Feminism Has Enabled My Husband to Be Lazy and Selfish

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>I am angry in the same way that women who felt forced to stay at home must have been angry. I'm angry that I push paper around when other mothers push their children around in strollers while the sun is still out. I'm angry that I have to fit all of my family's grocery shopping within the space of an hour's lunch break, frantically throwing things in my cart as I speed by the mother with her child in her cart, calmly checking the list she'd spent the morning preparing while that child watched Sesame Street. I'm angry that I smell sunscreen, or see a friend's post about making play-dough at 2:30 in the afternoon, or glance over at the mother checking carefully selected books out of the library with her young children while I hunt for stay-at-home jobs on the computer and feel the twisting, actually physical pain of regret over the loss of the most valuable of times with my young children. Regret — the immensity of which I know I will not overcome in my lifetime.

>My husband is part of a growing number of men who have discovered the loophole in the feminist movement — the one where we say we'll work, and so they no longer make as much of an effort to, in virtually every professional and domestic capacity. Considering how large this problem is (see Hanna Rosin's 2010 Atlantic article "The End of Men"), I fear it's more of a social mindset thing than a my-husband-might-be-kind-of-a-slacker thing.

>Either way, I have lost my freedom, and feminism has won me no choice.

Thanks, feminism!
Your legacy is intact!

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hahahaha what a dumb slag

>tfw i may get to sit at home and play with kids and lift while my dumb feminist wife goes out and shops and works instead of getting a job n shit

sounds swank af tbqh

someone is realizing that they were, in fact, better off in the kitchen

>My husband is part of a growing number of men who have discovered the loophole in the feminist movement — the one where we say we'll work, and so they no longer make as much of an effort to, in virtually every professional and domestic capacity. Considering how large this problem is (see Hanna Rosin's 2010 Atlantic article "The End of Men"), I fear it's more of a social mindset thing than a my-husband-might-be-kind-of-a-slacker thing.

>Either way, I have lost my freedom, and feminism has won me no choice.

AHAHHHAHAHHAHAH SUCK IT FEMINISTS, YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW

the grass is always greener

Will Donald finally fix modern women? Will all those tumblrinas finally get back in the kitchen? Will the job market finally reach a point of stability where a single hardworking man can actually support a family again?

WE WON!!!!

OMG congrats guys, we can sit at home forever. Best Day Ever.

>within the next couple years western women go full circle and claim being a housewife is the most empowered thing for them to do

>not having the husband do the grocery shopping
>not letting the husband do the housework while she makes the money

And this is where the problem lies. Women want to play both sides and then complain they can't manage two completely different roles at once. She just can't let her husband take on the role of homemaker.

>we want to be waste a fuckton of our time for bank mafia too!

>this doesn't feel empowering at all!

>Please bank mafia, can you raise my children because I now don't have time

>why are my kids like zombies! uggghh!

It's inevitable user, I guess the hippies were right when they said 'Mother nature always corrects herself' or some BS

I think as autism and ADD and shitty genetic traits continue to become more common and the real wage rate continues to plateau or decline against the cost of living/inflation it will become trendy again to have kids in your 20s or even just kids at all.

It really is so interesting to me how the 'FUCK BIG CORPORATIONS - SOCIALISM WOO' girls are the same ones that claim to get empowerment out of not being self-employed, but working some faceless corporate job making someone else money

does anyone else feel good knowing they are the end of their genetic line, at least for themselves? my family will lvie on thru my siblings and such, but feels good knowing i am the culmination of thousands of years of genetic selection (even if done only by my own ancestors) and i personally feel my lineage has reached a point where i can just kinda bang sloots and that'll be my legacy ykno?

Patrichy = men in control, women as back up
Feminism = women in control, men as back up
Come on, it doesn't take a genius for these stuff

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

>Fucking feminists, though

>tfw i could be a descendant of jesus christ and everyone worships my ass but nope that fucker died a virgin

I-i hope there's atleast one person that will remember me when I die...

A better man than that doesn't date women.

feminists bitching online is the gift that never stops giving. miserable shrews.

You reap what you sow

We've been saying this all along. Good morning!

Have no children and no one will give a fuck about you in 10 years after your death.

Blacks are currently clamoring for 'Separate but Equal' so probably

>xojane
jp, is that you?

Duh

Feminists hate Anime
Because they are ugly and racist

>"We have to stay at home and get free money while our husbands work"
>"This is bad we want to work too"
>Roles swap
>"Wait no we want money"
>"Fucking SEXISTS stay at home and get free money while we work"

>Feminists give up the joys of motherhood for soulless corporate careers while shunning men and pushing us aside because strong and independent woman now
>realize that their dildos and cats won't wine and dine them or take them out on dates
>where is my semen dispenser/money making slave to support my degenerate, lazy lifestyle boo hoo work is hard

Meanwhile in the comments:

"I.... don't think this is feminism's fault, I just think your husband sounds like a lazy d-bag, and you should tell him to get his shit together or get out."

