Am I the only one whose father was abusive?

Am I the only one whose father was abusive?

>lashed with leather belt
>punched in the face
>throw against walls
>stepped on, kicked

N-not that it affected me, nope, ha-ha...

you need to report him to the police

It was my mother

>>lashed with leather belt
>>punched in the face
>>throw against walls
>>stepped on, kicked

Let me guess: He is a conservative and very right-wing?

Unironically, yeah, how did you figure it out?

When i was young, my father used to beat me up with leather belt and punch me in the face and sometimes kick me in the stomach while i was on the ground screaming in pain. One day i was helping him carry some asbestos roof sheets to our roof and he threw one of the tiles against my back and it cut a large wound on my back.
These days he just gets drunk and smokes weed and abuses me verbally like calling me a mentally ill loser gay piece of shit who will die a virgin.

and say what?
>Hello, when I was 5 my father beat me like a pimp beats a whore who steals from him.

My dad was fine but my mum was very abusive. Punches, pinching, hair-pulling, kicking, etc.

you deserved it for being a useless pos

/Father hate thread/
Fuck fathers desu

Let me guess. You also all hate God and any type of masculine authorities as well

Nowadays everyone says they were abused as a child in some way, it's a bit annoying.

t. grew up in an upper class family with both his parents

I was abused by my older twin siblings
Apparently, they didn't like me for my behavior from when I were 3-5y.o. old

that's hilarious

no but my father has completely abandoned me after he married his new wife and had a baby

>>stepped on, kicked
sounds like he was playing his fetish fantasies on you

Why are BRs so violent? It's a vicious cycle.

>Screamed at me when I need it him to help me with my bullying problems in school
>Never helped me after when I a guy tried to kill me in school. I was bleeding from my head
>hit me with leather belt
>punished me in the face multiple time
>screams at me when I don't do religious stuff

Learn from us when he gets old throw him into a nursing home run by niggers who will shit in his IV bag.

>be 10 year old me
>Accidentally break my father's glasses
>Dad locks me in my room for a week and feeds me 3 loaves of bread along with 3 cups of milk and water for a week
>He ends up repairing it for free after that week because it was some rare brand

His punishments were either normal beatings with a whip/cord or weird stuff like what i previously mentioned. I remember he spat on my face once.

I hope the best for everyone in this thread.

That is pretty common for people with that kind of political identity.

t. someone who got the living shit beaten out of him when he was young

Mine has similar political attitudes (at least when it comes to sand people mass immigration, a bit more "leftist" in its actual sense, i.e. worker rights) but never did that shit. On the contrary, when some idiots who tried to bully me when I was in 5th grade (they in 7th back then), the moment I spoke up at home, he went to them and fucked their shit up so I had peace ever since.
There's a healthy middle ground between super Japan/Korea/China tier authoritarian upbringing on one hand and anarcho-hippie "let your kids do everything" attitude on the other

Huh. Mine had right-wing views too. He hated westerners and blamed the jews for stupid shit. You know, that kind of stuff.

I think the "right-left" in its modern definition is a false dichotomy anyways. How can mass immigration of the low class of the 3rd world be a "leftist" thing, when it actually hurts the native & established immigrant working class?
"Right-left" in its classical sense means how much economy should be related, while nationalism vs internationalism is on a completely different axis

>related,
*regulated

Am I the only one who basically didn't have a father?
No, that's the experience of my generation of the middle class.

N-not that it affected me, nope, ha-ha...

My father was a long distance truck driver and was rarely home.

no he was barely there

Prefer this to beatings desu

>tfw my father is a surgeon
>tfw he used to dislocate my joints and fix them later as punishment

I assume this is still different though.
At the point where my parents split up, parental authority basically vanished completely. My mother lost any moral authority and could only assert herself via (material) threats and my father was like an odd kind of friend that you only see every now and then.

I guess that is true. I claim that the long term damage of this as compared to that is underrated, however.

Holy fuck. . .

My father was never around either desu and it's had a bad effect on me, particularly back in school. I've seen borderline abusive parents first hand though and it's something else man, not even comparable.

