/love/

Yesterday we had a lovely thread about love which was very comfy.
Too bad I got drunk too fast and wasn't there until the end.

so now, lets talk about your first love Sup Forums. Not necessarily "first" when you were in kindergarten.. but first when it was something bigger..
>what was it like?
>what was her/his name?

also post music that reminds you of them
and some good, cute romantic movies like: youtu.be/RDlXdujRSD8

Other urls found in this thread:

youtube.com/watch?v=nwoK9RGuOdU
youtu.be/Iqizoud_NN0
youtube.com/watch?v=3BoU1CRka58
youtu.be/7Lawn-O1Kno
youtu.be/ye0XhDdbFs4
youtube.com/watch?v=MKwcfkc9l30
youtube.com/watch?v=1wAAcmpr8d4
youtube.com/watch?v=JN6sfZJZYsk
dailymotion.com/video/xqgpd8_david-a-stewart-candy-dulfer-lily-was-here_music
youtube.com/watch?v=E1fzJ_AYajA
youtube.com/watch?v=KRFHiBW9RE8
twitter.com/SFWRedditGifs

long
almost platonic (i had licked her pussy)
sorrowfull at the end (twice)

Maria

I have never been in love, and I am afraid I never will be.

>i had licked her pussy
tell us more

open your soul user

same here

Link to old thread

I never experienced love.

I mean, sometimes I like to tell myself that love is just a very strong "like", but it is threads like this that make me feel as though I am too self centered to really care for another person. Also, I am a coward, and cowards cannot be in love.

>>

are you me? kek
how old are you? did you eventually lose hope of ever getting (happily) in love?

Never been in love. 20 years old. The only thing that comforts me is that there are most likely a couple of bigger losers on this board.

21 and never been in love. I fucked a fatty on one night stand when I was 18 just so I could say I am no longer virgin.

There you go,that is my sexual and romantic interaction with women summed up.

>what was it like?
We were both kids who were too shy to tell each other how we feel. Couple of years later I finally told her and she returned the same feelings.
I felt so dizzy and happy. However, since years passed, we (she) had other people in our lives too. So soon she "dumped" me for this guy that was with her before I told her how I feel. (I thought they broke up)
This day was the beginning of my depression which is still here, after 4-5 years. of course its not about her anymore, but I thinlk she was the one who started it.

Finally, the guy dumped her for another girl lol and I got in her life again, I was still madly in love.. and when we after all this drama and years finally kissed, all of it dissapeared, the illusion that she is some kind of godess...I just didn't feel the same and thought it was my duty to dump her now, "to return the same" and so I did.

Such a shame.. it could be so different. I'm 20 now and still a virgin... she could be my first kiss and not this one fat chick I made out with drunk in some party, she could be my first/only gf, we could lose our virginty toghether to ourselves... I feel so sad when I think of this missed opportunity..if only I told her that I loved her few years earlier
We are still firends, but it will never be more than that anymore

>what was her/his name?
Antonija

>Antonija

Tako se zvala i ova krmača koju sam guzio Oko 165 cm i 55 kila,crna sa plavim pramenima iz Zaprešića?

does anyone have the "What does love feel like?" pasta

haha nije.. iako imaju slične proporcije..isto je negdje niska samo što nije debela

Da, propuštene prilike su najgora stvar ikada.. uvijek se pitaš "što bi bilo da je bilo?"
ali povijest ne možemo mijenjati zato je bolje i ne živjeti u njoj. Sretno!

cheers anone, I'm drinking my first round for you!

>tfw qts just want to get pumped and dumped

youtube.com/watch?v=nwoK9RGuOdU

Girls having more feels than men for relationships is pure meme m8,chicks really do like just to fuck and end it at that,just like men.

youtu.be/Iqizoud_NN0

reminds me of this one

this meme got debunked for me when i started overhearing groups of women talking at uni

>go outside

youtube.com/watch?v=3BoU1CRka58

average feels I feel

Post good song to kill yourself over with because of love

youtu.be/7Lawn-O1Kno

youtu.be/ye0XhDdbFs4

>what was it like?
we hugged and just looked each other to our eyes in lukio hallways, we both liked each other but we just cannot be together, there was a huge risk that our parents would know

>what was her/his name?
Matias

>all girls are the same

when will this meme die?, there are trash girls and trash men everywhere

what about now? is he worth it? is he worth the risk?

d-do you mind if it's in portuguese?

youtube.com/watch?v=MKwcfkc9l30

damn..

not at all, but it sounds too happy.. probably because I dont know the lyrics

hello argi femanon

ANTONIJA VOLIM TE

he's still free and all but lives other side of the country, he's looking place to sleep near helsinki because job interview, should i take him for weekend?

