After being shit on by women for 10 YEARS, I have finally snapped. After 10 YEARS of being faithful, supportive and loving in relationships only to to be emotionally beaten down and used for money and attention, I have had enough.
I'm swearing off women and dating. Completely. I've had enough. No more. Tonight was the final straw.
So, my question is, what should I focus my attention on instead? I'm going to have a lot more free time from now on.
Any Sup Forumsros had similar revelations?
James Sanders
I agree man, I just dont see the point. literally 99% of the women I met are just plain fucking retarded or manipulative and cunty.
An arranged marriage is in my future though so its not all bad. In the meantime, porn quality is only going up.
Xavier Moore
>Any Sup Forumsros had similar revelations?
Yes. I'm gay.
Jacob Walker
Agreed on the porn... aren't you sad about the arranged marriage?? Surely that's going to put you in some sort of legal exposure to keep her happy?
Lucky you
John Green
Yep.
Jace Brown
oh damn, is she cosplaying Priss S. Asagiri from Bubblegum Crisis 2040?!
Joshua Bennett
self improvement. learn a new skill, language, something.
Alexander Rodriguez
I can hear all the women in the world crying because you're no longer available to them
Oh wait that's just the sound of me farting lol nm
Easton Morgan
I didn't really have a sudden realization. Instead, after many horrible dating experiences, I gradually found that there were more and more things that I'd rather do than chase women. Flirting/dating is now so low on my priority list that I just don't do it any more. I got sports cars to drive, weights to lift, and mountains to climb instead.
Zachary Sanchez
I am literally dropping a turd as I type this. Lol.
James Gray
Build something
Joseph Johnson
Kek.
Nobody will care except some indignant female family members who will get all salty about me still not having married someone.
Jaxson Brown
Get yourself a hot asian trap that likes vidja games and dorritos
fixed
Oliver Martinez
That's more like what I want to be.
Joshua Miller
go out and do whatever the fuck you want to, OP. there are plenty of hobbies and things that you can do to fulfill your life and not one of them necessarily means getting into a relationship with a girl. you can fuck as many other women as you want with out staying committed to one. one night stands shouldn't be that hard to come by.
Christopher Scott
Without sounding too narcissistic, I think im actually a great guy lol. I think love is about learning to love someone rather than the love at first sight bullshit.
As long as shes not batshit insane, then things should be good. My parents know a lot of people and I get to choose so I dont really see the downside.
Daniel Cooper
Get into the arts.
Dominic Taylor
Any creative pursuits you want, now is the time.
Jordan Long
I know what you mean man. Majority of women are either cringey fucking weebs, complete retards, or cunty bitches that take your money. I dated this one girl that I knew in high school. Was a complete gentleman, took her on dates, helped her out when her friend attempted suicide. And she left me for a short chink weeb.
Feels bad man.
Noah Martinez
Then just start trying things.
I hit rock bottom a couple of years ago after being cheated on by the 4th girlfriend in a row and nearly killed myself. I decided to give it my all to try to make myself happy, and if I didn't succeed after a year, I'd kill myself then. I tried a constant stream of new activities from crochet to krav maga, and eventually settled on some that actually put joy in my life.
Jose Reyes
curious. What happened, the last straw tonight?
Levi Bailey
OP here, a bit of background
Two 5 year relationships almost back to back Plus about 7 or 8 short relationships / flings
All I ever do is waste time and money on these idiots and the only payment they have to offer is sex and company. I get company (and better company) from my close friends and I can go out and buy sex if I want.
I watch family friends, who's marriages I thought were rock stable, crumble and I watch the man lose the rights to see his kids and get half his assets taken.
Women are a joke. I'm going to focus on myself. Probably should start by browsing Sup Forums less lol
Nolan Brown
Should have never spent that long dating people if you arent going to marry them. Date for a bit and if shes a cunt then dip. Dont settle for who ever says yes first.
In my opinion just go out talk to broads and get some pussy, then find something to tinker with. I tinker and build my car, works good because the ladies like my car and usually thats how i start talking to them haha
Cooper Wood
See I understand your pain, man. The last 5 year relationship ended about a year ago and for a month all I could do was focus on the basics like eating and sleeping. I was a mess and I felt there was a threat and a panic right in my face that I couldn't get rid of. I had to talk myself through making breakfast. Why would I put myself through that again?
Adam Watson
Oh, sorry. I misread your post.
