/love/

Take a break from shitposting and from all these generals and come here to open your soul and heart to other anons.
Love is the only thing that brings us together no matter of our nationality, skin, religon, sexuality... We all fight the same battles!

Lets start this one a bit earlier.
prev. threds were so comfy and emotional
Todays topic: >age
Did you lose hope? or do you still think that one day you'll find true love?

and for anons that "found it": do you think she/he is the one? what is the greatest thing about your partner?

samo ljubav prijatelji

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>Did you lose hope?
Never had it, in the first place.

>or do you still think that one day you'll find true love?
Nope. That's bullshit.
At least I have friends.

>implying anybody would love an autistic turklet

what about autistic turkletess?

those are whores

>Did you lose hope?

If you're a bad enough dude, you don't need one person's love because you are beloved by all. If you are not a bad enough dude, then why seek one person's love if you suck so bad that no one likes you?

I have no problem talking to girls (or people in general), but when it comes to flirting I'm shy af.
What do?

same problem here. I'm not actually autistic at flirting with random girls, but when it comes to some girl I like... that's whole another story.. then I can't even talk about normal things with her

>all my peers and friends are in loving long lasting relationships
>I can't find anyone

WHAT IS LOVE

its okay, user. keep trying! i believe in you

I have more interesting aspirations than something as vague and ordinary as love. Also isn't this just another general?

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Same here Finnbro, painful.

>keep trying

>be me
>earlier this summer
>working at summer camp
>great job, absolutly love it
> meet qt3.14 photographer who is also on staff
>find out she's from Northern Ireland
>we hit it off really well
> start hanging out together a lot
>generally just us sitting together in the staff lounge talking or singing together
> Make her a friendship braclet
>camp gift wise that's about two rungs under getting down on a knee and proposing
>her reaction was like I just proposed to her, jumping up and down. Squealing woth delight
> During beach day she gets her cabin to bury me in the sand
>later session ends, no campers except stay overs so basically all of staff gets day off
> Spend the day and evening hanging out, went swimming, played tennis, and had dinner in the cafeteria
>allsgood.jpg
> last day for me comes (was hired for half the summer)
>ask her if she wants to go into town with me to hang out and maybe catch a movie
>says yes
>end up hanging out at the beach for a few hours, grabbed dinner, then watched the newest Star Trek movie together
> Drop her back off at camp
>both get out for final goodbye
>she bear hugs me at the verge of tears
>tells me how much she'll miss me while having her head buried in my chest
>2 days later (monday) it hits me like a brick wall
> the thing I missed most about that place was her, loved her with all my life
>been sad ever sense

On a good note, the camp director emailed me a week ago saying they were short handed and needed me backso this Saturday I'm returning and I'll be trying to go for gold. With me luck lads.

I hated it. It reminded me that I don't have a free will and that I am a pre-programmed slave to biology.

Anybody who watched the latest Star Trek movie would be on the verge of tears

good luck user, dont waste this chance!

how old are you? it may not be too late

27. It is too late.

sorry user..
persue your passions, and you may meet someone along the way?

>tfw no black gf

Maybe...

i'm married to a black qt
how does this make you feel

jealous

please send black girls to Croatia

Currently dating a Brazilian girl I met during her foreign exchange here. The months I had with her, sleeping with her every night and holding her in my arms was the best few months I've had in my entire life. She left last month and I want my best to forget about her but I can't. I genuinely love this fucking hue monkey and I don't want to. I'm risking my fucking life to go Brazil just to see her soon but I don't know what's going to happen afterwards since we both have school. She loves me just as much if not more, sometimes life just kicks you in the dick

as a guy you will retain a lot of your marriageable-status though

you will only appreciate in value as you age.
just make sure you are cool enough around ladies

Alright anons who wants to hear a bit long, but a soul crushing story?

I just broke up with my only gf without even having to have sex first, still virgin
20 btw
reeeeeeeeeeeeeee

i do, rare montenegro

yeah we talked about ldr in prev. threads. They suck

me

>have a gf for almost a year
>often fantasize about black girls

>tfw biggest kink is hated by most people on Sup Forums nevermind the more "traditional" places
>tfw you will never meet someone with that kink who isn't retarded

God made a huge mistake when he let me walk this Earth. A very huge mistake.

