Be honest, how many of you guys are losers, or NEETs

Be honest, how many of you guys are losers, or NEETs.

Sometimes I just come here because I honestly don't have any friends; I think I just vent out my frustration here and blame niggers and Jews for things because it's fun and makes me feel better about myself.

Most of the gamers I play with always yell nigger and Jews, and when I look at their Steam profiles they usually have 100+ weekly hours, me included.

I don't have a job, I pretty much just browse here and cycle between four different games. When I lose I always call the opposing team a nigger or a faggot or something offensive, and it got me thinking about how I always made fun of blacks for living off welfare when I live under my parents.

I've never really put thought into this, but am I the only one here like this? Is the redpill just cynicism, not any real truth?

I'm so fucking pathetic, this place is the only place that makes me feel like I have a voice in the world. I tried Reddit once but then I couldn't hold an argument and resorted to name calling, but here our Id's are reset per thread so I could just post anything without repurcussions.

I don't know, but honestly, is anyone here successful, so I know I'm not backing up an ideal consisting of a bunch of failures. Like proof that you go to a good school or a good job, it would make me feel a lot better about myself, I'm having an epiphany

i'm a 26 year old kissless friendless ugly fat autistic virgin neet

rate

10/10 sounds like a good life

NEET master race amirite

Australia has our attention today kiddo

At least you're good enough to not rationalize and to fully understand your situation.
Playing games and scrolling autistic websites isn't a bad thing as long as you are living a fulfilling life in general, so don't blame yourself that much - start changing with small.
It's difficult to give you exact advices, but seems like your temper is relatively hot, so maybe excluding stresses like online games will help, also meditations can tweak your brain so that you won't rage as much

How can I get started becoming a productive and healthy person? I feel like Sup Forums and videogames are my two biggest obstacles.

21 yo, kv but live on my own and go to uni. but i waste all of my free time by playing and shitposting. haven't attended a single party, while everyone else in my class has, which has made me an outsider to them

Have you ever had the desire to change something major about your life?

I'm starting to have this feel.

>Have you ever had the desire to change something major about your life?
no, i still enjoy my simple and boring life. had chat about this subject with my normie roommate just yesterday and he did say to me that i should go and study abroad and start going to those parties, but i just said no thanks

So what's your plan, just keep doing this until you get bored?

Personally I'm pretty bored of this life, it's not that fun to post on Sup Forums and play videogames all day, I'm thinking about giving it a rest and trying to actually become successful.

Being a loser doesn't strictly make you a NEET.
But it strictly does the other way around.

Think about that little piece of information, my friend from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada.

that's my short-term plan for now

Oh. Well yeah I guess it's fun for a while but it's getting pretty old for me personally, I think i might try to make some significant changes in my life and see where it gets me.

Maybe you should consider it too, since Sup Forums/videogames don't really leave you with anything and you'll eventually regret your time wasted on them.

Well, the most obvious example is obese people. What do they do to start living healthier?

0. They change their mindset.

If you are not willing to commit, why bothering? Moreover, if you don't have a proper understanding of yourself, you may end up stressing a lot. So changing yourself from the inside is the most important thing.
Also don't forget that some wishes may be the product of your inner void - some people tryhard because they're empty inside and it's the way to fill the void. They don't solve the real problem. Questions yourself.

1. Excluding addictive stimuli from your closest environment.

How can you stop eating addictive junk food if it's right inside your fridge? Getting rid of it and not buying is the first step. So delete your games, porn, block addictive websites - they fill the void, but don't make happy.

2. Taking care of yourself in general.

Proper diet, correct sleep cycles, exercises are just tools to make your brain work better. So if you're broken on this level, I have no idea how it's possible to easily force yourself to work. It's your health's basis.

3. Starting with small.

Plan your day beforehand (morning routine is important), don't get distracted (if you don't NEED to open Sup Forums, why would you?), use pomodoro technique.

4. Changing your social life.

If people that you are connected with drag you down, why having them around?
Maybe finding people who are also interested in changing themselves will be a good thing.
I should probably find someone, too.

So that's it, I guess. Sorry if it looks autistic - the language barrier is huge for me.

That actually makes sense, Ivan.

>1. Excluding addictive stimuli from your closest environment.
For this part I think I'll block Sup Forums in my router settings which means I'll only be able to browse it with shitty data(if i wanted to) which would be a good deterrent.