Not everyone has a picture perfect dad, but its up to you to learn from the way he was shitty and be better.

As far as I can remember my father has been verbally abusing my mom. Seen her too many times trying to off herself. From drinking pills, dousing herself with fuel, trying to jump in a river, attempting to drink poison (I barely grabbed the bottle from her hand). Witnessing all of that and more have had ill effects on me and my other siblings.

I'm married now, hoping to get kids soon. Its up to us to break the cycle anons

0.1% here, my parents were almost never home because of work, I grew up with nannies and I don't think they ever kept one more than 5 months. When I was 15 they sent me to a private school in Paris (I'm from Luxembourg), and I only see them for Christmas since then.
It never really bugged me out to be honest, they never laid a hand on me, we almost never got into a fight, they're fun and very relax, I like them very much.

Jesus that's rough, sorry man.

>Had a decent family
>Still a virgin at 30

I am not going to complain compared to you guys, but I seriously wonder how I can be such a failure.

Both my mother and father had rough upbringings and they've been the best parents one could wish for

>des jeunes, ivres, crient dans ma rue

I'm sorry that's happened to you and your mother user. I wish you can forget the pain one day.

>Its up to us to break the cycle anons

No, the cycle ends here, I'm not passing the mental torment into another living being.

>get beaten by dad as a kid
>start fighting back around 16
>neighbors call cops
>get arrested and convicted of domestic battery
>lose gun rights for life
I'm probably going to off myself. I might as well be on the sex offender registry.

I feel bad because whenever my father beat me he made sure to let me know how much of a fag I was for even thinking about crying.

My grandfather was much more brutal with my father than my father was with me, that's something that was perfectly clear from the get go (I know this from stories my uncles told me and from hearing it from by Grandfather himself). It was common punishment for my father to have dogs thrown at him, get beaten with a machete, left outside in the countryside during dark hours etc...

So I feel I shouldn't complain because my father suffered worse.... it still hurts though. I also lived with my grandfather for a while and he mistreated me a lot my mother says.

My grandmother was an angel though.

i want to give so many of you a big long hug

marry me before so I can get a green card, please.

I'm already married, and I want my wife to get the life insurance money. I'm worth over $3,000,000 dead.

do you not like your wife?
do you have kids?

She won't get it if you an hero.

I love my wife, and she deserve better than me. No kids - nobody with domestic battery on his record should have kids.
The policies are all over 3 years old.

>>lose gun rights for life
A fate worse than death for us burgers.

Yea man, thanks.

Same with my parents, but my mother was abused as a child. Dragged by her hair, steady scolding but she is the kindest soul I know. She would take the last she has and give it to someone who asks her.

But my dad...he started working from the age of 12 because his father died and he was responsible for providing for the family of his 7 siblings and his mom. Both parents uneducated so they didn't send him school. His mom used to hit his head into the house posts, beat him with kitchen utensils etc.

Just reminiscing is enough to break me. I hope so too.

>The policies are all over 3 years old.
I'm pretty sure suicide voids the claim regardless.

you're not alone. also, stop defining your value by the state of your virginity. that's unhealthy as fuck.

My dad never beat me but he always used to tell me how useless I was, called me garbage, pig, etc.

I often wished he would punch me just so I could have an excuse to punch him.

I'd have preferred beatings to verbal abuse, desu. Maybe it would have toughened me up in some ways rather than me having negative self-confidence and constant anxiety and depression due to my natural though processes.

The people who should show us the most love are the ones that hurt us the most, that's what life taught me and I'm sure you can relate.

I'd rather my dad beat me than ignore me. If your dad beat you, yeah it feels rough, but it's way of loving you.