Of course! Everything for love

h-hi Br friend

btw good luck my dear gay user!
this one, last glass of the night, is for you

samo ljubav

what about this one?

youtube.com/watch?v=1wAAcmpr8d4

this.

please post feminine hands

perfect

thanks croatia!

Tim Maia always tares me apart

Me neither.

When I was around 16 I got in love with an older girl from another region I met on the internet. Needless to say, I had no balls to tell her and also she had a boyfriend so it was very terrible for me and I was sad often. In hindsight,

I didn't love her but a romanticized image of her, but it still has effects on my preferences for women. Also, if she doesn't count I haven't been in love in my entire life and that idea scares me.

same bro

how old are you? did you eventually lose hope of ever getting (happily) in love?

26. No i didn't, I either think it's a simple set of circumstances or that love is a sweet illusion depending on my mood.

Bye guys, you were ghood company to get drunk with to, but I think I'm gonna go to sleep now

See you again tommorrow

>tfw no gf

don't drink so much, user

goodnight

sleep tight

who / drain gang / here?

youtube.com/watch?v=JN6sfZJZYsk

My first crush in high school. I orbited her for 3 months while she pined for her ex (who was my childhood best friend) and she eventually came around to me and we dated for almost two years. I eventually ended it at the end of junior year and two years later realized the mistake and had tormenting dreams about her for 2 years after.

When I was 15 I dated a 14-year-old chick for about 3 months. We mostly just kissed and fooled around but she was the first girl to touch my dick and I played with her pussy once (in the dark, so that I couldn't see anythingy unfortunately.)

I still remember that I couldn't sleep because of butterflies in the gut. Crazy shit.

dailymotion.com/video/xqgpd8_david-a-stewart-candy-dulfer-lily-was-here_music

25, i lost hope of ever getting happy in love... and happy.

user here from the last thread asking all the MDMA questions.

met her at the summer camp we both worked at when we were teenagers. had a fucking blast that summer. never really connected with a girl like that before then. didn't start developing really strong feelings for her until summer had long passed and i missed being around her. it's been like that off and on for nearly six years now. i guess what attracts me to her so much is how open and adventurous she is in contrast to how reserved and introverted i am.

I feel ya, user. Outgoing girls are the best.

Oh, now I remember I was in the last thread. It was rather nice indeed, specially for Sup Forums standards.

fuck it cant sleep.

>don't drink so much, user
I know.. I dont even like it.. it's just that it makes me happy.. which I'm not lately

oh yeah I remember.
Is she the one you're gonna do drugs with?
Did you decide if you're gonna do it at all?

>I couldn't sleep because of butterflies in the gut
I only once felt that way.. it was so far away, but its like it was yesterday

at least you did what most people could only dream for. End up with your crush

What do when your waifu is unattainable ?

great taste user, Cate Blanchett is god-tier

Pète un coup ça fait du bien

yeah i think im going to go through with it. a friend of mine is trying to talk to her as well but i know the key to a woman's heart is through her vices and i know she cant say no to ecstasy.

Never even been in a relationship. The thought of touching a woman intimately without gloves on disgusts me.
t. OCD

I don't know that much about love, just that I wouldn't describe it as a more potent "like". different somehow. i always have my doubts when i start to like someone, and that point where the doubts fade is where i think you cross the line.
I mean, we always have doubts about everything, but the last time i experienced something like that, I just kinda went all-in instead of some half-assed shit i normally pull. I just knew i wanted this. (on a side note, my story all went to shit- after a few months of being some kind of affair i somehow lost hope and stopped the thing we had)

Always been shy and defensive round girls. One girl makes the effort to get to know me, ignores all my attempts to brush her off. Talks to me every night until I'm comfortable with her. Before I know it, I'm telling her things I've never told anything else, she's the person I turn to when I'm sad, she's my best friend. She tells me she doesn't care that I'm shy. Hang out together all the time. Go for days out together. Cuddle and watch movies together at night. Finally, we sleep together, and my life feels perfect. Summer holidays come round, and we make plans for me to come visit her at her family's place. Last time I see her I give her a long kiss goodbye.

