Why is it so much hard for people to make friends than it used to be...

Why is it so much hard for people to make friends than it used to be? Everyone here complains about this and it seems like a huge issue.

I've made plenty of friends since I bought the filters

thanks Alex

>Everyone here
Autism, user. Autism.

at least 60% of Sup Forums are normies (don't know any word to use) by this point. That's simply not true anymore.

I'm a decently good looking guy. I have a lot of hobbies, and I'm easy to be around.

Anytime I am involved in a community, I get laid a lot. I even get laid from random women sometimes.

But I straight up cannot make friends to save my life. Since I turned 23, I don't have a single one. I can't figure out where people meet. I don't even see people hanging out anywhere.

I've tried going to church, and literally every person my age acts like they have turbo autism. Bunch of total weirdos.

What kind of hobbies are you into? Maybe they just happen to not involve people.

What about work?

I own a web design business and I am a professional classical guitarist.

I also like hiking.... Yeah don't really know what to do here. I'm losing it.

Have you ever tried making music with as a group, offer guitar lessons, travel and hike somewhere in a foreign country?

At least you get pussy though, that's pretty amazing considering you have no friends.

Kek dude I'm so little in my life and have friends all over. Just travel and play music for a year

You are turning Scandinavian...

Everyone seems to think they are hot shit, like a star in their own movie.
They overestimate themselves and end up snobbing everyone.

Friends are not really a thing once you get older. You tend to have more business partners or acquintances. Friends are a childhood thing and then everyone moves out, gets jobs, kids, and have no time for friends.

Maybe you're just too full of yourself. Thinking you're "better" than anyone else.

Pretty common, and pretty deadly

Change it while you can

basically you are fucked. you'll realise this as you get older.

the only friends that stick are from school, you know, from childhood. everyone else is transient and does not give a fuck.

welcome to 2016, fucker.

>filename

Jews ruined it all.

Is it true that Norway is one of the hardest countries in the world to make friends in?

I've heard Norwegians are very cold to outsiders and it's almost impossible to socialise there if you aren't in a group since primary school.

Play out at local venues. I'm in a small time local band and you make great friends that way, not to mention the friendships you make with the people you're in a band with. One of my best friends bar none is the drummer. We write the music together and it's wicked fun. Try getting a group together man.

Because there is no such thing as society and culture anymore, just individuals who have been brainwashed into jewish culture of chasing shekels, status and screwing over everyone else. There is no such thing as friends anymore because they really are just strangers to be used and disposed after fulfilling their narcissistic support role.

You can't make friends if you never leave your house.

>Friends are not really a thing once you get older.

This. Your only hope of not being alone is to settle down and have kids.

My last name is Skanke, will you be my friend?

roxana babenco

That's fucking depressing. Yeah I know it's good to progress in love but sometimes I just want to hang out at the mall, play Mario Kart, and smoke weed. Is that too much to ask?

>in love

I meant to say in life.

Don't try so hard.

>want to get women
>hear different advice from different people
>try all of it, nothing works
>someone tells me not to try so hard
>I do that
>it doesn't work
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck this shit

The world is being redesigned in a way that easily creates "bubbles". Not through a conspiracy or anything, it's just how it becomes easier to make money. So people end up being surrounded with others like them, never deal with any who disagree with them AND become sort of self-sufficient, so they barely have to interact with outsiders at all.

With less contact, any kind of contact you try to initiate is very similar to you invading their territory. You can make it work, but it will be a lot more difficult than, say, both you and their group having to depend on each other, so that interacting with each other becomes mandatory for survival.

Overpopulation also fucks everything up since we all stop being people and start becoming numbers. You start meeting so many different people that you stop really meeting people.

This probably one of the simpliest most solid pieces of advice though.

We know "be yourself" is fucking worthless, but seriously don't try so hard. Women are really turned away by a guy that is really thirsty for her., ask for numbers but don't stress out if some cunt doesn't answer your calls or whatever.

