I need help.
I'm 22 years old.
My life is just work, eat, vidya, sleep, repeat.
I have 1 pet rat who is my only friend.
I have no friends. I text/talk to no one, except when im working.
I never do anything.
I feel so lonely. I have no one to turn to for help, support, or any conversation.
How do I unfuck my shit up. I know there are plenty of anons who browse this board who have fixed their lives.
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i fuck everything up. i hope canada gets nuked so i can stop fucking things up
>1 pet rat who is my only frined
Lmao kys XDXDXD
i have 1 cat and a skittle
>How do I unfuck my shit up.
Learn to cook proper food, cut down on junk, in the long run you will save money
Then get /fit/
If you have any spare money, get /biz/
I love vidya but start playing board games with groups. Just get out there and talk. Start going on dates. Ask girls out on online dating sites. Don't get discouraged just keep putting it out there.
Kill yourself
Im in the same position
Except I have a hobby to keep my drive going, i hope to profit off of it at some point.
this
Go to community college or something... Make your government pay you to meet people you turd
Join a gym and lift 5-6 days minimum for starts. What more do you want though? Work hard at maximizing your position in life first and you won't have time to be lonely. After that buy a dog or something if you're still feeling down. At least you'll be rich and lonely. Most people will let you down anyways
>24
>Good career that pays well
>College degree
>new car
>physically fit
>still depressed as hell
Am I broken too Sup Forums? Everyday I get lonelier.
Find a cause and fight for it.
Even if you risk losing what you have now.
A man can have anything he wants, as long as he is willing to sacrifice.
nah just find a solitairy hobby
do you have friends?
Could be worse. You could've found, fucked, and married some cunt and had two ungrateful kids and paid 216 monthly child support payments for two little shits that never call or even text you and not want to have anything to do with you. Is MGTOW really that bad when the whole system is as rigged against you as, oh, I don't know, a fucking US election?
Sounds better than my life. I'm 1 year older, have no jiob and no money for vidya so I watch anime instead. Also no pets. We're screwed unless you at least look good. Try going to bars.
I will tell you this user. If you think its too late to start now -> it only gets worse as you age. You will never get to the point of being "ready".
You need to get /out/. Go hike and rediscover the natural world - it is no wonder you're depressed you Canuck pillock. What about Squamish or some other sick cunt place.
Yeah I do. But still even that I feel empty hanging with them sometimes. My hobby was computers and still is, only problem I do that 9hours a day for work.
who the fuck has a pet rat
Anger is a gift.
IT ONLY GETS WORSE
Join the Canadian Army or something.
Get a haircut
Start hitting the gym
Improve personal Hygiene
Get the habit of cooking healthy food
Read the art of the deal/think like a champion by DJT
Start some entrepreneur shit: find what you're talented at and what you like
It suck at that age, each new discovery about your social failure is raw and painful because you didn't know "that's how I am." Trust me nothing changes, this is your life, but to your late 20s you start accepting it and not caring so much. Early 30s here; I just don't give a shit anymore and spend most of my time alone
VOTE TRUMP
>I have 1 pet rat who is my only friend.
Awwww
You go on /an/?
Whats your rat name
Who are you? Really? WHO ARE YOU?? YOU ARE THE OBSERVER. YES U!
mining industry is going to boom soon.
make monies for 5-8 years...
open biz.
>I have 1 pet rat
>I have no friends.
first step. the rat
Could be worse.
- t. 30 year old in the same situation. Except I shitpost on Sup Forums instead of playing vidya.
Buy a second rat. It won't fix your life but rats are social creatures and should always be kept in pairs. They need another rat buddy to be properly groomed, etc. or they will become depressed from living a solitary life.
t. former rat owner
Hit the gym, brother.
Lol not even furries would like you haha
Take some Wellbutrin, get fit, go to the Middle East, kill jihadist, save middle eastern qt and live a life free of degeneracy with your traditional virgin wife
Get off the internet, treat your local area like you're a tourist and you want to extract as much experience as you can before you have to leave.
It sucks, it's boring, it's awful, you get exhausted, but it works.
>I have one pet rat who is my only friend
Ted Cruz is no ones friend.
Literally go to community college. Go to the gym 5 days a week, preferably in the morning, before classes.
Never in my life did I feel better than when I was working out and learning. Mentally and emotionally it was amazing.
It's easy to get student aid, especially if you're poor as fuck. Then it's just a matter of getting there. Don't be a cuck and stay on campus, you don't want the state ruling your life to such a degree, and it costs crazy money.
Fuck around while you're there but don't waste the experience. Work hard at your curriculum and get straight A's, but don't agonize too much when you stumble. Importantly, network with your peers and professors - if they see the potential in you, they will want to help.