Then she goes on holiday and I don't hear from her for ages. Finally send her a message, and she replies cheerfully telling me that she's been seeing a guy she met on holiday. Get angry/upset. "You didn't think we were a thing did you user? We were just fuck buddies". Get more angry/upset, and demand she tells me why she never saw me as boyfriend material. She tries to give me the normal excuses, but finally she admits "You were just too shy around me, I don't like guys like that. I want a real man, not some scared boy". Pretend not to care, but inside I'm crushed. Stay friends for a while, then delete her on everything and make sure I never see her again. Bitterness enters life, and defences come up five times stronger than they had been previously. Become more and more socially reclusive until, before I know it, I spend my evenings shitposting on Sup Forums instead of hanging out with friends. Haven't slept with a girl since then (3 years ago), and don't really have any friends anymore.

And that is my blogpost/story of my first love. Won't say the girl's name though, still too triggered by it desu.

At least i listen to some good old jazz very comfy

You develop fetishes directly related with her.

This is going to sound stupid, but I met her online. She was from a country which shall remain nameless. We met and from the first contact we talked all day everyday every chance we got. The only times we ever didn't talk were when one of us was away in a place without cellphone service camping or something, and for about a week when I was traveling for my job and didn't have a SIM card or wifi. We would call all the time for hours and hours, talk on skype and left it on as we fell asleep so we could fall asleep to each other's breathing. We never ran out of things to say.
Eventually we knew we had to meet in person, but both mine and her jobs were making that impossible. When I was able to travel she wasn't, when she could I couldn't, stuff like that. It was 11 months of talking all day every day until we finally met in person.
We finally met, and lived together for about a week and a half. All day for that whole time we were together, sometimes with big plans, sometimes just napping and holding each other in our arms. I lost my virginity to her, made love to a women I actually cared about and wanted nothing but the best for.

I realized that I actually loved her. That what I was experiencing I'd never felt before with someone else. That I would do anything for her or her happiness or her safety. I didn't know it, but that was me experiencing love for the first time.

Eventually the trip ended, and it was back to long distance again, but we knew deep down it wasn't going to work out. I was going to get busier, and her too. Things were going to be changing and no matter what we did, two people in different countries like us weren't going to be together. We ended it, and have more or less moved on with our lives. But I still think about her everyday. Still fap to the pictures she sent me, still think of our nights making love and falling asleep with her in my arms.

That was love. I've never felt anything before or since the way I felt for her.

wow.. brutal story
hey at least you had sex! r-right?

im gonna go

First love was nice, I was shy and soon to be 18 kissless until I met her. She was a qt and experienced for a 16 year old, I was not but I learned fast. Was with her for 3 years and we really thought we'd marry eachother eventually but things just got boring and we broke up.

No gf now though, have fucked some girls but haven't had a gf since. I'm 23 now

I'm in love with a 2D girl who doesn't exist

yeah..my first gf lived "only" 40km away and it didn't work out

long distance stuff is hard and needs a lot of work.. some people can make it I guess.. true love finds its path and some just can't

a-are you m-me?

Nice job you fucking idiot
>things just got boring
That's where the ring comes in you dumb nut

Nah m8, I still had many years left in uni and she too so wasn't time for that yet.

I feel like eurobabbies mature much later than murricans. Marrying at a young age is fairly uncommon here afaik.

Meh, sure plenty of people have similar stories and worse, people don't always treat you the way you want. Sure it was nice to have had sex with her, but seeing as it was all based on lies (i.e. I thought she felt the same way) I'd go back and stop myself from doing it if I could.

It really just depends. I'd say most people I know were married by 25. I have a couple friends, including me who are over 25 and not married.
And I know some people who got married really young, at around 20 or 21. I know a guy who got married at 16 and now has 3 kids with the woman

Man she must've felt some attachment to you when you had sex. She can't take that from you.

You'll feel the same way about another girl at some point. Just get out of the house and do stuff, you'll get back into it.

You will never have an opportunity like that again

I was 15 and she was too, we were in the same class until i left to the city bc some shit happened to my family. I didnt even remembered her and the first time i saw her and talked with her again i fell in love. She was cute, shy and very smart she loved to write and was writing a novel (the novel was amazing tho she was just 15). I got introduced to her by a friend, she also liked me. We talk and shit (some sort of first date) she wanted a kiss and i was like "there's plenty of time for that i just want to be with you". Second date i kiss her (my and her first kiss, awful), all seems to be good tho. It isn't, she friendzones me 30 mins later via phone/message. After that i asked her and tried all the ways possible to know why she dumped me. 4 years later im still thinking of her and i still dont know why she dumped me, maybe its because im an autist user... Idk

How would you know? He might find someone he's much more compatible with. He's still young. Also it's better to not marry your first gf. If you don't fuck a couple of different girls, you're just asking for a midlife crisis episode later on.