There's a girl called Christina who I've been planning to see for a while. My work has been busy and I've never had the time. We've been talking over a bit of distance and she got stroppy when I didn't have the time away from my business to see her. She text me saying she didn't want any talk and she wanted action now.
Last week she said that we weren't a "thing" and we should probably shouldn't be as informal towards each other. Tonight I call her and she lets me know she's going to a guy friend's house for "shenanigans" and then hangs up on me.
It's literally the same shit that's always happened, except this one I hadn't got attached to yet. She pulled the trigger before the bullet was in the chamber. But it was enough for a revelation.
Luis Bell
yes i have, focused on myself and pursued fixing up an ancient motorcycle and snagged a woman who saw me riding it who has proven time and again she puts me first and is truly selfless in most things.
good luck
Gabriel Wood
kys ALONE AT A ICE MACHINE IN A MOTEL
Adam Davis
Thanks man, what motorcycle out of interest?
Is that an obscure reference?
Nathaniel Mitchell
1970-1976 honda cb750, the SOHC models. they're common, simple, powerful and cost effective. find a rusty complete one for hundreds.
in it's heyday it was the pinnacle of streetbikes.
buy the Clymer manual and get to work.
Xavier Morgan
How does one pay for sex? I know escorts, but how do I not get arrested?
I think sex is something that'll help me mentally for a lot of reasons.
Adrian Diaz
>I'm swearing off women So...you're gay now? > and dating Who the fuck is still 'dating'? I haven't been out a with a chick more than once or twice (if they won't fuck on first date, obviously) in a very long time. Women are horrible, awful things, no argument. However they're still the best thing to cum on/in when the need arises. Just use them for what they were designed, OP, don't let the bitches get you down. That said, put your $ in a new/better gaming PC, that's pretty much all I do and I'm perfectly happy with the situation.
Jaxon Martinez
dunt listen to this cynical defeatist just really focus on yourself and the subsequent confidence will attract the right woman, the observant and empathetic one.
Mason Cooper
Very nice
When I was out in Spain, I frequented brothels, no idea in the US. You'll probably get caught by some feminazi sting televised expose over there.
... do people not date anymore?
Andrew Mitchell
Brew various alcohols. Mead is a good one. Maybe build something, like a vehicle, a house, or even a fuckin rocket. Maybe just sit around playing with legos like a kid. Do whatever the fuck you want.
Mason Cooper
No, she's cosplaying the best Overwatch girl pic related
Joshua Gomez
I'm pretty much there too. My last ex did it, I think. I loved her and was very good to her, I was better than anyone had ever been to her, and I still got shit on.
I tried getting back into dating with limited success. I can't trust women anymore, I just assume they're lying to me all the time. I can't help it.
So what I've started doing is I take myself over to Europe a few times a year. I fuck escorts, girls in red light districts, brothel girls. I just fuckibg party for two weeks. Then I come home and I feel fucking great for like 6 months.
Shit's pretty great. I get crazy sex with impossibly gorgeous women, I've lived out basically every one of my sexual fantasies, I haven't gotten any STDs, there's no bullshit, and funny thing, it's actually cheaper in the long run than dating.
I heartily recommend it.
William Stewart
OP here. I want to party with people like you!
Josiah Price
yeah, women are garbage but dont kid yourself, men are twice as worse. people are trash
Zachary Young
Sauce on those photoshopped tits?
Cameron Rodriguez
Amsterdam is a good starting point. Not the greatest commercial sex scene, a bit pricier than other places, but it's incredibly accessible and 100% legal and there's a great bar scene to meet people you can chill with. Maybe even meet an old monger like me to show you the ropes. Give it a go, if you enjoy yourself, you can start looking into Prague and Germany and wherever else.
Joshua Collins
go for the high score op
Isaac Campbell
this concentrate on yourself. do the things that make you happy, fulfill your needs, broaden your horizons.
we men spend too much time, money, and other less palpable resources on women, who are always a losing investment of any of these things.
you have an open door to a whole new world before you. step over that threshold, Sup Forumsrother, and never look back.
Jacob Morales
I might be cynical, but how am I defeatist? I'm very happy with my life, have plenty of time to do the things I want and feel no need for a long term relationship.
Jason Johnson
>... do people not date anymore? Most of the time, I should think...?
Jackson Turner
...
Owen Williams
>trusting 3d women serves you right, normie get a 2d waifu