You're an mlp fetishist?

last girl I dated was super hot and classy and we were really into each other but then it was over because I'm not Chad enough....

I don't understand why she wanted to be my gf then - should have told me to fuck off from day one - , but now I'm feeling scared shitless of relationships, I don't want to go through it again.

I hate being placed in a position were you have to Chad it up to keep the girl - go drinking, wear ties, get along with her Chad friends (hey user did you watch the game omg), but whatever autistic qts who like to stay inside and talk are out there, we won't meet each other because we don't go outside.

So, no. No hope.

Alright, buckle up, we're going to the FeelTown
>be myself, September of 2015
>absolutely 0 previous experience with girls, no sex, no kiss, not even fucking handholding
>100% vidya and anime neet
>Anyway back to the topic
>September of 2015
>final year of highschool, also turned 18
I should note that I am gifted in the field of technology and english, so anyway
>School started, its recess, I'm just minding my own business
>outta nowhere
>"Hey user, I have to tell you something later"
At that moment, she seemed just like another regular, cute girl, red head, top of the class, but still no feelings
Alright, back at it
>we meet in front of the school
>"So user, check this out. Italian embassy is making a contest called EXPO Hype 2015, on the topic of helping elderly with technology, so I've been thinking why don't you, me and (irrelevant girl) form a team and try it? Those that make it into the finals get a free trip to Milan"
>"Oh, that sounds great, sure I'd like to help"
This is the start of everything
I expected this not to be so serious
But the truth is, we've been working day and night, entire October, here it goes
Every day, for the entire day, I either went to her place or she at mine
For like 10+ hours daily
For a whole month
The 3rd member is irrelevant because she rarely showed up
Anyway
We worked, and worked
She is good socially, so she always tried to cheer me up when I was tired
she also made jokes a lot
Always laughed
She constantly, and I mean constantly, leaned on my shoulder
for example I'm drafting a concept, and she rests her head on me
When we'd go back our homes we'd chat via messenger the entire night, talking about the progress of the project, showing our 3rd cups of coffee just to keep us awake, she'd sent hearts to me
We did this on daily basis
Every day
My mom noticed I smile more
I would instantly drop everything I did, like even quit my lol promos when she announced that she'd come
Thats when I realized that I fell in love
cont.

Nah, just a furry.

Girlfriend broke up with me last week. I've burned myself out on trying to convince her that our relationship is worth trying to fix, but she's convinced that there's nothing left.

She was my soulmate. She was my closest friend, the only person I could talk to about so many things. How are you supposed to move on when you lose your girlfriend and your best friend at the same time? How are you supposed to cope with never talking to her again, after speaking to her for hours each and every day for the last five years? How do you sleep knowing that she's going to move on and find someone else long before you? How do you reconcile the thought of her fucking another man when you were both virgins when you met all those years ago?

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>she would talk about things beside work and stuff
>like my ex girlfriends
>I'd make up stories not to look like loser
>we always walked together back from school, talking about stuff
>I am pretty shy, so she'd sometimes ask if she's boring
>I would say no, and that I really enjoy her friendship
>last day of October comes
>its time to announce teams that made it to the finale
>its 6 am
>I get a message from her
>"user! user! YOU WON'T BELIEVE IT, WE MADE IT!!! YOU ARE SO AMAZING, HEAD TO THE SCHOOL RIGHT NOW"
>7am, first class starts
>I enter the door
>she leaps for a hug
>holds me tight
>entire class notices the genuine interaction
>my heart beats like crazy
>200% in love
Now comes the saucy part, and then, unfortunately, downfall :(
>Alright, its time to prepare for Milan
>we see each other more, so hyped and happy
>she never traveled by plane
Lets skip to the plane flight
>Enter the plane
>she smiles and says she's so scared
>we sit
>she grabs my hand and holds it tight
>we play some games together
>teacher was with us, she just looks and smiles
>we finally make it to Milan
>everyone's happy
>get to our hotel rooms
NOW COMES THE SPICY PART
>4 of us in total, me, her, irrelevant team member, and the teacher
>TEACHER AND 3RD MEMBER TAKE 1 ROOM, ME AND HER TAKE THE OTHER
AND THATS NOT EVEN THE SPICY PART