>The people who should show us the most love are the ones that hurt us the most

I'm a hick, so not being able to legally possess firearms actually raises red flags in my community.
That's incorrect. There's usually a time period of 3-10 years. I'm considered low risk, so mine are all 3 year minimum policies.
I've looked into this.

my dad mentally abused me too

He believes in spanking too, and hit me a few times when I was a young child. He wanted to spank me lots, but my mother stopped him from physically hurting me. She was ok with the mental abuse though

>it's way of loving you
That's some fucked up "grass is always greener" thinking, bud. Often they do it because they never wanted to be a father, and they're taking out their resentment towards you in the most logical way. My dad hit me because my existence fucked up his life.

reading this thread made me feel worse about my life, I had no abusive parents but I still turned out to be a loser

>because my existence fucked up his life

How?

but you're a mentally normal loser, and you can easily be a Chad. We're mentally ill losers who will struggle through life

>all these 3rd worlders with violent daddies
My mom used to make me kiss her pussy, I feel lucky.

no trust me, my life is over. I'm schizophrenic and I haven't left my home in over 2 years.

I wasn't wanted. He could have been doing anything else, but instead, I was his albatross. As if that's not bad enough, I'm also stupid, socially inept, and just generally weird. So, not only does he get burdened with having to provide for a kid he never wanted, but he gets a dud to boot!

loving family and never bullied
I'm mentally fucked anyway when i was 5 i off hand said there wasn't really any music in particular I liked and rolled with it until i feel embarrassed about publicly enjoying music to this day

>I wasn't wanted.

What makes you think he didn't want you when he could've easily bought a condom and used it to prevent you from existing? I think you're beating yourself too much and it's not healthy, cheer up. You're not the cause of your parents' misery. Stop thinking like that.

didn't know I was broswing r9k

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>What makes you think he didn't want you
He said so. Even when he wasn't mad, his running joke was to ask people if they wanted to buy a kid, referring to me.
>he could've easily bought a condom and used it to prevent you from existing
He's not a very responsible person, and sex with condoms isn't fun.
>You're not the cause of your parents' misery
They claim otherwise.
Either way, I'm too fucked up to have kids of my own. My wife wants kids, and she deserves a great guy who can give her that.

Get on my level boi. I'm a high-school dropout and was a shut-in for 4 years. I've been depressed since age 14 yet I'm still fixing my situation. There is a lot of time ahead of us and it's our choice how we spend it.

>and she deserves a great guy
why dont you change yourself to be that guy, so then you could forget your past and live a great life?

>He said so. Even when he wasn't mad, his running joke was to ask people if they wanted to buy a kid, referring to me.

He didn't mean it literally. Parents, as much as we expect them to be model human beings who are supposed to cater to all of our emotional needs, are human beings too and can still make mistakes. Some parents can have a rash sense of humour because of their upbringing, it's just how they are sometimes. My dad would constantly call me a loser whenever I talk to women, it's just his way of humour. It's not very respectful sure, but he's your dad, he's not there to harm you.

>He's not a very responsible person

How do you know? I mean you seem well educated, you have an internet connection and I'm assuming he bought food for you as a child to help you grow. I think he's trying his best to fill in his responsibilities, and it's unfair to judge him so harshly.

>she deserves a great guy who can give her that.

DON'T think like that. It just becomes a pitfall from there where you think you're absolute shit at everything, so you just stop trying altogether. Now it won't really affect you, but when you get older and you realise all the potential you wasted, it will hit you like a truck.

Anyway, I'm glad you vented out a bit. You must feel better now.

I can't change certain basic things about myself, and that still wouldn't change my legal situation if I changed everything about myself. It's more about my baggage than anything I'm lacking. Do you know how embarrassing it is to be asked by a border guard about being arrested for domestic battery?
Also, if I can't teach my kids to hunt, then I'm not a real man.