Avoid bitches during this time, they are a distraction. No relationships, no buyer's remorse rape accusations. Focus on yourself.
I waited until I was 25; it's never too late. Get out there and do it, bro. You just gotta take the first steps.
Start telling da haterz to go fuck themselves
You'll find no respite from the storm of misery you have sown for yourself here.
Begone be gone, filfth. Hang thyself.
What the fuck are you talking about
Get a prison pal. They always make you feel better about yourself. And masterbate in semi public places for fun.
meetup.com
Used this when I came to USA alone and had no friends.
Group setting so ok to be awkward
No you will not get a gf through meetup.com all women there have boyfriends
Also, go hiking up a small mountain this weekend. Take photos. Bring water.
You need to get off your arse and join group activities . Like sport or social events. Google meet up s or something there is a way to meet people. Also start reading fiction books, your mind will change over time when you expand your imagination. yeah the internet is here and so is pol but you need to start doing stuff you havn't done before and find what you actually like.
Start going to the gym and be social there. You will meet lots of people and eventually chicks as well. Just make sure you stay consistent and go at the same time of day.
90% of the people I know are from the gym, and I've met some really fit girls too.
Do you have any hobbys? I'm in your boat. I'm gonna try playing guitar at open mics. People say put yourself out there. I know stuff like that works, but I don't want to go to a bar alone and hope someone bumps into me. Especially guys at bars, I feel there not there to make friends. Maybe you have some hobby or skill you can use to get yourself around people. Atleast it'll shake things up.
thats when you know you have clinical depression. when everythings good but youre still depressed
Work out. Srs. It'll boost your confidence and get you noticed and more social.
Your still a kid , so your never too late to try stuff out.
Fuck you, you have the entire span of CANADA to.do shit in, try being in bumfuck UK
smoke
>23
>Find amazing, red head, skinny, perfect women
>She has a kid
>Too redpilled from from years on Sup Forums
>fuck her a few times
>She offers to move me into her nice house and says we would be a perfect family
>Deny house and relationship because I can't be a cuck
>now lonely and shitposting on Sup Forums again
hey buddy I think you got the wrong door r9k is 2 blocks down
Bro, just get high with some homies
Play MMOs. At least you will have some people to talk to via TeamSpeak and may even make some friends. Don't get discouraged by a few shitty games or shitty guilds. Having a bunch of people to talk to when you get home feels good desu.
You did the right thing mate, Single mothers are a double edged sword
Do you want woman and children?
Get rid of the rat and get a dog.
Problem solved.
Sup Forums isn't really a good place to ask. I would start visiting /lit/ and /fit/, and get some remedial/basic recommendations from them (basically, start eating healthy, exercising, and reading good literature that helps you control your own life). It can get better, OP.
>tfw you tell friends and family but they don't believe it so it evolves into a meme.
Order a tens unit with the cattle prod and start electrocuting your anal innards while beating off to handicap interracial gay porn until you cum like gang busters
Agree to this , Dogs do more for people then rats
You know how furries are social rejects?
What i'm saying is that he's so unlikable that furries wouldn't even want to be around him.
Everything is well.
Fit, good grades, good friends.
But a single fucking thing is ruining me. My future.
I can't decide if I want to jump into art because im too scared. On safe heaven STEM right now
>Am I broken too Sup Forums? Everyday I get lonelier.
I don't understand how you guys can be lonely. People fucking suck.
This is a good plan b.
it will get better user. remember to take care of your body first - lift. lift lift lift. then smoke pot. then tell me how you feel
Hey Sup Forumsrother I remember when I was 22, I felt the exact same way about my life. I think many people do because it's a time when you expect to be able to important things but you don't have the technical ability or confidence in your ability to do the things that really matter to you. I would suggest find something that you can do 10 hours a day that is useful to other people and has a trajectory that allows you to do important (whatever that means to you) work in 5 - 10 years. Once you have an idea of what you want to do and you put into place a system then you will have something to look forward to each morning.
I'd trade living in canada for the UK desu m8. maximum comfy
Kill yourself. Only a woman should ever feel that way.
I'm a brazilian Justine Sacco. Your life is not that bad.
Trust me ;)
Go out more, meet girls, get a girlfriend. Remember hitting on girls is a numbers game. Dont take rejection personally just move on to the next one.
that begins to make things worse after about age 20.
weed is bad advice
Rafael
While this may help on a surface level, it won't actually fix what is broken in OP. OP needs to fix himself first. Finding meaning in a girlfriend often leads to cuck-style relationships.
Try to see a psychologist, get a real job, volunteer and study a new language.
kek
Scabbers! You found my dear pet Scabbers?
