Virgins of the 1st world, does virgin-shaming happen in your cunts?

virgins of the 1st world, does virgin-shaming happen in your cunts?

Did you ever got bullied for it?

In Turkey there is no such thing. If you are past 18 and virgin your friends collect money and calls a hooker for you. I alone bought two hookers for my two different friends. One forced the hooker to put the condom on his dick with her mouth in a sexy way and her pimp raided my house to beat us.

Nah depends on your social group. Sounds a bit odd but im still alpha, they respect me anyway and honestly i dont give a shit. If you dont give a shit why should others give a shit? I would laugh if someone made fun of me because of this and if they would continue id just smack them, easy as that. Don't worry just focus on your inner happiness and try to do good and love yourself. Do sports, grow confidence and chicks will come. Personally ive had the chance to lose my virginity a couple of times but at the time i either didnt like myself, had bounding issues or i was just plain autistic towards girls. Nowadays i feel ready.

>still alpha
>still virgin

Kek beta fag.

>Did you ever got bullied for it?
Man, this is hell.
I was in 10th grade, literally surrounded by 15-16 years old people, and i was already getting shit for being a virgin. Jesus fuck, 15 years old and i was already the weird one for not sticking my dick in a bitch?
It only got worse through time. Now i'm 18 and i learned to lie about it once i reached uni.

Better being virgin then paying for sex because you are so so afraid of the opinion of society boohoo. Fucking beta.

Being virgin past a certain age seem so impossible to normies that they'll assume you aren't even if you look like shit.

That sounds pretty masculine and based

I didn't pay for myself. I did it for my m8s. And I'm sorry for my rudeness. Give me your adress and a famous Dutch escort site and I will send you top whores tomorrow.

It is common. A famour businessman recently was caught arranging his 18 year old son an orgy.

No thanks m8 i can wait a little longer, no problem for me.

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>colombia
>brazil
>turkey
>1st world

How can you get bullied for being a virgin, I mean just lie and tell them you already fucked some girl

your attitude/appearance eventually gives away you're a virgin

btw answer my question pls

This is when I realized I was a normie, when girls I talked to always assumed I had past gfs and was not a virgin

I was never bullied in my life, most people don't know I'm a virgin

But what happens when people find out a guy is a virgin in germany

Maybe some people would banter you, but other than that probably nothing. I depends on how old you are. If you're 30 then people will find you weird and avoid you, I guess. If you're 20 then no one will really care

this is already bullying imo

fucking nazis

Not the guy you were talking to, but people will at most make fun of you behind your back and patronize you a bit at work, i.e. they assume you must be a failure at life in general if you're a virgin (they have a point there). Like you said yourself, your appearance and mannerisms give away that you're a virgin in the first 10 minutes of talking to them, so nothing changes if they find out explicitly that you're a virgin - they assumed it from the start. Overall Germany is a pretty good place to be a failure of a human being in some way - people will mostly leave you alone, you do your work and they do theirs.
I can only speak about work etc. because that is what I do, but from what I've gathered from walking around the city at night by myself, you would have a much harder time if you try to take part in night life etc. The alcohol makes people lose their inhibitions and they go out of their way to insult you for any reason they can find.
But then you shouldn't be trying to take part in these kinds of things anyway if you're not socially competent. As long as you work and keep to yourself, you'll be fine, and that's all that matters.

>they assume you must be a failure at life in general if you're a virgin (they have a point there)

I'm a virgin myself but I think that's something we can agree on. Unless you're part of the 1% that is this way by choice, SOMETHING is wrong with you that's keeping you from having relationships.

Top lad
Gay lad

does that mean if i have sex i will suddenly have a different appearance and manner than before?

I do the bullying

Lmaoing at your life OP

Sounds like a great Dad desu.

Yeah, that's true, but there's a lot of difference between having "something wrong" with us and being "failures at life in general".
I-I mean i'm smart a-and get good grades and i-i'm not t-too poor, it's j-just that grils don't notice me.

