How do you deal with your gf having a buff ex? This is the second time it happens

How do you deal with your gf having a buff ex? This is the second time it happens.

It's like they date this gym rat who they later decide to avoid all together and play it safe with someone like me

Be secure enough that she loves you for you. Doubt it and lose. Also you should be buff, manlet.

this, you are a beautiful snowflake OP she loves you for you

I can only imagine the loneliness of the person who posted this

Men and women consider different things attractive, I've had girls with large buff boyfriends cheat with me back when I was skinnyfat.

But honestly you should at least go for a swimmer's build.

Not OP. Not everyone has enough free time or money to do nothing but work out all the time. I'm lucky enough that my job doing contracting and demo keeps me in good shape. Not everyone is so lucky. On the other hand, why alter your body for someone else? If you bulk up do it for you not some bitch.

Working out takes like 3-5 hours per week. It's not that hard. You don't have to look like a bodybuilder but you should try to look like you aren't sedentary.

shh.... ignorant people will be ignorant

don't buy her anything and see if she stays
if she does, she's yours
if she doesn't, she never was

also, gay

It will take you 45 minutes a day for a couple of years to be buff enuff to release the inner girl who is typing to us.

Thanks. Yea I started going to the gym again. Personality is great, but I can tell she misses the body

I like that she loves me but I also want to be lust after

Yea I started going to the gym again. I was running a lot and lost a lot of fat but had no muscle. So I'm gonna start that "lean bulk" life. I want to get like James Khan

Yea. A big issue was that he had no real job, pushed carts at a retail store, had no ambition, failed out of the police academy, and was all around not a good bf, good constantly meet with other girls.

I'm gonna get in shape for me. I want the feeling of knowing I can be my best self. Plus it annoys me how dishonest she is about my body as I've caught looking at buff dudes like she missed it. Granted it was a one time thing but still. I might not stay with her after I reach my goals.

FWIW you will not look like James Khan without taking roids.

I go for about 1 hr and 15 min. 4 times a week now. I only have 4 months in but I know if I keep it up I'll eventually get to a nice point in a couple years

FWIW if you're not roiding the fuck up you're doing it wrong and should gtfo of my gym
#whateverittakes

We're both in a bad financial situation at this time. More me tho. I just hate how she can't be honest about liking buff guys. She says she doesn't care but we've had a bump once in the relationship with a buff aquaintance. Nothing happened I just called her out on something which she admitted to and cried about

You don't think he's natty? He's been at it for a few years tho

Combo with a strict diet maybe?

its not even being buff that kills the inner girl
its working to physically improve your fucking body. bitch ass op go to the gym right now and when you get back youll already feel like a non bitch

OP here. I've been going already and been seeing gainz. I wish it would be faster tho.

For all you obese and skinny b/ros out there, even a little bit helps! You'd be surprised. It's the consistency that people fail at. 4 months strong, almost at 5 months and there's been noticable changes

try the seven minute workout. there are thousands of apps and really it's just short bursts of calisthenics, pretty easy after the first week. It makes you a little more fit and improves your posture. believe it or not, this might be enough to make her eye a little more loyal. not getting all buff but at least getting something.

remember, just like with women, it's all about the package. a chad who beats his bitches is never gonna last. a complete beta with a huge cock only goes for so long.

So, improve your overall package in little ways that matter to her is often just enough. She sounds pretty chill. I'd work on getting a little fit and trusting her just enough not to get paranoid. I mean, don't be dumb, but get on with it before she does.