Perhaps, but people here settle quite late. Many girls start looking for serious shit after they finished their studies and what not, at around age 25. So I've got plenty of time.

damn
are you me?

Just noticed your digits. U fucking cursed me m8

You nearly broke the curse with triple 8s.

This is something people without good instincts to start families say

Live and learn

are you living in suburb or village?

Alright, I'm hanging out with a 17 yo girl tomorrow and if it fails your digits are to blame.

She was a classmate and I started to love her when I was 13/14. It was my first love so it was embarrassing 'cos I couldn't stop looking at her and took me while to realize how stupid/creepy that was.
She also liked me and tried to kiss me sometimes but I didn't kiss her back 'cos autism and shit.
When I was 17 in High School (+technical education) we had plenty of 'free ''alone'' time' in the school.
Like, the period between the normal High School and the 'technical school', so make out sometimes and a certain day she gave me a blowjob in the restroom.

Being completely honest with you, I wish she didn't do that, I would have a sweet memory of her.

I don't know, it's mixed. On one hand she genuinely seemed obsessed with me - she'd message me pretty much every night, invite herself round to my place all the time, buy me little gifts, stuff like that - although she never said she loved me or implied that we were in a relationship. It was like that right until she went on that holiday - she even sent me a text on the first night saying she missed me and wished I could be there with her.

Then as soon as it was over, it really was over. She seemed genuinely surprised that I was upset. When I was angry I asked her something like "What, so you never cared for me at all?" and all she could say was "Oh user, you were my friend, I thought you were an interesting person". I completely stopped contacting her to see if she'd come back and say she missed me or anything like that, but she never did. Tried talking to me to see how things were going, and still 'likes' lots of my photos on Instagram, but she's been in another relationship for the past couple of years and she's happy.

C'est la vie, I think she just doesn't know how to be single - she genuinely thought I wouldn't mind being a disposable boyfriend. Trying to get back into socialising, but it's difficult because I've been moving about a lot over the last couple of years due to travelling, uni, and trying to find a job, so I haven't really been settled at all.

Just get her pregnant and the rest will sort itself out trust me

I've seen it happen mate. A couple who had been together for 8+ years. The guy felt like he had missed out in his younger years, cheated on her, then left her and started fucking random teens and girls in their early twenties. He also started playing in a band again. The whole midlife crisis thing.

>go to college
>meet cute anime looking girl with a disability and emotional problems
>fall for each other hard, she says im the only person she's ever trusted
>promise to take care of her forever, love her like the waifu made flesh that she was
>move to asia for work because i dont actually care about love that much
>cut off contact and become an international supervillain
>last we talked she was sobbing about killing herself into a webcam

If there is a hell then I will be taking the full tour.

Triple sixes turned around. Nice work, mate. Not only did you break the curse, you're going to have a nice date too.

holy shit you cucked me

i will never be happy thanks alot kanker

Just get her out of your mind, understanding girls is not worth an attempt. When she's in a new relationship her view of her experiences with you may be distorted and influenced by the feelings she has for the guy she's with right now. When I'd talk to my ex about her ex's she would always say negative things about it and she'd tell me that it's so much better with me.

She probably loved you mate, but won't admit it.

Didn't even see it lmfao

>what was it like
lasted five days kek we met at the handball game chatted a bit on facebook a bit irl she started calling me "love" like the second day already it was a bit too fast and i was in love with 2 other girls so i just distanced myself and became emotionaly unavailable i guess so she broke up on the fifth day
>name
Izabela
>music that reminds you of them
none unfortunately i never loved her so i didnt got attached in any way but here are two songs that remind me of those 2 girls that i was in love at the time(neve admitted that to them tho)
youtube.com/watch?v=E1fzJ_AYajA
youtube.com/watch?v=KRFHiBW9RE8
r8 my one an only relationship so far
if theres anyone here

again, probably lust not love

Fell in love with the first cute girl i could talk music with. We talked for a couple years, I graduated high school, over the summer we dated and did a bunch of drugs together. She broke up with me the day after my birthday. We never fucked, but i went down on her a few times and fingered her, got a few bj's. Still a virgin.
First crush was my (male) best friend, but he was straight so i never said anything.

>she probably loved you mate, but won't admit it

I wouldn't go that far, she had plenty of opportunities to be with me, even after she slept with the other guy. I was young and confused, and I would have taken her back for sure. But she wasn't interested. I think she liked me as a friend and was attracted to me physically, but I'm just not the type of guy she would fall in love with.

Thanks though, and yeah, should really just stop thinking about it desu.