couple of months)
>After lunch, I message her
>I fix a PC
>I set to do some stuff on Excel
>A friend calls me. "Yes, I'll be there at 9 pm"
>All seems tranquil
>I have seen her almost every day for the past week
>We had sex about 3 times every day... if not more
>I'm finally re-gaining some energy
>At about 5 pm, she writes me back
>Some blame about the fact she went to the city because she didn't hear from me soon enough
>I make her notice I had contacted her earlier in the arvo
>She denies
>I show print screen. Smile, try to be tender and caring
>She calls me
>Pissed off. Complains she doesn't understand my routine
>She tells me she went to the city with a dude
>I have already heard of this dude. She had planned a trip with him a month ago, before meeting me
>She describes him as a-sexual and completely devoid of interest in her
>I trust her, but I don't believe he is indifferent.
>My assumption is this guy is the ultimate friendzone edgelord
>She asks if I want to come over now
>I say I'm not sure I want to hang out with her and him. (I don't wanna play Chad in front of him)
>She is even more pissed off
>We try to agree on a meeting time later in the night. I say I am okay with her plan
>She hangs up, still pissed off

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tl;dr

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go back to /adv/ nigger

you can't change her or win her over for marriage (which is the only Sup Forums approved lifestyle)

jews should be sterilized.

the literal niggers of europe

>advice

KYS

She sounds nuts, Antonio.

Find yourself someone mentally stable

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>>I trust her
shes fucking

## EPILOGUE ##
>She writes to apologize
>She says maybe she was a bit tense

Now, given frequency of exchanges, sex, and contact... things seemed too gold to last. Is this womanhood? Blaming people for things outside control?

I am not nervous... just perplexed.

She insists we are not together, but feels like we should be exclusive partners (a.k.a. "together").
She hangs out with other guys and I am okay with that if they are just friends. Which they are, knowing how the lord of the friendzone looks like.

Super-triggered by a Whatsapp message that failed to be delivered in due time (possibly due to her data plan).

Is this what relationships are about?

I mean, we are fucking 30 y.o. independent people with friends, jobs, and things to do... the sky won't fall if we miss a phone call out of a month of sex and romance.

So what's the question?

sage fuck off post your off topic shit else where

Put your foot down and try to get her to understand that you have your own shit to deal with too. And that you cant ALWAYS be around for her to cling to.

get the fuck out to boards.Sup Forums.org/adv/

Not even remotely politics related. You have to go back...

but in the meantime

>i'm in the limerence period of a new relationship and she's already annoying the shit out of me

'Limerence' is the term in psychology for the beginning of a relationship, when you're crazy into each other and just want to fuck and be close to each other all the time. It usually lasts between 8-18 months, and after that a relationship starts to become work.

If she's already annoying you during the honeymoon phase, you are going to fucking hate her once the hormones wear off.

I love I can manipulate you into saying X, provided I include something like "please don't say X" in my OP.

My heart is with you now.

fuck off

Seriously this is not Sup Forums. Just fuck off and stop contaminating this board faggots

You are not giving her tasks to complete and expectations to meet.

You are not doing your duty as the leader of the relationship.

You cant let her free range.

YOu need to tell her to tell you what she is planning for each next day.

Then check in to make sure she does those things.

AT MINIMUM

Otherwise she wont respect you.

DO IT FAGGOT OR GET KEKED.

say things like "when are you going ot work out?"

"you dont work out every day....oh"

Remember you need her to work out every day.

Eat right

Service you daily.

ASk her what she is going to do. Tell her when you expect to see her. In advance.

RUN YOUR FUCKING RELATIONSHIP DONT GET RUN BY HER.

buy her a burka.

>you can't change her
Implying the red pill is not a thing.

>or win her over for marriage (which is the only Sup Forums approved lifestyle)
But is it really so?
Sup Forums-approved marriage is something ideal that unfortunately has no bearing on our current legal systems.
Sup Forums-like marriage is a thing, but actual marriage is just a contract that over-empowers women who can basically blackmail you to divorce and steal your kids, etc. etc.

So, in the latter sense, marriage is not a goal for Sup Forumssters.

> Don't fucking tell me to go back to /adv/ because it is from YOU that I want an answer

Well shit...let's give user an honest read and answer.

>wall of fucking text

tl;dr - go back to /adv/

I'm not taking advice from gypsies.

TL;DR
Go to
Spaghetti fag

Lol just the fact that you didn't confront him means you've already been cucked, user, he's probably cumming you your girlfriends hair right now.

sauce?

She wants to learn your routine so she knows when it's safe to cheat on you. Dump her.