>He didn't mean it literally.
He sure as Hell did mean it when he was angry with me. Of course the offers to sell me were a joke, but it's still part of a pattern of behavior.
>I mean you seem well educated, you have an internet connection
I have a high school education, and internet access is ubiquitous here
>I'm assuming he bought food for you as a child to help you grow.
He was legally obligated to do so, and that's why he resents me.
>when you get older and you realise all the potential you wasted, it will hit you like a truck.
It has. My 32nd birthday fucked me up pretty badly. That's one year older than my parents were when they had me.
>Anyway, I'm glad you vented out a bit. You must feel better now.
I do. Thanks for listening.

well, you can teach how to do a real hunting, with just things you find in nature, like rocks and sticks to make weight traps, lifting traps, crushing traps, bows, arrows, slingshots

it is kinda of primitive but its a lot more rewarding than you may think, especially if you have a creative mind

t.Br CIGS

Of course I could, and I am a skilled bowhunter. Still, it's a cultural thing. Where I'm from, boys ages 10+ aren't expected to be in class on the first day of rifle season.

Honestly that's pretty hot

What is with hicks and shooting things

Get another hobby

the worst thing about being beaten by and disliking my father is that i am still completely dependent on his money
i had no motivation for life since i was 12 and finally forced to do something after beating my sister and getting arrested shortly after graduating high school and now im living in some place he rented out while i work 3 jobs my mom drives me to every day
i hold no anger against him because i know his own father was very distant to him and he’s even apologized for being too harsh when i was younger but i still feel so much shame because i considered him my enemy for so long and still dependent on him when im almost 19

Your mom is sex offender though

Try depending on your father when you're 28.

All japs are sex offenders

>My dad would try to attack me all the time so I wouldn’t become a “pussy” in his words
>My mom would shield me with her body
>When I was about 8 or 9 he got bored with beating her up and assraped her in front of me
>I remember one time he put out his cigarette on my scalp
>Made me get drunk and sing for his friends
>Pushed me down the stairs when I called him a faggot

I’m still surprised I didn’t become a serial killer or some shit.

i guess you could come to america and become a wageslave there are multiple people i know who live like that because of their past but they make good money just no life for couple years

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why do you gotta ruin my mood, user?
I'm so sorry if true.

>tfw had good dad but turned out disappointment

Don’t be, it actually did toughen me up. Now I’m emotionally dead and nihilistic. Everyday is observing the silent apathy of the universe until the end comes.

Sorry if that was a bit edgy.

I hate that people do things like that toward human beings.

He did you a favor though. The world he brought you into is fucked-up.

>occasionally beat me for bad grades and usual kid fuck-ups
>was always "that dad" at soccer games, screaming at his kid (me) for not being aggressive enough, alarming the other parents to the point where they had to ask him to either stop screaming or stop coming to games
>when my sister wouldn't eat her breakfast, force fed her until she threw up
>flung my other five year-old sister out of bed because she wouldn't stop crying, kicked her etc
>eventually tried to hang himself from the deck in front of the entire family when he found out my mom was divorcing him
He's actually really shy and timid in personal interactions with people he doesn't know, and was only ever a tough bully when around people who were smaller and weaker than him. After his suicide attempt and the divorce, all this shit stopped. He became this pathetic emasculated clown who went around begging for some kind of recognition from his family members. Some of them gave it, and in the last photo I saw of him he was actually making the soyface

None of this affected me of course, and today I'm very normal and successful and well-adjusted

>mfw good parents

Damn You guys have fucked up parents. My parents doctrine was the mix of Japanese traditional authoritarian dogmas and Westernern liberalism. I think beating the fuck out of you is the job of teachers.

>i guess you could come to america

lol bro I'm from Brazil in case you didn't notice.

shit

my dad wasn't really that physically abusive beyond rough, roughhousing, but he was a drunk.

I think growing up in a Christian community and seeing how unfulfilled everybody is here and how there are lots of problems has pushed me toward thinking like a jew instead, because I still like semetic culture but I want to remove all the wrong European pagan influences from it that cause such degeneracy to happen in the first place. Would you say Judaism is better than Christianity?

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I was abused by mother, when I was 7-10 years old. She always was on the edge because of hungry times. We didn't have enough money and food, she worked a lot and after a job could beat me with father's leather belt or just called me a worthless brat.

Moreover my classmates were bullying me, so that were hard times for me.

Sorry to hear that user.

OP was probably a little shit so this father had to discipline him and the police would probably join in and beat the shit out of him.