I've been thinking about this a lot over the past year or two. I've found an answer that at least I'm satisfied with:

For one, people are a lot more diverse in their interests, hobbies, and convictions than they used to be. This is for several reasons. Mostly, the internet and increased accessibility to globally distributed media. Back in the day, all of your neighbors and everybody at your workplace partook in whatever entertainment your geographical area offered and watched the same TV channels, since there were so few. Basically, you were forced to share interests and opinions with those you came into contact with.

Now however, thanks to the internet you can live next door to somebody and be completely different people. You can follow different news outlets, listen to whatever music you like, and basically get everything that shapes you as a person through a screen that allows people to consume whatever they fucking want. Nobody is sort of forced to be like their neighbor or coworkers.

Throw in racial and religious diversity and you have the perfect recipe for a society of people who share nothing in common with their neighbors and thus do not make friends.

Kek, OP. I know pic is unrelated but the story of those fags is kinda funny. They're Romanian, the chick had a fivesome with those two manlets included, did drugs, got recorded and it went viral. Media blew up, was fun to watch all the turmoil.

Oh yeah, and don't be like them, be humble, be honorable, be kind, try to do your best in making this world a better place, it would've been already a good place but most people are just like those fags in the pic. Cancerous degenerates with no respect for another human being.

>pic seems pretty related now.

Do you even have to ask...

Wow that's really depressingly true

Wow missed out on all that shit
Thanks mom and 90s panic about pedophile serial killers etc
Then my social anxiety took over after that into a smooth transition into depression
At 24 I've been depressed half my life

>don't stress out if some cunt doesn't answer your calls or whatever.
I mean, I've gotten numb to that sort of stuff on an individual level so that doesn't bother me as much, but when I look back I wasn't really trying that hard, and I look even further to when I was trying different things. The result is always the same. Maybe I'm just ugly.

How is pic related seen in your country? Does his teachings still have influence? I've been reading The nest Leaders Manual and For my Legionaires and it's really resonated with me.

>And I have a wicked sense of humor

Greetings, Broseph rainbow. Have you Ironed your Flannel yet? Perhaps, tis the season to be jolly, no?

>harder to make friends
>make friends

lol. something that never existed in my country can't get harder. speak for your self americlap

>Maybe I'm just ugly.
There's your problem. Not that you're ugly but that you even care if you're ugly.

I don't have friends now and deserve it. I had a pretty bad habbit of kicking everyone from my life. I tend to have only a few friends but I am really loyal to them and give myself totaly to them. My friends were always like soul mates to me and they felt the same about me (not in sexual way, just like a real brother/sister).

Only problem is that I got dark past and it tends to get in the way of all my relationships. I don't want to show my weakness so I rather tear apart a perfect friendship than the fear of being rejected for what's sleeping inside me.

But whatever life is just a small moment in eternity, we all die and whatever you do in life you will lose it all at one point.

I got Aspergers

I function and live like a normie but when it comes to making friends and social situations I just fail
I still try to make friends though..

I'm just trying to identify the problem here and I'm entertaining the thought that it's not outside the realm of possibility that my failures have been the result of my looks.

I'd say it's more about an even 50% split. Most normies are congregated on Sup Forums, /soc/ and their diaspora on other boards like Sup Forums. And that's grouping all of the not-full-blown-normies-but-not-full-blown-loser anons with the normies.

Du khash keni Fruende mache in der Schwiez? Gopfer Dami non a mol inch bin so ficked

>having friends

>gets laid
>has no friends

I find this hard to believe user

They do all have turbo autism. People are literally socially retarded because there's no organic culture in your geographic area, the only organic cultures are all digital (like you fags on here). It's rare to find people in your area that think what you think and like what you like, but it's easy on the Internet, so that's how people do it. I made great friends in the military, but my job field was notably insular and specific in that we were all highly intelligent under achievers.

Or maybe it's not even your fault at all and women are just vapid whores. Either way who gives a shit what they think? Why put that much weight on their opinions anyway? They're a nobody to you, just as much as you're a nobody to them.

just bee yourself :)

Smartphones. You are literally never isolated from your social group and so therefore never have to make new friends. Of course this works the other way too and prevents people from making friends with you.