No, but like I said there's *usually* something wrong with people who are still virgins in their mid-20s that makes them unable to have relationships, which is revealed by their mannerisms and appearance. So it's the other way round: Your appearance and mannerisms will change before you get to have sex (as part of a normal relationship).
Or you could just get lucky and find a girl who likes you despite everything (good luck) - in that case you can stay the same and people might wrongly believe you're a virgin? But like the people who are virgins by choice, these are all fringe cases. I think what I said holds true for the majority of cases.

I see, I still expected it to not be shamed upon, I mean, I expect 1st world people to not care and judge other people on such irrelevant matters

I think asians don't care about it all and it must be pretty common

That's why I wrote "they have a point" instead of "they're completely correct". How old are you btw?

I don't know, I think it's very common in Japan (just googled it, 25% of 30+-year-old Japanese are virgins), but from what I've heard even the legislators are trying to discriminate against them (they wanted to introduce a bachelor tax a while back). Don't know if they're discriminated against in their everyday life, though.

What the fuck, I love Turkey now!

I'm 18, so you could say i'm still not fucked, but the average age to lose your cherry here is around 15-16 years old, so i already get funny looks and disdain.
Doesn't help that i'm a kissless virgin too, never had a gf either.

>6'4
>white by brazilian standards
>easily smartest in college class
>/fit/ as fuck
>i can paint, play instruments, speak languages, etc
>still, never kissed a girl even in the cheeks except for my mom

Don't brazilian girls kiss you in the cheeks and hug you as a greeting? That's pretty normal over here.

>One forced the hooker to put the condom on his dick with her mouth in a sexy way and her pimp raided my house to beat us.

lmao

nobody actually touches your cheeks with their lips here

It's an "Italian greeting" and it's between close friends. Only the cheeks touch. Not every state is like that though, so it's better to stick to the handshake/waving if you want to avoid the awkward moment of a woman dodging from you.

We paid him some money and bought him marlboros and beers and he forgave us and hugged us like a bro.

Do you like Arabs? Arabs like you guys, why don't most turks like them back?

Arabs don't like us.

And

>Turks
>liking others

KEKEKEKE

Only Azeris but we and they have a saying.

>Two countries
>One nation

Guide to avoid getting bullied for being a virgin

>are you a virgin
>no

Arabs started to LOVE turkey after watching a trillion turkish dramas.

if someone asks if you're virgin they already know, they just want confirmation

Texas reporting in.
Bullying seemed to happen more in highschool, back when having sex mattered more to people than what was actually happening in your life, because it was the highest point of the week by a longshot.
Now I'm in university, and literally no one has bothered to ask yet.
Maybe they just look at me and can guess it from my appearance, and just can't be bothered to point it out.
Maybe they're more mature.
Either way, it was only ever really an issue in highschool.

OP asked about 1st world countries only.

>Lost my virginity at 20
>Some of my friends are still virgins in their mid 20's or have very little experience, they aren't even ugly or weird

No one really cares

haven't heard of anything like this
where do you live?

was skins wrong?

Nobody will actually bully you but we will see you as "immature" and "unexperienced".

Cardiff

Yeah, Skins and the inbetweeners are both completely unrealistic. A lot of British teenagers go through a phase of trying to copy skins though.

Successfully being able to attract and have sex with members of the opposite sex is a strong indicator of being socially competent and at least caring somewhat about your appearance. It's not that having sex magically makes you a different person, it's that being totally unable to get it suggests something is definitely wrong with you.

wrong. this is a myth

How is it a myth? It holds for the majority of cases, though there might be a few exceptions.

Are you stupid

I'd have to disagree m80, anyone can get a desperate landwhale on craigslist. It has more to do with a person's sex drive and personality, in particular what kind of female they're attracted to and whether these kinds of people put out easily.

He means naturally, not buying/cheating

What is the perfect breast cup size?

Yeah ok but being attracted to only one very specific type of woman is abnormal in and of itself. In fact, that was part of what made Elliott Rodger insane, if you read his manifesto.

>in particular what kind of female they're attracted to and whether these kinds of people put out easily.

And if a person goes through their teens and nearly all of their twenties without ever encountering and being able to connect with at least one female who they want to and eventually end up having sex with means that they're either a recluse, exceptionally unattractive, or an aspie or some sort.

Where did I say anything about paying for sex? I mean there are women desperate enough that they'll shag literally anyone.

stop this

How can you be a virgin in the era of casual sex and random hookups?