Elisa: " Thats what i did... now i pay child support so he can play xbox all day...
Or play group... he is a good dad...
Just not a good match for a husband."

How is that equality coming along roasties?

It is degenerate too.

Underrated.

Reap what you sow, hoe. This is the blowback you begged for.

HOW DOES THAT EQUALITY TASTE YOU FUCKING BITCH?!

MEN TOLD YOU THIS WAS GOING TO HAPPEN!!! AND YOU TOLD US TO STOP "MANSPALINING" YOU!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAH! WE GAVE YOU EVERY SINGLE REASONABLE WARNING! HAHAHAHA!

I LITERALLY CAN'T STOP LAUGHING!

EAT IT UP YOU WHORE! HAHAHAHAHHAH!

no she can't, women cant delegate

that site is pure cancer. with noscript on, NO CONTENT IS DISPLAYED.

apparently you need a cancerous amount of javascript to put ascii text on the internet. shm

Hitler didnt have children. Neither did Jesus.
I want you to think about that

>mfw by sitting on our asses and shitposting we are destroying feminism
>we have now become the white woman for the white woman
>we have become the jew within the jew
>we will suck them dry until they bleed out and the next generation will be uninhibited in making western civilization great again

This. I'd love to be a stay at home dad, chilling with my kids, dog and preparing dinner

>i pay child support so he can play xbox all day...
This man is the patron saint of NEETs

What's the purpose of having someone remember you when you're dead?

A legacy is all you leave if you're not important to print on the page of history.

Someone down the line might do it and you'll be responsible for that though.

/r9k/ has found their venerated hero

>Being this much of a nihilist

Man, I would really like to have a kid, but cunts nowadays be cunts. This doesn't seem like a bad idea, but I will have to be cucked, but eh, considering how women are going nowadays, I might in either case, so might as well optimize.

His face is probably a literal smug pepe every day

For anyone who actually read it, her follow up is just as blame free

xojane.com/issues/response-learning-feminism-piece

>Feminist
>Opening sentence "I am angry"
It checks out

It's like with being a NEET.
It's great for a time and then your mum dies/ your feminist wife divorces you and you're kinda fucked because you have no money or job.
Also in the latter case you also need to pay alimony.

Suicide is always an answer

Why would you want to change a situation whereby women are working and earning money

"Joys of motherhood"

you just want to bribe a woman to live with you and be lazy

people like you are scum because you're waiting to throw another man under the bus

many lols

And when you get a divorce YOU get to pay HIM monthly alimony.

God bless this gay earth. I needed this today.

It doesn't work like that. Especially in "mother" states.

They can only afford to be lazy if you have fewer than 3 children with them. Anything more makes for the equivalent of a full time job.

This article is hilarious. Only thing is needs is a more work on how turning women into men (ie career women), turns men into idolent delayed adolescent manchildren.

Congrats on destroying a successful family model feminists, reap what you sow.

Have your cake and eat it too!

>womyn

Really?
Citation needed for hitler
There's like a few books on jesus' wife and child

and now the sexual revolution rears its' ugly head and women realize what men learned in the 1960's

>feminism was actually pro man all along
Now I can sit at home and have some affairs, while the bitch is working.

THANKS FEMINISM

Heres an archive link.
web.archive.org/web/20160830080524/http://www.xojane.com/issues/feminism-has-made-men-lazy

I don't have an education and married a girl who did. I figured in the modern world it's safer for me especially in commiefornia. Since she makes significantly more than me I will make out if the relationship goes south.

When we have kids it will give me leverage there too as I will be going part time and making even less to help with the child care. Equality is a bitch.

>being NEET is the ultimate redpill

in other news, the water is wet.

Hey I wanted to work my butt off for you whores so you could stay at home but you fucked Chad. Hope it was worth it.

>"My husband is part of a growing number of men who have discovered the loophole in the feminist movement"
>Still found a way to blame men for her problems.

Impressive.

that's the loophole m8

>that comment section is pure cancer
Patriarchy this and that, and dumb bitches still not getting the point.

Problem is she won't respect tou and you won't respect yourself. Will nake your home life miserable, will make her miserable, and will make you misrable.

Having a female provider and male home-maker is out of accord with our human nature, and being alienated from our natural condition will cause you problems.

This women is whinging in a wordy online article, imagine how much she is whinging at home?

>carisa peterson

I actually read the article. The funniest thing about it is that the girl is complaining she has to work a 9-5 because she has a media degree, while her husband, who undoubtedly got a real degree, can work a comfy stay at home job. This isn't even "I have to work because my husband doesn't want to and all men do it because all men are pigs"
It's "feminism made me choose a bad degree because it was easy and female friendly and now I have to work a bad job to survive while my husband who didn't spend 5 years partying has a comfy job and this is sexist and also feminism is bad now because it made me do dumb things"

Jesus fucking Christ women will try to destroy anything, even things that work for them, just because they don't work for them enough

its called evolution

Maybe this feminism thing is a good thing.