This is correct and a reason why the (((zuckerberg))) solution has achieved so much.

Don't fall asleep.

I just want someone to put my dick into. I stopped caring about that true love BS in high school.

Good question.The young people that actually heard of him are mostly bluepilled edgelords that think they're fucking neo-nazis n shit and they're spewing some shallow nationalist/far-right ideas, but their only purpose is to stray away from the "conformists" and look cool. They didn't read shit.

As what I've seen, teachings/doctrine of Zelea Codreanu or this guy (pic related) are kind of shunned due to propaganda. Mainstream Romanian history books sound like most of them are made up, like most facts have been replaced with horseshit.

It's funny that older Romanians are really traumatised by the communist era but they'd still say something like "Could've been worse, we could've been more influenced by those legionairies motherfuckers".

So yeah, history class ain't going to tell anything good, kind of censored. But slightly redpilled people, with a little bit of culture always make do. And they can see through the probably j00-ish propaganda and appreciate someone truly dedicated to their nation and people

>no longer
>has always been

Isn't that a bit contradictory?

>tfw you meet hundreds of potential best friends but nothing ever comes of it because everyone is anonymous
>if everyone wasn't anonymous Sup Forums would be shit
What a cruel joke

Top kek, kikel. Your arrogance is showing.

>using ifunny

There are a plethora of reasons for this, but let's just point out the most basic.

1. Our technological advancement has allowed people to go throughout life without having to form actual relationships.

2. Moral degeneracy (which also makes it harder for people to trust one another and build completely genuine friendships).

3. Created political "division". The political correctness nature of most of our societies is basically forcing everyone into their own little subsections of "friends" based on their political beliefs (for the most part).

These are what I believe to be the most apparent causes for people not having to make/sustain actual IRL friendships like they used too.

the people who post here are probably weird and awkward irl. when iwas young i thought people who posted on FYAD were probably cool irl so i went to one of the euro meet ups and learned the most valuable internet lesson

never drop the irony

I've never met all the criteria for autism but my pathology is that I'm always fucking consumed in what I've got going on inside my head to the point where I cant interact with others normally. At first it was because I was engaged in my own inner fantasies. I got older, more self-aware and realized that behavior was abnormal, so in repressing myself I became anxious. And that anxiety went from generalized fear to specific and pertinent. I always have something on my mind, some fear that may or may not happen, acting as an inhibiting undercurrent whenever I try to interact with someone or do anything. I live a life of fear because I chose that instead of just letting my imagination run free.

And that's just it, isn't it? In my entire highschool career I've made one friend, and no memories. Because I have no memories; I'm never in-tuned with what's "going on". Even when I was relatively happy in my childhood I was so absorbed in endless thought about shit that I didn't really engage myself with others, or those around me.

It might be ADHD, I don't know. My point is, I can't fucking make friends and am too far gone to do so. It's ironic because my exterior is that of a full-blown dudebro Chad. I lift, I've tanned, and am tall, dark, and handsome. Just severely incapable of letting his guard down for one second and living free.

Almost as if it was by design...

people spend alot more time indoors

im from lausanne mate. dont speak that gutter language at me

What a stupid nigger

Scandinavians have their friends their entire lives, though. That's why foreigners find it so hard to befriend us.

it's fucking weird these days. chads and autists easily got along in the 90s. they'd do the same shit like going to arcades and everyone was more outgoing. now everyone is on their phones pretending to be busy

Then get a hooker. They're probably more honest than most women you'll meet nowadays.

Sauce on the vid ?

So the implications of this sort of society are interesting because on one hand, we are given a truly blank slate upon which to establish our interests and convictions. Instead of being limited by our local options, we can search an infinite pool of stuff for what we like the best (and we can do it all without the need for another physical person). So it allows people to fall more naturally into their natural interests.