>Plan your day beforehand (morning routine is important), don't get distracted (if you don't NEED to open Sup Forums, why would you?), use pomodoro technique.
Think part i think is the most important for me, my days kind of lack any sort of structure or planning. I think if i were to plan them out well and get the most important things done everything would work a lot smoother.

>If people that you are connected with drag you down, why having them around?
You're right on this part too, I suppose it's like throwing out clothes or other possessions you don't use much anymore.

Honestly lads it isn't much better having a good job, friends, money, being in good shape, etc

it doesn't change the fact that you are a loser

i go out to bars all the time with my normie friends but deep down inside i hate it and don't share anything in common with the types of people who visit these establishments

even though my friends share a "goofy" sense of humor that i can relate to, and generally enjoy each other's company, it doesn't change the fact that i still feel just as alone as i did in high school when i didn't really have any friends

and i don't want to sound ungrateful, as i love my friends, but having friends and a good job don't necessarily = happiness

i don't mean to be a downer but just remember material things mostly mean nothing, you should chase what really makes you happy instead

and unlike others i don't regret the last 7-8 years i've spent here as i have enjoyed myself on this site more than i have IRL on many occasions

I think morally speaking i started giving in when I was 14, and frankly I just realised in the end nobody really cares (unless an important/popular being dies, then its write an essay to get attention time) and you have to get everything done for yourself. Stop assuming people will be cooperative etc etc

I don't think most people here are /r9k/ or Sup Forums levels of bad, but definitely still very cynical

>Think part i think is the most important for me, my days kind of lack any sort of structure or planning. I think if i were to plan them out well and get the most important things done everything would work a lot smoother.
Same here, actually. The problem is that my job and university are more goal-oriented than measured hourly, so for me it's also about being both efficient and hardworking. Just finished my breakfast, so I'm going to start my working day now, by the way.

>You're right on this part too, I suppose it's like throwing out clothes or other possessions you don't use much anymore.
Nope. It's more like not hanging out with drug addicts. You can also talk to them about this, but obviously it's unlikely they'll listen, so focus primarily on yourself. Don't be scared to burn bridges, especially if they only drag you down.

I'm recently divorced, the very first thing I did after she moved out was buying a PS4 and a racing bicycle

now I'm so happy being a boy again,
I still go to work, walk my dogs, have a chat with neighbors and go to a pub/bar/restaurant on friday night, sometimes alone just to meet new people
I feel good living alone, does that make me a NEET/looser ?

True Sup Forums has been a truely educational site, but it always ticks me when my irl friends start talking about memes 10-9 months stale

Maybe abit of a loser, but you've still got a job

22, been a NEET for 4-5 years

end it

>Nope. It's more like not hanging out with drug addicts.

That's exactly like throwing out clothes or other possessions lol.

"Well I had fun wearing these jeans for a couple years, but they're old now and i'd be better to buy new ones" - "Well I had fun with these friends for a few years now but they're degenerates and my time is better spent with new ones"

>you should chase what really makes you happy instead

What if those things are what i think will make me happy?

What if I truthfully regret every moment I don't spend working on my ideas and hate every minute i waste on Sup Forums or some degenerate shit like videogames?

The analogy with clothes implies that you don't actually care about these people.
But in reality you basically have to do this, otherwise these people will stop your own progress. It's a different thing than just "throwing", you know.

Literally this except 27

idk I have a job and a few friends but I still shitpost on Sup Forums and play video games during most of my free time.


Just do whatever makes you feel good about yourself. If spending all your time on vidya doesn't please you, do something else. It's cliche but you really just have to man the fuck up and take control of your life and show some initiative. A few months ago I decided I wanted to go visit my friend on the other side of the country that I haven't spoken to in years. So I decided fuck it i'm going to actually do this and not just dream about it like I did with everything else I wanted to do before. I fucking called him up, made plans, fucking hopped on a train and spent 2 days travelling across the country and it was one of the best experiences of my life and it completely changed my perspective. We really can do whatever we want (relatively speaking), you just have to have the courage and determination to do it. Nothing will change if you don't change

>you just have to have the courage and determination to do it. Nothing will change if you don't change

True shit senpai

what's wrong with playing video games?
if you can live on your own and play vidya in your free time

also OP, don't compare yourself to others

The problem is that i don't enjoy it anymore. Just seems like a waste of time when there's such a dynamic world outside.

Thing is, it made me more cynical, like the only reason I'm not picked on so much is that I'm one of the few competent people in my class (whereas afew years beforehand it was the opposite), and that really killed whatever sense of will I had with connecting with my class etc