I found a very pleasant board that pertains to these kinds of situations.
It's

lock her up in a cage

stopped reading after the first green chunk

i had a GF like this, was cheating on me with people half my age then screaming in my face afterwards that it never happened when it was fairly obvious.

>get call from one of the guys
>p-p-please dont shoot me
dude what
>i swear she told me she was single
>now shes saying you want to kill me
bro listen, i already packed my bags, you're safe, and i never even threatened you, that would be another one of her lies, i'm not fishing my beloved delta elite out of the court system over a cheater.

this bitch was so psycotic, she yelled at me once for lying because i said i was outside doing nothing, WHEN IN REALITY I WAS SMOKING A CIGARETTE OH NO LITERALLY THE DEFINITION OF DOING FUCKING NOTHING.

shes literally not worth it.

any woman who wants sex 3+ times a day is going to get sex 3+ times a day, if its from you, or some kid aged 16. (she also had a 15yo daughter which made that situation oh so much worse)


i can fucking promise you that guy is not friendzoned.


>I make her notice I had contacted her earlier in the arvo
>She denies
>I show print screen. Smile, try to be tender and caring
>She calls me
>Pissed off. Complains she doesn't understand my routine


listen bro

listen

listen

i worked 9-5 every monday through friday

i would get bitched at but 9:02 if i didnt text her telling her i was at work

and at 5:05 to make sure i left work

she understands exactly what shes doing.


I've noticed you've never said she has a job.
are you paying for everything?

literally same issue with me, and she claims she has a dozen mental problems that don't let her work.

I should have known better than to hook up with a chick at the club on 500mg of mdma.

that shit lasted over a year until i was able to use her new fucktoy as a scapegoat.

She would cut herself eveytime i packed my bags, had to bring her to the hospital twice.

Normally i would post, but i've been there.

ban this stupid shill

see
he needs to manage her routine.

He is beta af that's the root of the problem.

he doesnt innately desire to be in charge.

evidenced by pussy statements like:
>I mean, we are fucking 30 y.o. independent people with friends, jobs, and things to do... the sky won't fall if we miss a phone call out of a month of sex and romance.

He doesnt even think in terms of "who is in charge", he's a faggot.

>'Limerence' is the term in psychology for the beginning of a relationship, when you're crazy into each other and just want to fuck and be close to each other all the time. It usually lasts between 8-18 months, and after that a relationship starts to become work.
>If she's already annoying you during the honeymoon phase, you are going to fucking hate her once the hormones wear off.

Good term. I didn't know that. Here we call it "honeymoon time" (with loose reference to marriage).

But my problem lies before that.
Consider the following:
>she is in full limerence
>I am not

Seriously. I am over this. I got cucked in my life. I fucked. I've met whores. I've seen girls. I've made love to them... etc.
But I am not nuts for her.

Well... I am nuts when we have sex because she is very cool and amazing. She wants sex everywhere.
We did it in the car park (twice), and then in front of her parent's house one day when I came to pick her up after a dinner.
We did it at the seaside, etc.

And I can guarantee that during sex I am 100% taken and also when we walk out hand in hand.

But I am definitely not into limerence. Not perchance I will meet with another two girls this week... not because I am an arsehole, but because I promised myself never to shut doors that are open in my life.

>t. I am not committing again the mistake of losing my mind for a single girl and shut other ones out just because I feel confident.

this pasta is old and stale as fuck

kek yourself, mexico

Post nudes

>be me
>dating girl for a month
>bring out an ounce at her dorm infront her room mates
>they think I'm a drug dealer
>laugh
>she is fat
>get her to suck me off a bunch of times because I hate fucking fat sluts
>dump her
>don't care
>move on and date hotter girl
>rinse and repeat until satisfied with current gf's hotness

why is it so hard for you omega's?

She's got some sort of dependency problem probably due to past relationships.

Likely it is reparable, but not easily so.

Unless you have some skill in psychology and even more importantly a good understanding of yourself it doubtful if you can help her grow out of it.

I would stay stick it out for a while, try to slowly assert dominance and see if you can mold her a bit. Otherwise just enjoy your honeymoon period.

she is batshit fucking insane, stop giving in to her wishes and demands.

Just tell her no and do shit on your own premise, either she respects it or you find a new girl.

>She insists we are not together, but feels like we should be exclusive partners (a.k.a. "together").

