Is there shame in being a stepfather?
Is there shame in being a stepfather?
Yes there absolutely is, if you had to ask that question then you are in denial. This is barely Sup Forums related, slide harder.
yes, stepfathers are continuing someone else's savegame when it comes to the game of life.
Not at all. As long as it's only one or two kids and then you make babies of your own.
My grandma had the father and then got married to my grandpa and they had two daughters a few years later.
Who cares. I don't see why do that though. Divorced mothers are usually pretty terrible people.
not necessary.
My father grew up living with his uncle because both my grandparents died in a car accident. In such a case I consider it the right thing to do. Blood is thinker than water user.
Not if you're incapable of having kids or the woman you are sacrificing resources for is of good genetic stock and willing to have more kids.
If the woman refuses to have more kids, it is absolutely wrong and you're a cuck if you accept it.
There is nothing wrong in raising somebody else child, you should be proud.
Everything I need to know about step-fathers I learned from the defeated looking cucks faking smiles with an ill behaved child and a ballbusting, gold digging, ruthless whore
Spot on, kammerat, but doesn't that make your uncle a god-parent and not a stepfather?
You're doing another man's job. You're ensuring his DNA, which is probably superior to yours since you are not her first choice, gets passed on at the expense of your own kin (if you're lucky enough that her womb isn't dried up). Seems pretty cucked to me dude. I personally would never bring myself down to being a step father.
The only exception is she is still young and hot, 1 kid, and the husband passed away. MAYBE.
That's not being a stepdad
That's being a good relative
Anyone who would abandon their own kinfolk is scum
yeah I guess so.
However if your uncle takes the father role when you are still a very little kid then you will see him as such.
>That's not being a stepdad
yeah you are right.
No.
My dad was abusive to my mother, when she left she had 3 kids. When she found another man, she had 2 more with him. I was the eldest and only 5 when I met my step dad, so there weren't any memories of an old dad that could usurp him in my mind
(New dad was still a massive cunt though, so maybe that's a sign something about my mom makes her pick crummy guys. Though if she wants you, I guess you suck and therefore are a good it.)
>is the original father alive?
>Yes -
Yes
>No -
No
only if:
A) the father of the child was noble (ie died in war)
B) you're the first person she's dated/fucked since
C) she agrees to have your children as well (preferable more of your kids than she already has)
or: an alternative, you already have kids of your own
Knock her up right now or the answer is 100% yes.
My step dad is a cooler guy than my father and I named my first born son after him.
Yes, unless you put 2 or more of your own genetic lineage in her. I guess that would cancel out the cuckery somewhat.
Sound advice. The alternative you depicted is actually my girlfriend's family situation.
That's pretty sweet, the feels are real. I'm in the opposite situation, sadly, though my stepdad isn't too bad.
>Is there a shame in being a cuckold?
There I fixed it for you. You are literally raising someone else's little motherfucker. That is origin of the word from the cuckoo bird that tricks birds into raising its offspring. Everytime you look into that little fucks eyes remember you're looking at his real father's eyes, the eyes of the guy she was fucking and let him nut inside her. You're looking into the eyes of the man that had her before you and will always hold a special place in her heart because of that bond they have.
Being a good step dad is better than being a bad father. Or non-existent father for that matter.