>THERE
>WAS
>ONLY
>ONE
>BED

>she laughs and says I'm sleeping on the floor
>I agree
>she says she was joking and she wouldn't mind
>I just agree to everything she says
>Day is filled with meeting important people but I will skip that part
Night comes
>"user, do you wanna take the shower first, or me?"
>"Oh, you first, I'll take some time"
I said that because I was in shock and I could barely move
>literally overseas with a crush sharing the same bed
>she takes a shower
>she has PJ
>thats when I realize I only sleep in boxer shorts
>OFUCKME.PNG
>I slowly exit the bathroom
>in front of the bathroom doors there's a mirror that sure fucked me up nice
cont.

>I get out of the bathroom and stand in front of the door
>I slowly inhale, knowing that, to get to the bed, she'll have to see me half naked
>I start panicking in front of a mirror that she can see reflection of
>she giggles
>I realize what I've done
>I giggle to
>get to the bed
>she starts a convo but I'm too nervous to keep it up
>some time later we go to sleep
>only her, I couldn't sleep because my heart was racing
>some time during the night she accidentally took the entire blanket
>she realized it, got up, and covered me which was very nice
>when we woke up she asked me why was I breathing heavily, do I have any health issues
>OFUCKME.jpg
>I was so nervous she could actually sense it
>2 more nights like that, we lost the finals, she's crushed
>teacher tries to help my sorry ass and tells me to comfort her
>I do some half assed comforting
>we come back to Montenegro
>I invite her over my place
>we have great fun and talk about everything
Now comes the downfall
>she messages me in a suggestive way
>basically poking to ask her out
>I do nothing
>nothing
>for 3 fucking months
>she thinks I'm not interested
I drank myself to sleep 2 weeks in a row, over a fucking emotion which I never experienced before September
>skip to present, well actually 2 months ago
>she invites me for a walk
>everything is nice, we enjoy some nostalgia, laughing and shit
>turns out she found a boyfriend
>I do my best not to collapse at that moment
>"I'm happy for you, he truly is a lucky dude"
>I try so hard to keep my smile on
>some time later I go home
>drink more
>and more
>and more
There's only me to blame
I missed my chance
kill me

>3 nights in a bed with a girl who has a crush on you
>not being man enough to make a move
bolje ni ne zaslužuješ, sav alkohol na svijetu ti neće pomoći da prestaneš biti beta

Ovo, bukvalno ne mogu negirati
100% ovo

it's ok, something like that happened to me, it's how you learn when a qt wants it now it's now and not even 10 minutes later.

wow...

>Spend years on Sup Forums
>All those laughs, all those times I've been baited, all those times I've raged,
>Never met a single user on here
>I think we all consider each other friends, yet strangers at the same time
>If Sup Forums shut down tomorrow, we'd have no contact with each other anymore.
>Wouldn't matter anyway, because despite conversing for years on the equivalent of anonymous phonecalls, we'd still be strangers.


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Is the juice really worth the squeeze?

You as a man invest, cultivate and keep the relationship afloat (i.e. courtship) while the woman remains passive and reap the benefits.
We're constantly being given tips on how to keep a woman, but what has a woman ever done to keep you? Besides spreading her legs.

Slip up just once and the rug might just be pulled out from under your feet.

Become too emotionally invested and affectionate and you'll be branded "clingy", "too easy" or a "pushover".

Remain emotionally distant and run some inverted asshole game and she'll stray because you "weren't there for her" or you weren't "showing enough appreciation".

The fine line we must walk is enough to drive any man insane.

"Guy friends" will be used as leverage against you in arguments. You'll hear half-truths and bullshit platitudes regurgitated on a daily basis and you better prepare for the ol' run of the mill break-up threat if she wants you to do something which compromises your integrity.

Being in a relationship today will have you sleeping with one eye open.

I don't know... Maybe the negative experiences with a myriad of exes have left me jaded.

I failed

I have a lot of love for my Sup Forums bros

...

>age
26

>lost hope
Maybe. I lost all urges to pursue the opposite sex during college (not gay). Every single attempt has left me more and more discouraged. Why would someone love me, if I can't even love myself?

It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't get asked all the time why I'm still single. I'm just so tired of it all.