She might make more money but she's still submissive and relies on me heavily to do our budgeting and trust me to make the right decisions.

It's weird but it works and I only made the decision because I felt it could work. My wife also only had one other brief partner so were very bonded.

>she works all her life supporting the family
>you sit at home and do all the things you want to do
>if you have enough of her, just divorce that cunt and get 50% of her belongings
>she also has to take the children

Why am I not living that life right now?

That's a gr8 piece of tapestry, where didya get it?

She wrote a followup as well.
xojane.com/issues/response-learning-feminism-piece
>My article wasn't really about feminism.
Ok then.

xojane.com/author/carisa-peterson
That being said, that woman has pretty ugly teeth.At least here in japan crooked teeth look cute. Not just yellow and rotten.

Wtf man
have some mercy

Fuck i would love to hear from this guy after shit hit the fan.

No matter how many kids, they will all get the same amount of parenting and attention

>ahhh, womyn

Man ...this pic always gets me

>worldinwar.eu/russian-special-forces-commando-last-words-transcript-the-offensive-on-palmyra-25-03-2016/

so wait, her husband is working from home AND he takes care of the kids too while he is doing that?

> Feminism Has Enabled My Husband to Be Lazy and Selfish
>My article wasn't really about feminism.

Sound's like marrying an feminist is the life we always wanted?

desu she needs a dental plan

bleach that shit up and give her a toothbrush and she'd be good to go

This bitch just took the hard, deep red-pill and is now an enemy of feminism, the very people she sought approval from.

Welcome to the dark side, Carla. You did this to yourself.

>I want to work
>I don't want to work anymore

I'm really confident in the fact that the only reason why women haven't all been burned is because we need you for procreation, my god you are all terrible persons but you have a vagina and we need that vagina.

These sites pay writers to write bullshit for clicks. They don't support any of it. It's all fake.

Names are for tombstones. Who gives a shit? Try to make the world a little better and call it a day. That's what I'm doing.

I wonder how many times throughout human history have women whined and bitched into working to just realize that they prefer being mothers. This surely can't be the first time.

Guys figured out that staying at home and being a NEET with a Samson option is the single most empowering thing. This is too fucking ironic, I feel like God is now shitposting with us lads.

Seems like we're slowly succeeding with crashing the system into getting the old order back again. Make women do things they were never supposed to be doing and take on the extra workload and it's only a matter of time.

A feminist world creates a perfect place for male NEETs and house-husbands. It can only go on so much longer before everything starts falling apart the more people realise that and join in.

>mfw we get a patriarchy back again because the wheels fell off the matriarchy they were trying to build.

I swear I'd seen that url before and it was some satirical site. The fact that the woman has literally only one article has me kind of suspicious. Much as I'd like to hope it's legit.

However, linkedin.com/in/carisapeterson?trk=pub-pbmap checks out.

Women are just oversized children and they don't actually know what they want.

Sauce?

yup.

I honestly believe that our household is better off. She has used our situation to further her career and we openly talk of how she has the advantage in the workplace. If I help with childcare she can still reap those benefits lost on a lot of women who take breaks.

I get more time to make sure the house is actually in order and I got the Samson option.

Why is the husband not going shopping and doing the housework if he is a stay-at-home father? She doesnt make sense.

You really think everything will just magically become great again?
Its not just that the women are screwed, men as well. The new generation doesnt know responsiblity, its only about themself.
What will happen is what always happens once the money runs out. Strong men who keep them safe. No loyalty to the tribe etc. Thats why you see refugee welcome signs.
I always see Sup Forums blaming women, but its the fault of men to let it get that far.
Women will always test out the borders of how far they can go and men did nothing to stop them.
The damage done is pretty much irreversible if you look at the numbers, if we not talking about genocide here, which men these days would never support. The west is fucked my friend.

>patriarchy survives millennia
>matriarchy usurps crashes in the same generation
I want to say it but I'm not going to say it.

>I am angry in the same way that women who felt forced to stay at home must have been angry.

Doesn't she mean she's angry in the same way that men who were forced to go and work while their wives sat at home must have been?

>Women want to be in charge and do the work
>Men get to sit back and take on the feminine role of basically doing nothing

>Some women still complain about this advancement and progress

Sounds like Internalized Misogyny to me. Hope someone calls her out on it.

listening to women complain really drives me up the wall
particularly when they are on self entitled rants about men
so no thanks Ill save my nerves for today its good weather here

>is proud of being polygamous
disgusting degenerate

Not really. Most feminists were just going to be bitter cat ladies anyway.

That's why they're feminists.

The problem is now that men don't have to care about society or engage in it anymore, women have a much more vocal and demographic presence. Which in turn means societies managed with emotions instead of reason.

Which means MUH REFUGEES, MUH PARASITIC WELFARE STATE, etc etc.