Unfortunately, like I said, this totally fucks with social cohesion. The closest person with similar interests and beliefs to you might be miles away. The effect snowballs when you can only find people with similar interests online you are less inclined to go out and try to meet people because chances are they really aren't very similar to you.

And also deteriorating social cohesion is literally destroying the West. So RIP us.

>tfw not a total sperglord and have a job
>but absolutely disgusted by people
>tfw people try to make friends with you

I think no matter which way you slice it, the ability to be completely satisfied without having to interact with other humans is the root of the issue.

Also what I said earlier about there being too much media out there that people can be next door neighbors and live in completely different worlds. Local proximity does not generate similarities between people anymore.

>Canton
Live: Vaud.
Origin: Fribourg

Ah didn't see your other post.

I was born in Bern until my parents whisked me away to the USA

you're disgusting

No Judas here, completely Euro.

Now I'm not saying these aren't problems created/perpetuated/used by (((them))). I'm saying that these problems in general are stimulating an environment which makes finding/keeping friends hard. Thus, making more people become "loners".

Just lol if you think those things don't have anything to do with making friends in modern society.

You're delusional.

Well, it's easy for people in their 30s, because we didn't grow up on the internet. Im 38 years old, i have no problem walking up to hot chicks and getting their number, take them out, and bang them silly.

it's not my fault that people are disgusting

Bern is cool. People will hate cuss multiculti but unlike Geneve and Lausanne it had the patricians who protected the old city and besides. Bern is like 70% white compared to all the other big cities being like

I imagine it's pretty hard, but it's not impossible.

Norwegians like their own kind, their own country and their own social traditions, but they are not actively hostile to foreigners. It's just takes more effort from both sides to make it work.

GET IN HERE Sup Forums
ITS FUCKING GOING DOWN

HELP US
HELP US SAVE HUMANITI!!!

He is right though, Codreanu is given the Hitler treatment of the spooky big bad that we thankfully avoided, and Antonescu too to a certain extent.

I was just exposing one of the few sensible parts of Romanian culture to britanon. I'm conscious of its flaws.

you are disgusting

How difficult is it to immigrate to switzerland?

why? because im not some mindless ant? im sorry you think everyone you see in public is a social person

I don't. I love people I have been trying my whole life to make friends

I think people are general shits and have ulterior motives for their "friendship", where you have to be someone they can show off on social media or have connections to do fun things they can mooch off of.

Just conversation and someone to talk to apparently isn't enough. Normies, for all their socializing, can't actually figure out what friendship means. To the normie friends are people they use and throw away when they aren't usable anymore.

Fuck him. It's a tactic called D&C (divide and conquer).

Sometimes I wonder how many JIDF they are paying to troll these threads.

Yeah I really should. I'm considering taking a break from uni after this year and joining the army. Hopefully I can snag a Swiss gf somewhere and live happily ever after.

Because people who have Charisma expect favors while never returning them, if you're not Charismatic it's usually unprofitable relationship, other uncharismatic men pursue solitary hobbies while women still get pity sex from 'alphas' and feel they're worthy of more than just you.

Seriously, drugs and computers are better.

Roxana Babenco is the girl's name. Some stuff might still be online even though she was 15 at the time.

If you don't find much, the videos weren't high quality anyway, those cunts were pretty fucked up when they recorded.

Extremely hard, especially if your a fucking white male.

fugg

What if I get a tan and just say I'm a ayrab?

there is absolutely nothing interesting about the average person, no matter what you think they're just another pile of carbon

very
>Swiss gf
stranger things have happened i guess lol. its a good idea to come back. don't forget to talk with the consulate or you will lose your citizenship at the age of 21 or 24 if you have an american passport and didn't verify your swiss citizenship // havent done military service yet

Get a job laboring. I left school with no friends and went into work at 16, 12 years ago. I have around 30 friends I can call on at anytime all who I have met through work.

havent had an actual friend in about 10 years

Then you realize you aren't very unique yourself. Then you realize through that realization that your realize more than the average person, so you are somewhat unique.