> he ded
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
> lol jk he secretly a death eater tho
just fuck my harry potter fandom up senpai
Easy to fuck, but then you're babysitting, cleaning, doing the laundry, etc while she's fucking around on you.
Single mothers are sponges, they take, take, take.
hi user. i had a pet rat too, aren't they great? i think we would be good friends
>rats are social creatures and should always be kept in pairs. They need another rat buddy to be properly groomed, etc. or they will become depressed from living a solitary life.
tfw my apartment and grooming go to utter shit (and I mean poopbox in the corner shit) when I don't have a gf
tfw solitary life user here
my man , this is pol not b
get an ai gf
Im 25, I just accepted Im on my own.
I drive a nice car, look decent, good job, live in white neighborhood, have money and all the materialistic things I want.
Yeah I'm lonely but I don't mind as much anymore. Bothers me a bit but it's whatever. I feel so disconnected from everyone else and there's no going back.
I'm improving my guitar so I can join a band, maybe it'll help but who knows.
Nobody uses b anymore
I was/am similar to you.
But i'm not as unhappy as I was. First of all spend a bit of money talking to a Psychologist.
I know Sup Forums hates psychology -- I'm not talking Freud. I'm talking CBT Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
Second if need be, get some anti-depressants. Hopefully not a long term crutch, but shorter term.
Usually if things are bleak, there is a deeper reason. Some people seem happy and other are in a grim state, there are reasons.
It's usually things in your life that are burdening you, sucking up your energy and enthusiasm
I'm still a loner, but sort of by choice -- I just find I don't like most people enough to bother with them. But happier than I was.
Don't wait -- I wasted a lot of my youth being needlessly miserable. Confront the issues now rather than later -- they won't fix themselves
>24
>only work, sleep and lurk on Sup Forums
>co-worker seems to like me
>hang out a lot at work and talk
>too autistic to make a move
>masturbate and cry myself to sleep
WW3 when?
occupation?
I can relate very same situation. do you have a regret that you keep thinking or does everything feel empty and pointless?
Good advice -- GO TO BARS!!
You will never be normal. Everything is genetic. Do not try to spread your disgusting dnas. Your kids will be as miserable as you.
There is only one solution. The final solution. You already know what has to be done in your deep inside. Do it.
You CAN fix your life OP. Here's how
1. get on adderall. Most robots/losers/etc. have a severe dopamine deficiency. No amount of working out or therapy will change that. If you have to go through illegal means then just do it. Obviously try to get a script though.
2. Stop thinking of yourself as a loser. Being is becoming, and if you think that you are a loser, people will treat you as one, and your mind will warp events to confirm your own self-narrative. You can control your own story. Make it a good one. You aren't a fuck up, you are a hero that hasn't been discovered yet. Literally make a script in your head where you are the protagonist that succeeds despite slim odds. Then try to interpret your actions and events according to that script. Try not to make other people the villains though, since that would just make you a douchebag.
3. Start working out and eat as healthy as possible. Don't need to go full kale, but at least limit sodas and cheap carbs. For obvious reasons
4. Talk to as many people as possible. Start with homeless people and other weirdos. They'll give you interesting stories and won't mind your awkwardness
5. Find a social mentor. This is the most difficult step, but it's necessary to maximize your potential. Find someone who you can trust enough to ask questions about life/social skills, and who will guide you through the steps. For me, this was just a matter of luck (colleg
I went from a friendlee roomie). These people are usually extremely outgoing, and natural social connectors. They won't mind your weirdness since they are secure enough in their social status that they can have weird/awkward friends without endagering their own reputation. Seek these people out.
6.(optional) Try LSD. It's not a miracle, but it can help you identify harmful worldviews and behaviour patterns.
ss autistic weirdo at 19, to a relatively social guy at 21 by following these steps
the pursuit of knowledge
t. Schopenhauer
Yeah, I could see that happening. The kid is not even 1 year old yet and looks exactly like his asshole dad (I went to school with him). When I slept over at her place she would just hand me the kid and say shit like "have a turn" fuck all that.
>I know Sup Forums hates psychology -- I'm not talking Freud. I'm talking CBT Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
CBT is basically a modern-day offshoot of Stoicism, which is something that most of Sup Forums should be able to get behind.
Sociability isnt genetic.
> There is only one solution. The final solution. You already know what has to be done in your deep inside. Do it.
OK famalam, I'm going full Hitler.
remove roach
fuck, messed up the last part. *I went from an..
wow everyone on this thread has pretty similar stories. mid twenties , moderately successful , lonely and a deep feeling of sadness
Aderall is good but it isn't something you can do over the long term - ore even medium
It's basically amphetamines