Honestly, if it's such a big deal that you haven't lost it, hire a whore and get it over with. Once you get it over with, getting it again isn't a big deal.

Different for every guy but, personally, Fs.

>Elliot Rodger was an example of a typical 22 year old virgin

Ok

Not always, some people just don't have a high enough sex drive to make the effort to pull strangers, and there are genuinely still some people in the west who wait until marriage to have sex.

>Elliot Rodger was an example of a typical 22 year old virgin
You said that, not me.

I recognize that some people just don't have much of a sex drive or are generally indifferent to people, but such cases constitute a small minority of the overall population. Most people want sex and love and want it quite strongly.

The most important feature is how perky they are. Big tits are nothing if they sag like fucking cow utters.

This. But the question is academic if she's almost as flat as a board.

russian hookers i assume?

It's all about shape

some of the greatest ancoent warriors were virgin.

Wow, you Turks know how to take care of your friends.
Is it like that anywhere else in the Middle East/East Europe?

I'm incel, and people don't know since I have no friends. But it's assumed someone that's a virgin or girlfriendless after 18 is somewhat of a failure

Really, the only time you'll get shit is in high school, after that it stops since you wouldn't be around those people anyway.

He's bullshitting.

Ahhh, I guess part of me knew it was too good to be true.

1 - I'm afraid of women
2 - era of casual sex means the girls only have sex with chads now
I see, thought aus was normier, like, american pie tier of bullying

What state do you live?

I told my first world grill friend that I'm a virgin and never ever had a gf

She was astonished...

GO

That explains. Caipiras are more conservative.

goiânia is normie city and home of the music of normies actually

but people actually touch other people's cheeks with their wet lips on other states?

I always did that but when I was 17 I realised that you only have to touch your cheek with other people cheeks, not with your lips. my family still think that I am gay

I wouldn't say people don't do it every time but it isn't uncommon.

>does virgin-shaming happen in your cunts?

How the fuck would anyone know you're a virgin you stupid sperg?

I can see why you faggots are virgins, I bet you're incredibly autistic and look/dress in some retarded way that just screams you've never had sex. If you look normal it's not even a thought that crosses anyone's mind or anybody mentions.

When the hell was the last time someone asked or insinuated you were a virgin?

it's very normie here, but no one's going out there way to taunt you for not being one

>chads
Please God let this meme die. You do understand that most people are having sex right? Your average Joe is getting laid. This whole "80% of girls are having sex with 20% of men" is a meme that got out of hand.

>it's very normie here, but no one's going out there way to taunt you for not being one

How would anyone know you're a virgin?

Unless you specifically go out of your way to look like you have no social skills and can't hold a conversation it won't even be a thought that crosses anyone's mind.

Are you the guy who asked me if skins was realistic? You need to get this idea that films and shows made for teenagers resemble real life in any way out of your head.

>How would anyone know you're a virgin?

Sometimes people talk about sex and relationships, and most people with no experience with either suck at lying about them to try and fit in with the group. Silence is also usually interpreted as lack of experience.

>Sometimes people talk about sex and relationships

Who.... who talks about sex and relationships?

No one goes "So user... How many girls have you had sex with, on which approximate dates and how did it all go down?". you autists never leave your house anyway, so who exactly is "shaming" you?

People in long term relationships or are married are having regular sex, hookups with strangers are relatively rare

>"I prefer to keep my sex life private"

Is that so fucking hard?

Physical and behavioural cues for one. And when you live in a promiscuous and turbo normie society, it's not hard to figure out who is beta Bobby

virgins are like Jews in Germany here.

>Physical and behavioural cues for one

So act normal you fucking sperg

>turbo normie society
Turbo.... turbo... normal person? I'm not sure I'm understanding

And then they specifically bully on this subject
exemplify

>And then they specifically bully on this subject

When has this ever happened for you?

Describe the scenario when you got bullied for being a virgin

Lachowski?

No. People don't care. It's mostly a private thing besides the occasional bragging to friends kind of thing.

The subject has never even come up in conversation before. I mean, I'm sure my friends know i'm still a virgin, but they don't care enough to even make a comment on it