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

THATS CODE WORD FOR SLEEP AT YOUR OWN HOUSE SO I CAN FUCK SOMEONE IN OUR BED

LITERALLY BEEN THERE BEFORE

FUCKING RUN

ITS NOT WORTH THE MENTAL PTSD I PROMISE YOU WIlL HAVE FOR THE NEXT 3 YEARS

Shes starting to realize you know the game, and is trying every mental trick in the book to keep you by her side for when she needs you.

>I mean, we are fucking 30 y.o
Mine was 39

Wife her so you can be that crazy italian couple that fights super loudly all the time.

But seriously, the clock is ticking at 30.

Oh look its a girlfriend advice episode. Where the fuck do you think your are, this is Sup Forums, half the people here are shut in, Sup Forumsirgin NEETS.

go back to

>ASk her what she is going to do. Tell her when you expect to see her. In advance.
>RUN YOUR FUCKING RELATIONSHIP DONT GET RUN BY HER.
Except her job is fucking on call -- translator, interpreter, English classes and sheit.
So I lay down my appointments for the week. Tell her. I tried to agree on a schedule yesterday.

Now she complains one of her major clients will be back next week so she will be too busy to see me.

Thanks fuck. But she cannot be pissed off with me because she
expects
in the future
that we
might not
be able
to see each other
as often
as in the past week

This is just how life is. You cannot make a drama out of it.

SAUCE?

You're a stupid fucking cuck, fuck off

>I trust her

Woowee you done fucked up son.

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the final fucking straw was over her cheating for the 3rd time

she calls me up while i'm in the next town over on some on-site business.

>i've got a gun to my head
>i just dont know why i keep doing this
doing what?
>i cheated again, i want to kill myself
its okay baby i'll be right there
>drive 50 minutes to get there
>slowly approached the armed crazy
>she cries and falls into my lap
>i grab my handgun
>push her off my lap and start packing my bags
>w-w-what are you doing?
Do you know how fucking hard it is to retrieve a handgun out of the legal system once someone committed suicide with it?
>w-what
I'm grabbing my electronics, you can keep the rest, you're a lot dumber than i am if you think i'm going to stay around while this keeps happening.

my last sight of her was in my rearview mirror as i drove away

Which was honestly pretty great, her fatass tripped running after my car, and i saw her face full of blood when she looked up in tears.

Dont reveal her schedule , c.uck.

Ask her for her schedule , if its on call, it's not emergency.

She'll know at least a day in advance.

ASk her the day before.

"When will you be available tomorrow,, when will you call me...I want to see you this time..etc."

Do it. Dont let "on call:" persuade you that she doesnt know at least a day in advance her schedule.

>just the fact that you didn't confront him means you've already been cucked
What about I don't have 2 to 5 fucking hours to
- go to the City,
- meet with them,
- watch movie and sheit
- come back
- manage to meet at 9 pm with the person I agreed to see at 9 pm

Also, she kept describing this dude as a loser. An actual loser.

And I don't have fucking time to go there and hang out with her AND the loser.

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On a different tone, she keeps being hit by a dude who is married... and I insisted to meet him because she told me. He is her best friend's husband.

So she told me a dude hits on her when she meets and I ask to see him because I am not afraid of this husband who wants to fuck his wife's best friend.

I think I have already marked my territory when I proposed to join her when this inappropriate husband is around.

Why would you go anywhere on Sup Forums for advice? Sup Forums'll be all
>you're a cuck run while you still can
/adv/'ll be all
>you're not understanding enough you need to work things out

You're just picking a circlejerk when you ask.

>Now she complains one of her major clients will be back next week so she will be too busy to see me.

theres not a single client on the face of the planet that doesnt enjoy time at the bar, AKA time for your GF to be with you.


Theres no fucking way, that for an entire week she will be busy with a client.

If thats the case, shes literally a hooker and thats why shes on call.

"I dont like when you are with other men, if thats a problem, we cant be together."


Grow some balls.

Every true story of heart break starts with a man trusting a woman.

If a woman acts sketchy, end it. The end. Boom. Don't look back.

If she's normally pretty reliable and then she flakes out on you.

Fucking end it. Don't look back.

If she calls you, and then you hear a male voice in the background, just fucking hang up end it. Don't look back. Don't bother askign "whodat?" you fucking know who it is you retard.

>we are fucking 30 y.o.

youtu.be/scBOjH5sKbM

if you continue this relationship you're going to have PTSD in the future.

i destroyed the next 2 relationships after crazybitch just because of how i was treated.

paranoia is not good for any relationship.

>she kept describing this dude as a loser

did it ever cross your mind that maybe, just maybe she's lying to you?

>I've noticed you've never said she has a job.
>are you paying for everything?
See Actually, the NEET is me this time.
At least for a while.